Here's the thing. I have been with my GF for a few months and i LOVE HER! The thing is that she isn't a virgin when we first did it and i was! And i was ok at the moment.. she had sex with one partner before me and that was his ex. the lasted for almost 4 years. The thing is that they did a LOT of times and in different places. She says that i please her way more than him and that i am better at the sex department hands down. But we don't have sex that often and i sometimes think that she liked more with her ex than me. Even tho she told me that its NOT true i can get over that! Am i being stupid.. or is this normal!? also it bothers me sometimes cause she tells me that she has more experience than me! Maybe is true but i get even more jealous! So please people help me!! am i being dumb, jelous? Or is this something i have to deal with? :crash:
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Rey C.
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If you really love her and you're asking if it's something you're going to have to deal with... the answer is yes. Unless she's doing something to really push your buttons, what is it that she could do to make you feel better about this issue?
IMO, the biggest mistake the two of you have made is talking about your sexual pasts (both of you). Either talk it out one last time and then drop it, or just drop it now, before somebody really gets their feelings hurt and you wind up breaking up.
IMO, the biggest mistake the two of you have made is talking about your sexual pasts (both of you). Either talk it out one last time and then drop it, or just drop it now, before somebody really gets their feelings hurt and you wind up breaking up.
Thanx Rey C.. you are right! and YES I LOVE HER! So people.. DON'T TALK ABOUT your past SEXUAL PARTNERS! LOL!
Hahaha! thanx BrianSTS! i will considere that! 
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I think you are overreacting. And so far as your experience goes, practice makes perfect! Don't be afraid to ask her what she likes and doesn't like.
Eric Lindros
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My opinion is that if she says that you are better, you have to believe her. Why would she lie to you? If she don't feel comfortable with the sex between you and her, You Might notice it, I guess.
Honesty and trust in a relationship is very important and if you can't trust her or don't believe her, you can ask yourself the question why you don't believe her. I won't judge on you, but I guess you you what I mean.
My girlfriend had more experience then me, when we are starting loving eachother.
The thing is, I liked it. She has teached me how to please her and not just focussing on myself.
Maybe you can talk with her about your jealousy? I would say: not in bed before you having sex, but at a quiet moment, when you both have nothing on your minds.
Good luck.
Honesty and trust in a relationship is very important and if you can't trust her or don't believe her, you can ask yourself the question why you don't believe her. I won't judge on you, but I guess you you what I mean.
My girlfriend had more experience then me, when we are starting loving eachother.
The thing is, I liked it. She has teached me how to please her and not just focussing on myself.
Maybe you can talk with her about your jealousy? I would say: not in bed before you having sex, but at a quiet moment, when you both have nothing on your minds.
Good luck.
Thanx man U r right! its a stupid thing but i LOVE HER VERY MUCH! and i wanna be the best one in her LIFE! :lovecoupl
LOL! Who knows!? :nanner:
power-san makes a great point most of the time nothing lasts for ever
ahh yeah the ol Lust vs Love factor. I think we have all been there. I wouldn't worry about it at all. Who cares about her ex shes with you for the time being. Just make sure its good for you and when it's over move on to the next slammin' hottie.
Your right... i feel a LOT BETTER! lol.. anyways i still like to hear everyone's opinion!v:thefinger
It wasn't wise to ask her about her past to begin with (which I imagine is the only way you know all of the gory details you've cited here). Unfortunately the reality is that your performance anxiety and possible feeling of inadequacy is not making the sex for her a comfortable experience.
She probably would rather not have sex at all than deal with the ensuing questions, doubt, insecurity, etc. you bombard her with in the aftermath.
I would have to know more about her personality though to try and recommend a coherent way to resolve the problem you think you're experiencing.
I can tell you this...it would do you well to focus on you and her....and act as if her past relationship never existed. Unless she's still fucking him or has made it apprarent that she lusts after him, why are you jealous??? She's with you now....so get your head out of your ass, get your head out of her past and focus on being with her.
Like I said before in a different thread; You can either get over it, get a new g/f or get an ulcer.:2 cents:
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