I think I am addicted to Anal.... Anyone else?

[calpoon]

actually on another board we had a good discussion about this and here's what I said then:

as to my POV... well, I guess that maybe the appeal could be that that anatomical region is one that is shared by both male and females, and even if they don't both wish to explore it on each other, they at least have an idea of what it feels like and that could be a source of greater intamacy than the organs that they have in opposite and so don't really have an understanding of. ::shrugs::

that is of course based on male/female partners. It seems pretty obvious of it's use among male/male, and I guess that explanation doesn't fit for female/female. I don't really know to what degree they might practice anal sex above other forms, I've never asked.

 

[bladehawk]

I've always been an anal addict. However, the fact is that in porn, the girls spend a good while doing enemas (bleh), lubing up and dildoing their assholes to get ready for the actual scene. The videos never usually focus on the prep that goes into a girl being able to take a shaft up the butthole, thus fueling the fantasies of the ignorant.

As for the attitudes of girls to anal, it depends on the girl as well as how you play the idea. But she has to be at least a bit open to the idea first. She's more likely to experiment if you keep talking about how hot it would be for HER. As with all such things, it's never good to force the issue. There's a lot more to a relationship than where you're allowed to stick it

As for porn addiction, I find myself going through the same cycle too. Even with real sex. Once my gf got upset at me while going down that I wouldn't cum. OK, so we took a break for a while after. The next time she touched me I blew up like a fire hydrant in a couple minutes. Same thing with porn. Gets to the point where nothing excites, and you start getting worried at the increasing perversity(?) of the scenes you need to get off. Then you take an extended break and lo and behold even a tit-shaking is OMG hot.

 

[squallumz]

I've always been an anal addict. However, the fact is that in porn, the girls spend a good while doing enemas (bleh), lubing up and dildoing their assholes to get ready for the actual scene. The videos never usually focus on the prep that goes into a girl being able to take a shaft up the butthole, thus fueling the fantasies of the ignorant.

As for the attitudes of girls to anal, it depends on the girl as well as how you play the idea. But she has to be at least a bit open to the idea first. She's more likely to experiment if you keep talking about how hot it would be for HER. As with all such things, it's never good to force the issue. There's a lot more to a relationship than where you're allowed to stick it

As for porn addiction, I find myself going through the same cycle too. Even with real sex. Once my gf got upset at me while going down that I wouldn't cum. OK, so we took a break for a while after. The next time she touched me I blew up like a fire hydrant in a couple minutes. Same thing with porn. Gets to the point where nothing excites, and you start getting worried at the increasing perversity(?) of the scenes you need to get off. Then you take an extended break and lo and behold even a tit-shaking is OMG hot.

sounds like everyone knows what to do in situations like this to me. to quote benjamin franklin, "put your cock away!"

 

[The Captain]

I also prefer porn where anal sex is involved. I love anal sex with a girl, and have never meant a girl that didn't like it when its done right. And before anyone asks, no I do not mind at all if a girl slips her fingers up my ass and probes around. Hell if she finds the right spot I get even more hornier. However, no guy is getting near my ass!

 

[squallumz]

I also prefer porn where anal sex is involved. I love anal sex with a girl, and have never meant a girl that didn't like it when its done right. And before anyone asks, no I do not mind at all if a girl slips her fingers up my ass and probes around. Hell if she finds the right spot I get even more hornier. However, no guy is getting near my ass!

*scoots closer*

 

[The Captain]

*scoots closer*

*pulls gun out of pocket*

 

[squallumz]

*pulls gun out of pocket*

"is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?"

 

[The Captain]

"is that a gun in your pocket, or are you just happy to see me?"

*Thats a high powered flesh shreading machine gun.*

 

[iron_cow]

i love to watch anal sex in porn but I don't get to much nastier then that. At first I was only exposed to simple boy/girl but then I started really enjoying watching facials, and group sex. Its true that if you go a week without jerking that any porn will get you real hard

 

[McRocket]

I also prefer porn where anal sex is involved. I love anal sex with a girl, and have never meant a girl that didn't like it when its done right.

Assuming you meant 'met' instead of 'meant' in the above sentence.

So every woman you have met has told you that she likes anal sex when it is done right?
I would be curious how you bring that up in light conversation?

 

[dave_rhino]

I never watch anal.

I love girl/girl anilingus, but when it's a guy fucking a girls ass, no turn on at all.

 

[DreamSparrow]

I think this a really great post.:thumbsup:

Cheers.

whatever, maybe your right, if I went without porn for a while I would become "re-sensitized".

Well, good luck. Glad I could help. I hope you stick with it, even though you might be tempted to get out your favourite vids... porn addictions are nasty.

I never watch anal.

I love girl/girl anilingus, but when it's a guy fucking a girls ass, no turn on at all.

I'm completely the opposite. I've never been able to get into lesbian porn at all. When I watch porn, I put myself into the position of the guy, imagine what it would be like to screw the hot girl in front of me. When I watch lesbian porn, it's definitely not a horrible sight, but hardly a major turn on.

Sure, they're having fun, but who am I supposed to be? One of the hot girls? My brain just doesn't work that way. I guess it's not all that different to the way women behave when they see/hear about gay guys -- it just doesn't make sense that it should be a turn on because they can't identify with either person involved.

 

[BigMan06]

Cheers.



Well, good luck. Glad I could help. I hope you stick with it, even though you might be tempted to get out your favourite vids... porn addictions are nasty.



I'm completely the opposite. I've never been able to get into lesbian porn at all. When I watch porn, I put myself into the position of the guy, imagine what it would be like to screw the hot girl in front of me. When I watch lesbian porn, it's definitely not a horrible sight, but hardly a major turn on.

Sure, they're having fun, but who am I supposed to be? One of the hot girls? My brain just doesn't work that way. I guess it's not all that different to the way women behave when they see/hear about gay guys -- it just doesn't make sense that it should be a turn on because they can't identify with either person involved.

This is true I dont care about girls eating each other out BUTTT Girls kissing is one of the hottest things on earth

 

[McRocket]

This is true I dont care about girls eating each other out BUTTT Girls kissing is one of the hottest things on earth

I second that.

 

[hedonis]

I second that.

And I'll third it. Nothing like watching the ladies Kiss. :thumbsup:

H

 

[bennihanna]

beautiful womens assholes are beautiful

 

[bayjay]

your so totaly gay

 

[bennihanna]

haha

 

[satrap]

Probably

 

[blake]

Me too. i'm trying to ration out fucking my girlfriend up the ass, waiting as long as I can between doing it so she doesn't realise I really just wanna pound her ass all day.