I'm 18.....

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byaahmuch

And I'm still a virgin. I don't really see this as a problem, as I know a few other people my age who are virgins (or at least they say they are). The problem with me is, I love porn, and I think that porn is ultimately stopping me from going out and getting laid. Why go out and work for it when I can sit at home on my laptop and get huge ass tits?

After watching said porn, I get so horny that I would fuck the ugliest chick at my highschool (I would probably back out at the last second though:1orglaugh).

So, I was wondering, if the great public of freeones could give me some advice. Should I go out, find a girl, and just work on her or something? I work at a high end club right now, maybe I should take a night off and ask to party there even though I'm ********* (by 1 year) and try to hook up? HELP! I need punani! lol
 
byaahmuch said:
And I'm still a virgin. I don't really see this as a problem, as I know a few other people my age who are virgins (or at least they say they are). The problem with me is, I love porn, and I think that porn is ultimately stopping me from going out and getting laid. Why go out and work for it when I can sit at home on my laptop and get huge ass tits?

After watching said porn, I get so horny that I would fuck the ugliest chick at my highschool (I would probably back out at the last second though:1orglaugh).

So, I was wondering, if the great public of freeones could give me some advice. Should I go out, find a girl, and just work on her or something? I work at a high end club right now, maybe I should take a night off and ask to party there even though I'm ********* (by 1 year) and try to hook up? HELP! I need punani! lol
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Porn isnt the problem. You're the problem. Go out and use some courage. Get rejected a couple times, get laid.. whatever. Just do something.

No long lecture needed when you already know the issue. Find a girl you can talk to, then make her into a girl you lay next to.
 
Dude, you work at a club. Hot girls will beg for you to give them the special treatment. That is if you make them work for it. Don't just give hand outs, make them work for it. Know what I mean? :thumbsup:

It's all about being confident and in control.
 
jibbijib said:
Dude, you work at a club. Hot girls will beg for you to give them the special treatment. That is if you make them work for it. Don't just give hand outs, make them work for it. Know what I mean? :thumbsup:

It's all about being confident and in control.
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I know what you're saying. Problem is, I work non-stop, no breaks, no drinks, nothing, from 7pm to 5am. And yes, there are A LOT of hot girls, but they tend to go for the older, rich guys that come in. The club I work at is the most up scale in the city and surroundings so we tend to get a lot of the rich guys that want to pick up young girls. Hard to compete with that, especially when you're working your ass off.
 
I guess it depends on what you do in the club. Best thing you can do is do as you suggested yourself. Since you are already working for the club, the fact that you know everyone working there will work for you. Women see that you are connected, and suddenly you are more attractive because you can get them things that they want. Like access to VIP and **** like that. But, you have to make sure they know that they have to work for it. WHen you do take time off and go there, just be very chill, and just try to have fun and let things happen as they come. Don't try to pick up girls, they will know what you are trying to do and it's usually a turn off for them in the club. Instead just be yourself and just mingle. Find out what makes the girls tick. Ask about them, see what they have to say. Don't hang around the girls for too long, just kinda be in and out quickly. And make like you have to go see other people. Believe that you are important, and just kinda flock around talkin to random girls and then go talk to co-workers and such. That makes you look important at least.

Plus if they see that you don't really care about their attention, they will want to get your attention. Especially after seeing you talk to important people. And always act like its your place, and they are your guests. Yes you work there, but you may as well act like you own the place.

Women love confidence. But don't be too cocky, just be cocky and funny.
 
jibbijib said:
Plus if they see that you don't really care about their attention, they will want to get your attention. Especially after seeing you talk to important people. And always act like its your place, and they are your guests. Yes you work there, but you may as well act like you own the place.

Women love confidence. But don't be too cocky, just be cocky and funny.
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This all works great in settings other than clubs. Makes em wonder why you don't hover around them like most guys do. With women its all a big mind game. Fuck with their head enough and you'll be in bed with them eventually! :thumbsup:
 
byaahmuch said:
So, I was wondering, if the great public of freeones could give me some advice. Should I go out, find a girl, and just work on her or something?
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No.

You're 18 and you're still a virgin, which probably means that your virginity means something to you. When I was 18, I didn't know one virgin at all. Most people just fuck for the sake of saying that they fucked. They don't wait for the right person. They don't wait to be in love. They just fuck because they think that they're supposed to.

