I don't get it.

Last weekend I ended up getting pretty trashed at a party and had strategically got a beer pong partner who I was aiming to fuck at the end of the night. Long story short (not too short, though): We go back to her place after basically kicking her roommate out. At this moment the sober:drunk ratio was perfect.. Hopped into bed, started making out/fingering..got her bra-less, got on top started sucking on boooooobs like an infant and gradually went down and ate her out for a respectable amount of time..all the while I'm telling her I can't wait to get head as it's the most amazing feeling one can get without effort..

She totally shoots the idea down because she finds it degrading--wow. Obviously I plead my case pointing out that I fucking ate her out!!! What's the difference? I would have let it slide but she was ready to fuck after that talk. I said no to sex..told her head was a prerequisite. It's not by any means but it was going to be that night..that's the one thing I was looking forward to all night. So, I gotta ask the general, sexually-experienced and horny audience here: What am I missing from this experience? How could she expect having sex with a mutual friend but not give head (but receive it)????
 

RealMenSwallow

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Alright this may surprise you, as it may surprise many, but life isn't always fair. So you ate her out, I wish I could be telling this exact same story, except I would omit the whiny bitch part about her not sucking my cock. I honestly don't care if she does or doesn't suck it. Does it feel amazing? Fuck yes it does! Is it required...it should be. But the fact of the matter is that there are more than a fair share of women who find it degrading, and it's at that point that you take it like a man, and just fuck her. Nut all over her face, and move on with it. You obviously aren't going to marry this woman, so who fucking cares? But I mean, that's just me being brutally honest...
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
Last weekend I ended up getting pretty trashed at a party and had strategically got a beer pong partner who I was aiming to fuck at the end of the night. Long story short (not too short, though): We go back to her place after basically kicking her roommate out. At this moment the sober:drunk ratio was perfect.. Hopped into bed, started making out/fingering..got her bra-less, got on top started sucking on boooooobs like an infant and gradually went down and ate her out for a respectable amount of time..all the while I'm telling her I can't wait to get head as it's the most amazing feeling one can get without effort..

She totally shoots the idea down because she finds it degrading--wow. Obviously I plead my case pointing out that I fucking ate her out!!! What's the difference? I would have let it slide but she was ready to fuck after that talk. I said no to sex..told her head was a prerequisite. It's not by any means but it was going to be that night..that's the one thing I was looking forward to all night. So, I gotta ask the general, sexually-experienced and horny audience here: What am I missing from this experience? How could she expect having sex with a mutual friend but not give head (but receive it)????

This may sting a little, but the truth hurts...

Maybe the thought of giving head TO YOU is degrading to her. Maybe the thought repulses her. :dunno: If so, deal with it.

If a girl doesn't want to put your dick in her mouth, she doesn't have to. End of story.
 
There are men out there who won't eat out a girl, so there are women as well that don't give head. You should have just fucked the girl anyway and leave and finish the night with a bang, instead of arguing with her about not receiving head. To me it's not a dealbreaker for sex.
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
Last weekend I ended up getting pretty trashed at a party and had strategically got a beer pong partner who I was aiming to fuck at the end of the night. Long story short (not too short, though): We go back to her place after basically kicking her roommate out. At this moment the sober:drunk ratio was perfect.. Hopped into bed, started making out/fingering..got her bra-less, got on top started sucking on boooooobs like an infant and gradually went down and ate her out for a respectable amount of time..all the while I'm telling her I can't wait to get head as it's the most amazing feeling one can get without effort..

She totally shoots the idea down because she finds it degrading--wow. Obviously I plead my case pointing out that I fucking ate her out!!! What's the difference? I would have let it slide but she was ready to fuck after that talk. I said no to sex..told her head was a prerequisite. It's not by any means but it was going to be that night..that's the one thing I was looking forward to all night. So, I gotta ask the general, sexually-experienced and horny audience here: What am I missing from this experience? How could she expect having sex with a mutual friend but not give head (but receive it)????

...wow...

*reaches through the screen and smacks the shit outta this idiot*
 
I can relate with the frustration of the situation.

Why woman who find degrading to suck a dick always tell that after being eated out? I mean, you are into oral sex or not in my books. If a woman consider giving head disgusting, why, in her mind, being eaten is not as much disgusting?

If oral sex disgust someone, male or female, he should just refuse to give and receive it.

Of course, life is not fair. Sexual relations are (almsot always) not equitable.

But regardless, if something else than a regular fucking session (you know, the way we make babies :D) happend, it have to come from mutual agreement.

After few frustrating experiences like the one described by kaliforniacatio, i'm nowadays speaking about several things before the action. And i have turned down some sexual occasions that i didnt wanted to get in - even if the girl was gorgeous (no, it wasn't related with oral sex :D).

:2 cents:
 
I understand that healthy portion of women find it degrading, in this particular case I simply didn't see it coming. She wasn't transparent with her plans for the night. I'm hardly bitching, not getting head is not a big deal; I just felt like I got played into giving her head so that's why I refused to have sex.
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
I understand that healthy portion of women find it degrading, in this particular case I simply didn't see it coming. She wasn't transparent with her plans for the night. I'm hardly bitching, not getting head is not a big deal; I just felt like I got played into giving her head so that's why I refused to have sex.

You should have fucked her and blew your load as fast as possible.
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
I understand that healthy portion of women find it degrading, in this particular case I simply didn't see it coming. She wasn't transparent with her plans for the night. I'm hardly bitching, not getting head is not a big deal; I just felt like I got played into giving her head so that's why I refused to have sex.

Maybe she was using you, just like you were planning on using her.

:2 cents:
 
This may sting a little, but the truth hurts...

Maybe the thought of giving head TO YOU is degrading to her. Maybe the thought repulses her. :dunno: If so, deal with it.

If a girl doesn't want to put your dick in her mouth, she doesn't have to. End of story.

So very true. Could have said it better myself.
 
I wouldn't worry about it, I mean, this isn't a person you are going to be seeing again... but I probably would've screwed her. As for not going down, yup, that happens unfortunately, as someone mentioned, life ain't always fair but You Might as well have fun and not let things like that drive you crazy!
 

Facetious

Moderated
I woulda just spat a huge lugi on my ding a ling a got down (or up, depending on how you look at it) to business.

Maybe she's kinda a bi chick and doesn't worship dick all so much. Got it ? :tongue:
What's new :dunno:
 
or maybe she was really a man. trying to cover up a reach around so you wouldn't find out and you was getting ass all night.
 
i don't get it:rolleyes: you got sex. be happy. no one said everything has to be just the way you want it and not the way someone else wants it :confused:
 
I understand that healthy portion of women find it degrading, in this particular case I simply didn't see it coming. She wasn't transparent with her plans for the night. I'm hardly bitching, not getting head is not a big deal; I just felt like I got played into giving her head so that's why I refused to have sex.

If it was me, after it was all done and over, I would of jerked off and unload a healthy portion of spunk on her face and then bid her goodnight and sweet dreams. :thefinger











No I wouldn't. Listen romeo, you played yourself when you strategically placed yourself with this slut. Bad KARMA dude.

:lame:

WTF, you were that hard up that you really had to get your pecker sucked? Why didn't you insert your dick into her pussy and finished the job? Maybe you had a smelly pecker and she definitely didn't want to put a grimy dick in her mouth. Did you ever stop and think about that?

:condom:
 
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