I did once, and I'm here to report that it wasn't all it's cracked up to be, or at least wasn't for me. In fact, it was the most nerve-wracking sexual experience of my life.
I was still pretty inexperienced at the time and so I wasn't very confident in my abilities, which made it even more nerve-wracking. She was older than me and she hadn't had sex with a man since high school. Anyway, we were friends for a while and she was cute and pretty drunk and so we ended up having sex. The thing that made the sex pretty bad for me, besides my relative inexperience, was that I felt ten times the pressure to make it really good, like I had the reputation of the entire male gender riding on my dick, so to speak. And there was no way I was going to go down on her, since I had no chance of being as good at eating her out as her girlfriend. She seemed pretty into it, but probably not as much as the straight girls I've been with. Long story short, lots of heavy petting followed by brief intercourse, all in all a pretty awkward experience. Looking back on it I wish I could have another shot at it to redeem myself, because my skills and confidence at the time were less than adequate.
I'm ready to chalk up the awkwardness of the whole ordeal to my relative inexperience, but I was definitely psyched out by the whole lesbian thing too. I'm curious if there are any other straight guys out there who've had sex with lesbians and what their experiences were like.
Did you feel the same pressure I did? Was the sex any good?
(I'm tempted to include some sort of warning to anyone who might be tempted to write about some made up fantasy scenario, but I figure that will happen anyway and anything I say won't do any good to stop it.)
I was still pretty inexperienced at the time and so I wasn't very confident in my abilities, which made it even more nerve-wracking. She was older than me and she hadn't had sex with a man since high school. Anyway, we were friends for a while and she was cute and pretty drunk and so we ended up having sex. The thing that made the sex pretty bad for me, besides my relative inexperience, was that I felt ten times the pressure to make it really good, like I had the reputation of the entire male gender riding on my dick, so to speak. And there was no way I was going to go down on her, since I had no chance of being as good at eating her out as her girlfriend. She seemed pretty into it, but probably not as much as the straight girls I've been with. Long story short, lots of heavy petting followed by brief intercourse, all in all a pretty awkward experience. Looking back on it I wish I could have another shot at it to redeem myself, because my skills and confidence at the time were less than adequate.
I'm ready to chalk up the awkwardness of the whole ordeal to my relative inexperience, but I was definitely psyched out by the whole lesbian thing too. I'm curious if there are any other straight guys out there who've had sex with lesbians and what their experiences were like.
Did you feel the same pressure I did? Was the sex any good?
(I'm tempted to include some sort of warning to anyone who might be tempted to write about some made up fantasy scenario, but I figure that will happen anyway and anything I say won't do any good to stop it.)
