I am scared that I might be gay...

[Currency]

Hi,

I recently took an online test that tells you which type of personality you have...

The results were that I have a personality of a shy woman.

After that, I went out with my wife for a walk in the park and I was looking at guys jogging and I actually judged them.

Me: Look sweetie, that guy has nice body..
She: Yup, he has nice thighs..

I went home and started searching for gay porno. I wanted to see if I was aroused by watching two guys making love to each other.

I was aroused and I ended up rubbing the area until I realized that this might ruin my life...

I am scared...

I am scared that I might be gay...

I had sex with my wife earlier and I didn't enjoy it... During the session, I was fighting my self because all I could imagine were men...

Help...

 

[Undertaker]

According to what you say, You Might be gay.. but again You Might be not. Only you can answer that question.

But watching gay porno and feeling aroused might be a sign of gay. But seriously i dont fucking know.

 

[KungFuDude]

Oh boy...

 

[RogueWolf]

I admire your honesty, but to be honest back to you...this really isn't the place to be asking those sorts of questions.

If this really is a concern of yours, I would suggest you speak to someone qualified to give you well educated answers on how to deal with this.

 

[Phaeton]

Drink 17 beers, rinse, and repeat.

It won't change who you are, but it will give you a reverie. Maybe that will help you decide what road to follow.

 

[Iamforever]

this really isn't the place to be asking those sorts of questions.

why not? this is a porn board. maybe someone here has had similar experiences.


well currency, if you are still attracted to your wife, then by definition alone, you are not gay. maybe bi-curious though. no pun intended, but you do have to come out on this one. if it turns out you are gay, then i think your wife deserves to know.

 

[AndyHunter]

It doesn't make you gay getting turned on by gay porn - it is a sexual image, therefor it turns you on, does looking at two women get it on make you a lesbian?
I think most men come across this kind of feeling at some stage in their life. Have a good look at some of the babes on here, and then take your wife to bed, and give her a dam good seeing to!

 

[Montrealman]

I wish you luck Dude.

 

[Clarkie25]

I'm scared that I might actually care if you're gay or not.

 

[PILLOW]

It doesn't make you gay getting turned on by gay porn - it is a sexual image, therefor it turns you on, does looking at two women get it on make you a lesbian?
I think most men come across this kind of feeling at some stage in their life. Have a good look at some of the babes on here, and then take your wife to bed, and give her a dam good seeing to!

well said...:hatsoff:

 

[Iamforever]

It doesn't make you gay getting turned on by gay porn -it is a sexual image, therefor it turns you on,

yes it does mean you like boys. and if you are a boy yourself, then....

it is a sexual image, therefor it turns you on, does looking at two women get it on make you a lesbian?

only if you are a woman.

I think most men come across this kind of feeling at some stage in their life.

i dont know about you, but the image of a naked guy or two guys going at it has never turned me on. i cant even look at my self in the mirror most of the time.

 

[AndyHunter]

i cant even look at my self in the mirror most of the time.

You must be one ugly cunt then!

 

[Iamforever]

all men are.:thumbsup:

 

[dRC123]

What I dont get is where you made the decision to search for gay porno to "test" yourself.. It cant be just from the "personality test" result and the fact that you complimented a guy on his looks/body can it?

Maybe youre just bi-curious, maybe its just a sexual fantasy, I cant help you there.

My only advise to you is to talk to someone who knows what he/she's talking about it concerning an issue like this. Maybe even a gay person.

Anyway, good look finding out mate!

 

[Gordar]

You must be one ugly cunt then!

all men are.:thumbsup:

I think ugly dick is better in this case... Even ugly cunts excite some 100% heterosexual men...

Anyway,

Like iamforever already said, if you're still interested in women, you're not gay, you're bisexual (or bi curious).

And about you being afraid, there's nothing to be afraid of, it's just who you are. Accept it and live the life you want to live (as long as you don't break the law of course, they're (usually) there for a reason), not the life society wants you to live.

 

[bigjames06]

Well all humans get turned on slightly from watching any form of sex, it's been scientifically proven. You Might not be gay, If you are gay then fine, don't try and conceal it.

 

[Stevie]

I admire your honesty, but to be honest back to you...this really isn't the place to be asking those sorts of questions.

If this really is a concern of yours, I would suggest you speak to someone qualified to give you well educated answers on how to deal with this.

Pretty much agree. Though there are some sensitive and smarter members here, this is still a hetero driven forum.

Perhaps, if you seek the advice of online strangers, try a gay forum.

BTW, that online test, probably just bs. But, if you believed it a bit too much, it might of altered your thoughts and feelings and is making you feel/think otherwise.

 

[pussypoppa]

The results were that I have a personality of a shy woman.

BELIEVE ME U AINT GAY! Gay men are bitches...not shy!

 

[member006]

Wel, 2007 is off and running I see.

I admire your honesty, but to be honest back to you...this really isn't the place to be asking those sorts of questions.

If this really is a concern of yours, I would suggest you speak to someone qualified to give you well educated answers on how to deal with this.

I agree with you 100% RW.

In speaking to the audience not the thread starter I want to say why I feel this way. If this poster is really "upset" and or "depressed" by his doubts, or the feelings he may have or may think he has, the wrong advice can be damaging. The mockers only make it harder to look at his true feelings. This is not the place to address such things if he is serious about what he is going through. Only IMHO of course.

LL

 

[BNF]

What's so scary?

It's hardly like being scared for your life because you may have an incurable illness or because you are going to be hung.

There are plenty of hard issues that most of us face. Dealing with that part of your sexuality should not be any cause of embarassment. It's you and your attractions and desires.

The concern should come if you were sexually aroused by putting the general in car exhaust pipes or playing with wood shards......

Don't make it so complex and time consuming. You've got a life to live.

(And yes, I do agree that there are far better boards and places to be looking for advice. It feels like a wind-up...)