Bear, I know we haven't talked much but I feel for you too and hope you will come back to us one day. Take care of your children and take care of yourself! You will be in my prayers tonight!
Help me please
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The Paulinator
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Think about how blessed you were to be an important part of the life of someone who was so important to you. Life always passes. Love is forever. I wish you strength in this tough time.
Alyssa Rose
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Bear<3 I wish I had something to say to make it better. Im here if you need a friend. <3
sorry bear. been rough for you, no doubt. take care of yourself, and let your friends take care of you too. you know they want to.
I am so sorry to hear of your losses. Please take care of yourself.
Facetious
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*Expired* (post deleted - for the record). :o
reiterate : Bear Come Baaaaaaaaack !! :scream:
.....when the time feels right
Marlo Manson
Hello Sexy girl how your Toes doing?
Trust me brutha I've been there. I know it hurts more than anything to lose people we love. although life goes on, its a fucked up part of life that we all have to deal with @ some point, sometimes more than we care too, the only thing you can do is remember all the good times you had with those people that moved on, you can't blame yourself for what happened to them, it was there time, for whatever fucked up reason, you can't dwell on the pain or it will eat away your mental stability within, death lives amongst us, but we have to survive it or we are a slave to death itself as well.
You have to know you can survive & flourish in your loved one's memories, do you think they'd want you to quit living cuz they are not amongst us any longer? NO they'd want you to have a great life & make them proud of you, they'll be your angels, they'll be watching over you & your loved ones. Live your life brutha. You only have one, you make the best of it, you love your family & friends, be the best you can be & thats your legacy, to be the best you can possibly be while your alive & living on this roller coaster of life. cuz theres up & downs, highs & lows, good & bad, happy & sad....etc..
I know death is the hardest thing to deal with in life, but don't let it take you as well, don't you do anything stupid BEAR. You have people who love you just as much as you did for your dad & friend, so don't hurt them, they need you in this time of grief, if you do anything stupid you could traumatize all the people that love you, cuz they are already dealing with your dad & your friends departure. you will be alright brutha. be strong & think about all your other loved ones that LOVE you, depend on & care about you... you can PM me anytime you need to talk..
Hang in there Brutha Bear.. stay with us, stay amongst your family, stay close to them & take comfort in there company & love. also take comfort in knowing your in all of your FREEONES FRIENDS prayers as well, take care & be well.. & I absolutely expect to hear from you again. you have to many people that love you for you to go and do anything to hurt yourself. :angels::angels::hatsoff:
You have to know you can survive & flourish in your loved one's memories, do you think they'd want you to quit living cuz they are not amongst us any longer? NO they'd want you to have a great life & make them proud of you, they'll be your angels, they'll be watching over you & your loved ones. Live your life brutha. You only have one, you make the best of it, you love your family & friends, be the best you can be & thats your legacy, to be the best you can possibly be while your alive & living on this roller coaster of life. cuz theres up & downs, highs & lows, good & bad, happy & sad....etc..
I know death is the hardest thing to deal with in life, but don't let it take you as well, don't you do anything stupid BEAR. You have people who love you just as much as you did for your dad & friend, so don't hurt them, they need you in this time of grief, if you do anything stupid you could traumatize all the people that love you, cuz they are already dealing with your dad & your friends departure. you will be alright brutha. be strong & think about all your other loved ones that LOVE you, depend on & care about you... you can PM me anytime you need to talk..
Hang in there Brutha Bear.. stay with us, stay amongst your family, stay close to them & take comfort in there company & love. also take comfort in knowing your in all of your FREEONES FRIENDS prayers as well, take care & be well.. & I absolutely expect to hear from you again. you have to many people that love you for you to go and do anything to hurt yourself. :angels::angels::hatsoff:
Do not listen to people that say time will make it better because it won't. I am sorry for your loss.. losing anyone especially someone who is a true best friend is never easy. All I can say to help you is that I hope you have the right people in your life because they are the only thing that will keep your head above water. Hang in there Man
Wainkerr99
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Dear Bear
I can only imagine the pain you must be going through right now. I did not really know my father, even so I was stunned when I learned of his passing.
You, however, were very close. Also, to lose your best friend is a double blow.
It took me about a year to let my father go, then about 14 years before the tie finally severed.
If at all possible, it would be good to see you around here a bit in the future, because you are loved and would be missed.
I wish the best for you in this time. I wish you strength.
Know this, you are not alone.
I am sure your father was proud of you, and held you in high esteem. You will always cherish him in your memory.
I can only imagine the pain you must be going through right now. I did not really know my father, even so I was stunned when I learned of his passing.
You, however, were very close. Also, to lose your best friend is a double blow.
It took me about a year to let my father go, then about 14 years before the tie finally severed.
If at all possible, it would be good to see you around here a bit in the future, because you are loved and would be missed.
I wish the best for you in this time. I wish you strength.
Know this, you are not alone.
I am sure your father was proud of you, and held you in high esteem. You will always cherish him in your memory.
I'm really sorry to hear about your loss, Bear. I know that this is a difficult time that you're going through right now, but you gotta stay strong and keep your head up. Death is a bitch, but it's only one of the bumps along the road of life. Your father was taken for a reason that you can't question, only assimilate. Instead of letting his death stop you use the memories that you have of his to help you through this difficult time. Hang in there, and don't forget that we're all here for you.
hey guys im ok i still dont know what im gonna do im just taking it day by day but i knew it wasnt fair just to post one message and leave forever .
i want you to know im ok
ps to that one comment and you know who you are i can you do me a favor please ???
GO TO HELL !!!!
i want you to know im ok
ps to that one comment and you know who you are i can you do me a favor please ???
GO TO HELL !!!!
He will.
hey guys thanks for all the love and support and im doing ok i finally came up with the cash to get my dad creamated and back home but i have to wait 13 days for that its so hard.
he sat down for dinner said hey get me some to eat quick i think my sugar is dropping his eyes just rolled back in his head and he died right here on the floor infront of me my sister my 6 yr old neice and my mom .
so yeah its taken some time but im ok and i just want to thank you all ill be back being the bear most of you know and love someday i promise
he sat down for dinner said hey get me some to eat quick i think my sugar is dropping his eyes just rolled back in his head and he died right here on the floor infront of me my sister my 6 yr old neice and my mom .
so yeah its taken some time but im ok and i just want to thank you all ill be back being the bear most of you know and love someday i promise
that is so beautiful and that statment alone means so much and has helped keep my head held high he will never be gone he will live on threw me
Skyraider22
The One and Only Big Daddy
welcome back glad to hear from you you got a lot of love here Bro:lovecoupl
