depends on what im doing and what im going for. once the second i put it in my ex i came. of course that was the point, there was people in the room.
a bj can get me off in anywhere between 5 minutes to 10. sooner if im really feeling you that day. vaginal sex, could be fast, could be long. depends on quickie or non quickie. i could hold out for hours if i need to, get there and stop.