Welcome Amiee,
I'm one of the few girls running around here so here's an extra warm welcome cause we are pretty rare here. OSCM means Official Star Checked Member and that they are a performer, besides them there are just a handful of us that post regularly. Most of the boys here are harmless and love to joke...really they will make a joke out of anything...even spelling so don't be nervous or take it to heart. You will be able to determine right away who the crazy's are and who it might be best to steer clear of. Most of them will flirt shamelessly (Maleonetwo?) so make sure fiance' is understanding or doesn't need to know about any of it
When I first started posting here I spent some time reading the posts of certain members by looking up their profiles, that way I could see if what that person wrote generally seemed friendly or not, political or not, and before long I found that I followed the posts of certain people and nice friendships have resulted.
So....Good Luck, Have Fun, Great to have you 'on board' and by the way a great area that I spend a lot of time posting in is the 'funny picture forum'...give it a look and I hope to "see" you around the boards!