ban-one
Works for panties
I actually had a girlfriend with a very shallow canal, and she used to tell me I wasn't "too big" for her, which didn't sound great, but also "I love your size, you fit me perfectly" which I loved. Although rather than satisfy her with my "not too big" cock (sigh) I would get her stupidly wound up with foreplay, kissing, caressing, fingers and YES, eating, so she was almost having her orgasm upon my first entry. Actually, that's still my trick. She won't care if I lose my load in 5 minutes if she's left trembling.
Besides, I'd rather eat a pussy for an hour than fuck it for an hour. I'm weird like that.
I don't think it's stupid to get a girl all wound up before sending your little soldier in. I like to take it slow, kiss and fondle as we slowly strip until she can't stand it anymore, and then give her atleast one orally and another with my fingers first, if not a couple, depending on how horny she already was. Takes the pressure off because she's already cum alteast twice, no matter what else I do or how long I last, and it also makes it easier for her to cum on my cock once I do get in her. Though, if she's really wanting it, I have skipped ahead to penetration, but I usually then go until I'm about to blow, to pull out and give her oral and fingers for alittle bit before going back in. That's also a good way to extend the session, and after having stopped short a few times, it makes the end so much better