so...my girlfriend and i are having sex. I have a hard time ejaculating during sex, sometimes i do, most of the time i dont. I believe it is all mental because whenever we do it i think about not being able to cum again, i am afraid that i have hit a point of no return with this. I believe i may need some psychological help in ridding myself of this problem. Any suggestions anyone?
i can't ejaculate!
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Are you on any medications? Some anti-depressant medications will make it nearly impossible for you to ejaculate/orgasm during sex. Very frustrating.
Or perhaps you're just so worried about unloading inside her (is she using any kind of preventive measures?) that it takes all the pleasure away... If yes, you might need to discuss with her to have safe(r) sex by using a condom (useful anyways!) and so on..
These are just some hints. From your post its impossible to tell whether you have the 'hair trigger' problem or the opposite
Or perhaps you're just so worried about unloading inside her (is she using any kind of preventive measures?) that it takes all the pleasure away... If yes, you might need to discuss with her to have safe(r) sex by using a condom (useful anyways!) and so on..
These are just some hints. From your post its impossible to tell whether you have the 'hair trigger' problem or the opposite
whats the hair trigger problem?
this really sucks for me because i am in love with this girl and i would like to spend my life with her and i am worried this will severly affect our relationship in the long run.
I wish that I could go back and be 21 again without a girlfriend.:nannerf2:
I would say consult your doctor first to see if there might be any physiological reasons for this. Otherwise, it might be a mental thing. It does sound like you have so much apprehension and are putting so much pressure on yourself that it might keep you from enjoying the sex or keep you from cumming at all.
Aces&Jacks
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Seriously, how could we possibly help you?
Maybe it's a medical problem, which assuming that any of us here were an actual doctor, we still couldn't help you without examining you.
Maybe it's a mental problem, which assuming that any of us were an actual psychiatrist, we still couldn't help you without talking to you.
Get some professional help! Any answers given here are worthless.
Maybe it's a medical problem, which assuming that any of us here were an actual doctor, we still couldn't help you without examining you.
Maybe it's a mental problem, which assuming that any of us were an actual psychiatrist, we still couldn't help you without talking to you.
Get some professional help! Any answers given here are worthless.
maybe its the condom that is dulling alot of the sensation. happesn to me sometimes
maybe watch less porn and jack off
i know if i'm not particularly horny and have sex, my erection isn't as hard, it doesn't feel as good and i take longer to ejaculate too
but when i'm horny, it feels 10 times better and i ejculate a bit fast
how is your erection? 100% or does it wither a bit?
try Viagra to give you a rock solid hard on and that will probably help heaps, plus go bareback
maybe watch less porn and jack off
i know if i'm not particularly horny and have sex, my erection isn't as hard, it doesn't feel as good and i take longer to ejaculate too
but when i'm horny, it feels 10 times better and i ejculate a bit fast
how is your erection? 100% or does it wither a bit?
try Viagra to give you a rock solid hard on and that will probably help heaps, plus go bareback
This is exactly what I was thinking. Why, oh why do people continue to post stuff like this on the boards???? :dunno: You are having either a physical or mental problem with having sex. Asking other people who view porn about this wouldn't seem to be the best plan for getting over this.
Doctor- psychologist-sex therapist. Start with those.
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dave_rhino
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I have a few questions;
How many sexual partners have you had?
Has it only started happening lately?
Can you cum from oral sex?
And last but definately not least...
Do you still wear condoms?
