uhhh no, not even close. and actually i've never been dumped. but i do tell it like it is. do you date women? or rather, have you dated very many women? don't put em on a pedestal, dude, cos that will make them that much more unobtainable for you. showing backbone and confidence is the best route but unfortunately a lot of girls mistake a guy being an asshole as one who is confident. even the nicest girls i know would choose a bit of a bad boy over a nice guy. i'm shocked you don't know this yet, man. better learn quick or you will be used, used, and used again.
i've fucked a lot of women because i learned a long time ago not to be a pussy about getting pussy. oddly enough, the bigger douche i acted like, the more girls i got. they would have been better off choosing a nice guy and they knew it but they didn't. so, i'm just speaking from experience. i guarantee you if you go into a bar right now and act like some shy, non-confident nice guy then you will leave that bar alone. but act like a bad boy who doesn't give a shit and you'll have different results.
like i said i used to be that way, up until i met my current gf who i've dated almost 2 years now. she was the one i was willing to give up a lot of habits for and she's worth it. she didn't choose me, and she was the only girl i've really ever had to pursue. so out of over 250 women, this is the exception to the rule and i'll keep her. so no, not been dumped, never been dumped and sorry if the truth hurts but it is in fact, the truth.
my point still remains...if a girl chooses the bad boy she shouldn't be surprised when he fucks her over.