How often is too often

[rmagedon]

Have you considered the possibility that maybe she just doesn't like having sex with you and/or that she is having an affair?

Yeah, this could've been put in better terms, but I do like your direct approach, it's a breath of fresh air in today's world. However, your post doesn't really provide a lot of help. It's no secret she's not into sex as much. It happens to be the reason WHY he supposedly whacks off too much. If she is having an affair, she's got some balls to tell him to cut down on his jerking off. At that point she deserves a roundhouse kick in the face, followed by a warm blast of gooey-man goodness.

But in all honesty, a woman who enjoys a good game of Yahtzee and calls it a night is seriously NOT having an affair.

 

[Member2019]

And that's exactly what I meant ...

Yeah, this could've been put in better terms, but I do like your direct approach, it's a breath of fresh air in today's world. However, your post doesn't really provide a lot of help.

Actually, your last statement was exactly what I meant (especially note the bolded re-quote) here ...

I think it wasn't a warranted question or could have been put a little better.

One of these days people will see I'm not passing judgment, but pointing out the obvious that people "aren't working the problem." But that's why I get paid the big bucks in real-life, because I "work the problem," instead of just adding more to it.

There is a difference between "just another bundle of fresh air" on a problem, and someone who is honestly trying to resolve the stench that persists but people aren't addressing.

Aw come on Nomad, it's a valid question, it establishes the perspective from which you speak. Prof's a pretty good guy, he wouldn't just ask you so he could have ammo to flame with.

Thank you for seeing exactly what I was asking. I was wondering from what perspective he was coming from with such a statement.

I would ask many people (thank you again Peter, you see my points and attempts at insight regularly) that you read my posts as posts that actually come from a person who reserves judgment, and is not trying to make one. Even more so, I've really tried to be good by not passing judgment on even those who judge others these days, and trying to point out multiple viewpoints.

 

[Nomad 800]

Aw come on Nomad, it's a valid question, it establishes the perspective from which you speak.

I think every question is a valid one. I just will not share such information on a public chat forum. I see absolutely nothing to be gained by doing so. And much potentially to lose.

As for my perspective? The question I posed is simply to cover all the bases. I don't see how it matters what the source of the point is so long as the point is considered. It has been and that was what I wanted in this case.

Yeah, this could've been put in better terms, but I do like your direct approach, it's a breath of fresh air in today's world. However, your post doesn't really provide a lot of help. It's no secret she's not into sex as much. It happens to be the reason WHY he supposedly whacks off too much. If she is having an affair, she's got some balls to tell him to cut down on his jerking off. At that point she deserves a roundhouse kick in the face, followed by a warm blast of gooey-man goodness.

But in all honesty, a woman who enjoys a good game of Yahtzee and calls it a night is seriously NOT having an affair.

It was meant to help in that I wanted him to consider the possibility. If my partner was seemingly enjoying sex with me less then before then I would be considering the 2 options that I put forth. If for no other reason then to examine them and dismiss them if the evidence were insufficient.
All options should always be examined. No matter how uncomfortable they may be.