How much of a risk am I to have contracted an STD?

[Da Dude]

A friend of mine told me about this place that gives happy ending massages. I know it was stupid, but curiosity got the better of me and I went ahead and tried it out a couple of times. I figured a massage and a handjob would be harmless fun. The first time I did it a few months ago, it was ok. Not as good as I expected. The masseuse was not even nude; she wore simple lingerie and gave me a good massage and a handjob afterwards. I didn't expect to be so nervous, so it took me a while to cum. So a few days ago, I decided to go back to the SAME place again and see if I would like it better. And yes, another stupid decision. To my surprise, the masseuse I had this second time was completely different than the last one. She was totally naked the whole time and during the happy ending moment, she got on top of me and she pressed her vagina in my face while giving me a handjob and she allowed me to give her an oral. So idiot that I was, I did it. I admit, it was a great experience, but now I’m scared that I may have contracted an STD. It was such a stupid thing to do and I hate myself for it, but I’m a single, virgin guy so my willpower is weak when it comes to these things. I’m surprised a masseuse would even allow things to go as far as that. Like the first one I had a few months ago, they usually have strict boundaries. But not this one.


So am I in danger of contracting an STD from giving this woman an oral? If so, how long should I wait before getting tested? I know it takes a while for STDs to show up on tests, so I would like to know when the best time is to get one if I should.

 

[sean miguel]

Maybe seek advice from your mom? She can draw upon her own experience and give you sound guidance in this matter.

 

[Da Dude]

No way in a million years would I tell my mom that. My parents are very very conservative people. If they found out I did this, they would never speak to me again.

 

[sean miguel]

No way in a million years would I tell my mom that. My parents are very very conservative people. If they found out I did this, they would never speak to me again.

My mom walked in on me stroking to a penthouse mag with the pet of the month centerfold spread out on my bed. She set my breakfast down on the night stand in disgust and walked out with not a word spoken. We got over it. You really should discuss your potential STDs with your mom. That's what they're there for.

 

[Rey C.]

A friend of mine told me about this place that gives happy ending massages. I know it was stupid, but curiosity got the better of me and I went ahead and tried it out a couple of times. I figured a massage and a handjob would be harmless fun. The first time I did it a few months ago, it was ok. Not as good as I expected. The masseuse was not even nude; she wore simple lingerie and gave me a good massage and a handjob afterwards. I didn't expect to be so nervous, so it took me a while to cum. So a few days ago, I decided to go back to the SAME place again and see if I would like it better. And yes, another stupid decision. To my surprise, the masseuse I had this second time was completely different than the last one. She was totally naked the whole time and during the happy ending moment, she got on top of me and she pressed her vagina in my face while giving me a handjob and she allowed me to give her an oral. So idiot that I was, I did it. I admit, it was a great experience, but now I’m scared that I may have contracted an STD. It was such a stupid thing to do and I hate myself for it, but I’m a single, virgin guy so my willpower is weak when it comes to these things. I’m surprised a masseuse would even allow things to go as far as that. Like the first one I had a few months ago, they usually have strict boundaries. But not this one.


So am I in danger of contracting an STD from giving this woman an oral? If so, how long should I wait before getting tested? I know it takes a while for STDs to show up on tests, so I would like to know when the best time is to get one if I should.

Ask someone at the health department (in another town) or maybe your primary care doc, depending on what sort of relationship you have with him.

 

[Da Dude]

Your mom and my mom are different. It may not be the same. And I don't understand how this would help the situation. If you think I have an STD, I'll get a test done and if positive, I'll get it treated. That's for a doctor to do, not my mom. There's a reason there's doctor patient confidentiality. Certain things are personal and this is one of them.

Now on the other hand, if I keep doing this and need some sort of counseling, that's another story.

But whatever, I'll get an STD test done in February and take it from there. I have insurance...

 

[sean miguel]

But whatever, I'll get an STD test done in February and take it from there. I have insurance...

February?? You understand you can go sterile and/or blind by then?

Good luck to ya.

 

[Pornfan99]

Dude.. THINK ABOUT where you put your tongue, and expose your gums to, when you go down on a chick. I don't do that unless I've known them for at least two months.

 

[Torre82]

I did something stupid and now I need forgiving. Bless me, father.. for I am stupid.
~ OP

 

[Da Dude]

February?? You understand you can go sterile and/or blind by then?

Good luck to ya.

I didn't realize that STDs manifest that fast. Getting tested right now would just give a false negative result. But hey, maybe testing is unnecessary. Lets just wait until February and if I'm not blind by then, then I must be ok...

 

[Torre82]

I didn't realize that STDs manifest that fast. Getting tested right now would just give a false negative result. But hey, maybe testing is unnecessary. Lets just wait until February and if I'm not blind by then, then I must be ok...

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