Re: Lucy Wilde / Lucie Wilde
I wonder what prompted such young sweet girl to choose a such profession?
What makes a lot of us choose any profession? It's something we like or think we will like. Not everyone is abused or into drugs or has an identity crisis.
And who says she's sweet? We don't know how she is IRL. My apologies if you do. I assume every woman I don't know is a lady, but she could be a major, well, ya'know. I really don't know, so I don't assume. Again, my apologies if you do know her personally.
I think that because of young age she is a little stupid.
A lot of young people don't know what they want. Doesn't mean they are stupid. They can be ignorant and naive as much as explorers, or even exhibitionists, and wanting to do something differently.
I won't disagree that a woman diving into the adult industry may come back to haunt her later. But even if the choice is her own 'fault,' it's the fact that we, as a society, are so negative towards anyone who has ever been associated with the adult industry, is the actual cause. It makes no difference to me. I only care how people treat others.
I did some public fucking with a few women, and even my wife, when I was young. Should that ruin my career? Back then, there weren't camera phones, much less even digital cameras that are common place in the 21st century. I wonder if society would have let my wife and I progress in our careers had we met just a decade later, and someone captured it on film?
In my opinion she needs to go to college, and not to fuck with three men front of the camera.
If fucking three men makes her happy, camera or not, what is the difference? The camera only exists because people are willing to pay for it. Does she change merely because there is a camera? Does it really change her because someone, along with her and others, are making money?
It bothers me that people expend so much time questioning other people's motives and how they live their lives. Even if your motives are sincere, there are plenty of other people out there judging those in the adult industry. I have to assume people do things because they like it. Not everyone loves every aspect of their jobs, but if if they like what they do, then they should continue doing it.
And it's always humorous to hear from men who say this, yet enjoy the results of her doing it. They should either feel guilty and don't enjoy it, and stop using it entirely. Or they should enjoy it and don't feel guilty. Feel free to interview the women in the industry and get their thoughts if unsure, and you have not already.