It's seems like a case of bad luck with the old chap.
i can't ejaculate!
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True, we can't diagnose or help this guy via the internet, but he's just looking for some support. I'd bet that he doesn't have a therapist he visits on a regular basis, so this message board is just his initial support / advice group. He obviously has recognized that he has a psychological or medical condition in regards to this...I don't see anything wrong with anonymously asking a group of people their thoughts. Just my take.
one time i experienced a seven- eight hour orgasm...........but i believe that was chemically assisted
i dont need the input from the people in this group. i am interested in hearing input from people on this board because there are a lot of intelligent people with good opinions and suggestions. i was simply making some conversation. if that is looked down upon i will stop. just let me know.
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^ The questions I asked on the first page were serious and I'd still like the responses to them... But I understand if you don't wanna answer...
Sorry buddy, I have to disagree with you. I think that the best answer he can get from the members of this forum is the advise to look for professional help. It may not be the answer he was looking for, but we gave him an answer nonetheless!
The guys are giving you good advice to seek professional help, but I don't see anything wrong with wanting to talk about your problem - we're all friends here, right?
I've had the occasional problem with the old plumbing, and it was either to do with my state of mind or state of body in some way or another.
My wife has several guaranteed techniques for ******* off the wood in mid-shag :
• Talking about her ******
• Talking about her shopping trip that day
• In fact, just talking in general
• "I want another baby" (that put it in a **** for at least six weeks)
• If she takes the giggles, her muscle contractions push me out. Plus it's always offputting to have a girl laugh at you while you're doing your best Ron Jeremy impersonation
• "Don't worry about me, you just come" (immediately makes me feel sexually inadequate. I may as well get out my crossword book)
Anyhoo, go see the doc. Preferably a hot lady doc. She'll sort you out in no time!
I've had the occasional problem with the old plumbing, and it was either to do with my state of mind or state of body in some way or another.
My wife has several guaranteed techniques for ******* off the wood in mid-shag :
• Talking about her ******
• Talking about her shopping trip that day
• In fact, just talking in general
• "I want another baby" (that put it in a **** for at least six weeks)
• If she takes the giggles, her muscle contractions push me out. Plus it's always offputting to have a girl laugh at you while you're doing your best Ron Jeremy impersonation
• "Don't worry about me, you just come" (immediately makes me feel sexually inadequate. I may as well get out my crossword book)
Anyhoo, go see the doc. Preferably a hot lady doc. She'll sort you out in no time!
Don't let those negative thoughts intrude in your mind (obviously easier said than done). Maybe try relaxation techniques, like some sort of breathing exercises to calm yourself and your mind.
Also, maybe if you can focus less on ejaculating, and focus your attention on enjoying your gf's body and touch without worrying about cumming that would be good... enjoy feeling close to someone and don't worry about the ending, that should take care of itself...
Best of luck!
Also, maybe if you can focus less on ejaculating, and focus your attention on enjoying your gf's body and touch without worrying about cumming that would be good... enjoy feeling close to someone and don't worry about the ending, that should take care of itself...
Best of luck!
i have had six sexual partners
it has only happened with her, and i am definetly attracted to her.
i can cum sometimes but the majority of the time i do not.
i dont wear condoms, i had the same problem wearing condoms.
i pretty much know what i need to do, i simply wanted to start a discussion about something that may not have been discussed on this board before.
Go to a doctor. If it ain't physical (which I assume it isn't), then it has to be mental. And if that's the case then it's just simply a case of you worrying way too much about it.
Besides. I know allot of women that would love to have a guy that got hard and stayed hard until they came. If your girlfriend doesn't appreciate it I GUARANTEE you that many other women will. Especially the ones that don't get all insecure when you don't cum and think it's their fault.
Besides. I know allot of women that would love to have a guy that got hard and stayed hard until they came. If your girlfriend doesn't appreciate it I GUARANTEE you that many other women will. Especially the ones that don't get all insecure when you don't cum and think it's their fault.
