Hero's sad

[CrimsonBolt]

Saddest day of my life, my 9 years old cat died this morning "i had to bring her for the lethal injection" and then buried her myself :crying:.
She was so nice and cute, my heart is broken so young but didn't have the choice 1 week without eating anything, she vomit everytime that she tried.
The doc gived me syrup and pills but didn't work.
I just can't stop to cry, that's so terrible!

 

[sean miguel]

I'm sorry Hero. I know how heartbreaking that is. Not having kids, my pets ARE my kids and I love them as such. Take comfort in that she lived her life with someone who obviously loved and cared for her. As much joy as they bring to our lives, damn, it hurts when they go. And she is a cute kitty.

 

[CrimsonBolt]

Yes loved her like she was my daughter that's so hard and unfair 9 years it's too young to die.
thanks for the kind words

 

[ApolloBalboa]

I'm sorry to hear that. I've always hoped that, over the 26 years I've had pets, that at least one of them would (seemingly) pass away peacefully in their sleep, but it's always been the case that they've gotten sick and I've eventually had to euthanize them so they didn't suffer. It's hard to look into their eyes when you know they're sick, and even harder to slowly see the last vestiges of light slip away as they're put to sleep, when you know what's happening and they don't.

I have no doubt you cared for her greatly, and as cliche as it sounds, she's now in a better place where she's not suffering. But she knows you loved her, and you'll always remember her.

 

[CrimsonBolt]

I don't know for the better world i'm not a believer, but yes at least now she doesn't suffer anymore.
And i will never forget her, even if now i would forget because that's so hard, i haven't cry for years and today i'm like a little baby.

 

[Mayhem]

Sorry man. I lost Sassy after 14 years, a few months ago. It was horrible. I would introduce her to people by calling her "my teenage daughter."

I hope you get through it. I'm fresh off the exact same pain.

 

[Jagger69]

My heart goes out to you, amigo. We had to put our awesome Jack Russell terrier down in March and I'm still grief-stricken over it. Give it some time but, in my experience, it will help for you to eventually go get another cat. Not that it can take your cat's place but just having another animal to love and depend on you will help to fill the void you are feeling. My house just wasn't complete without my dog. Sorry for you but please take some solace in knowing that others share your pain. :crying:

 

[Supafly]

The cute little thing looked a lot like my late Findus, who only stayed 5 months with me, last year. He was coal black, too and was already 13 and a little ill. Had to add extra nutritional paste to his food.

Last summer, during a stretch of very hot days, he got more and more quiet and retreated more and more, and on the 10th of July, he died, in my arms. I felt as bad as you, Hero, and remembring still is tough.

But ten days later I got my little Beasty, from the animal shelter, too, she is only 3, and she is almost compketely white - and a little princess. Handicapped, like me.

That is my advice for you:

Get a new cat who needs a home and a loving daddy, and you will be much better.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Sorry Hero. I lost a cat at 9 years old once. He was a very nice Orange Tabby who used to enjoy sleeping by my face. When he was by himself he'd lay on his back like a drunk. Great cat. He died suddenly of a blood clot and I had to put him to sleep. He was a good buddy and I was sad for a long time.

I agree with The Fly that when the time is right and you are ready to adopt a cat from a shelter that needs a home. About 3 years ago I adopted 2 littermates(male and female) and have been enjoying them ever since.

Take care of yourself in the meantime.

 

[cestmoi2010]

Many years ago we had a cat who developed Feline AIDS (No clue how). He went from 13 pounds to 8 pounds. All he ever did was sleep and go to the bathroom wherever because he didn't have enough energy to go to the Litter Box. We knew he was very sick but we didn't want to put him down because we loved him. His life was miserable until one day he, thankfully, died in his sleep.

That changed my thinking forever. Looking back on it we were as cruel as could be to this cat. The worst thing we could do is what we did - let him keep living the way he was. Putting him down at least a month earlier was what we should have done and I vowed what happened to this cat would never happen again. Many years later my brother had a dog. It developed Cancer and had massive sores and all over his body. I told my brother: Either you take him to the Vet and put him down or I will. I told him he had one week to do it or I would. He did it 2 days later. As painful as it was it was the right move

As painful as this was - it was the right move. And you know it. Doesn't make it easy to accept but the right thing was done.

 

[xfire]

I've been through it, no words can really convey how much it hurts. Sorry for your loss, Hero.

 

[Slowhand69]

I am sorry to hear this, my friend. You will never forget the good times that you had with your cat. You did the right thing by putting her down. Sorry for you loss ...

 

[Mr. Daystar]

I'm sorry to hear that. It's never easy to loose a loved one.

 

[zipper_666]

Sorry for your loss. I once lost a dog many years back that was a part of our family for about 15 years. It hurts to lose a pet that has been a big part of your life for a long time, but with time .....there comes healing.

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

Sorry for the bad news. Very sad stuff.

 

[CrimsonBolt]

Thank you all for your kind words, I won't took another one, she was my baby no one else can't replace my baby.
Also feel sorry for all the person that lost their cats or dogs, people without animals can find that stupid, but yes it hurts the same as if you lost your own kid.

 

[thatbigsecret]

Animals are as much family as people (my two current dogs I classify as sons) so I am sorry to hear this...The pain never goes away, but nothing will take away the memories of your friend! Stay strong and live big, as your life continues. We all truly grieve with you Hero.