It seems to me that you're not that kind of person, deep down inside. So, once again, no.
 
Unless you really feel the urge to loose your virginity, there is nothing wrong to wait for the right time with the right girl. Even if you arent trying to loose your virginity at all costs, you will definatly loose it one day or another (especially now that you are 18 ).

If you feel its really the time to loose it tho, follow jibbijib advice as he speaks wisdom :)
 
Take Torre's advice. Get laid. Don't think that the fate of the world resides on you finding a pornstar-quality girl to pop your cherry. Virginity is a Society/Culture construct--and a very bad one at that. Our country needs to realize that a Safesex Lifestyle = Healthy Lifestyle. If you become a "better lover," then when it comes time to marry a girl, you might actually find a girl who shares your interests rather than marrying the first girl who blows you.

Learn how to have great sex BEGINNING TODAY so you and your partner will have great sex from now until you're both grandparents.
 
titsrock said:
Take Torre's advice. Get laid. Don't think that the fate of the world resides on you finding a pornstar-quality girl to pop your cherry. Virginity is a Society/Culture construct--and a very bad one at that. Our country needs to realize that a Safesex Lifestyle = Healthy Lifestyle. If you become a "better lover," then when it comes time to marry a girl, you might actually find a girl who shares your interests rather than marrying the first girl who blows you.

Learn how to have great sex BEGINNING TODAY so you and your partner will have great sex from now until you're both grandparents.
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Ew! Old people fucking! :eek:
 
titsrock said:
Virginity is a Society/Culture construct--and a very bad one at that. Our country needs to realize that a Safesex Lifestyle = Healthy Lifestyle. If you become a "better lover," then when it comes time to marry a girl, you might actually find a girl who shares your interests rather than marrying the first girl who blows you.
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If you met a girl and she "saved" herself for you...that wouldn't mean ANYTHING to you?

Or...

If you met a girl who had sex with 250 different guys before she met you...you wouldn't have a problem with that?

:dunno:

I have to say TR, I really, really disagree with you on this one. Giving your virginity to someone is one of the most beautiful things that somebody can do. Yes, that might make me sound gay to some people, but I don't care.

I know that some believe that "love" is a societal construct as well, but that's complete :bs:, IMO. If the emotion of love didn't exist, then nobody would feel bad when their girlfriend/boyfriend broke up with them. Nobody would cry when their husband/wife died. Nobody would get upset if their life partner had sex with their best friend. I know that, ironically, it has become a societal belief that love and sex are two seperate things, but...they're not. Or, at least, they shouldn't be.

:2 cents:
 
byaahmuch said:
And I'm still a virgin. I don't really see this as a problem, as I know a few other people my age who are virgins (or at least they say they are). The problem with me is, I love porn, and I think that porn is ultimately stopping me from going out and getting laid. Why go out and work for it when I can sit at home on my laptop and get huge ass tits?

After watching said porn, I get so horny that I would fuck the ugliest chick at my high school (I would probably back out at the last second though:1orglaugh).

So, I was wondering, if the great public of freeones could give me some advice. Should I go out, find a girl, and just work on her or something? I work at a high end club right now, maybe I should take a night off and ask to party there even though I'm ********* (by 1 year) and try to hook up? HELP! I need punani! lol
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Hey buddy you better up and start pumping that dolenick with some punani. According to the Mayan calendar, you have 4 years and change before the world ends in 2012. :eek: What are you f'n waiting for? :*****:
 
Torre82min said:
Porn isnt the problem. You're the problem. Go out and use some courage. Get rejected a couple times, get laid.. whatever. Just do something.

No long lecture needed when you already know the issue. Find a girl you can talk to, then make her into a girl you lay next to.
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The man speaks the truth.


And I suppose if that doesnt work you could always pay for it :dunno: there's no harm in it......well, if you look at it from your point of view then there's no harm - unless you get an STD - in paying for it. But I suppose if you look at it from the girls side then there's obviously some harm in it, but who gives a fuck ;)
 
I don't know about you, but as far I know fucking once isn't going to stop you from ever being horny again. it's kind of a repeat cycle.
 
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