Going down on wife while going through Chemo...Quesstion

[biomech]

Definately check with her doc, it sounds a little strange.

 

[bevrages00]

BTW: it's grand that you still pursue having a healthy sex life with your wife after such a serious medical condition. Props to you, sir!

Thanks for the Props Ice, Like we have learned just b/c you get cancer doesn't mean your desire/need for sex dies.

And this is not something I take lightly or am joking about. But for those that have gone through cancer treatment or have been a caregiver for someone going through cancer treatment you would understand. It's something people don't fully grasp until they are knee deep in the ****.

 

[bevrages00]

I feel bad about it but this is basically how I felt reading this.

Call me a pussy, or an oversensitive guy, but if I had a wife and she went through cancer and chemo, sex would be the last thing on my mind. I'd really just be concentrating on caring for her and all. I'd want to be close physically but not in a sexual way. As for getting off, I'd just rely on Freeones.

But whatever; I won't judge this guy. I really do wish the best for him and his wife, even though this post struck me as insensitive.

And I felt the same way, initially being the caregiver, but my wife still wants to take care of her husband and we both needs. Going through this we try to find the humor and positive because if we didn't this ordeal would be even more difficult, Im a glass full kind of guy.

 

[bevrages00]

My god that is simply stunning.

Your wife is going through chemotherapy?

Her body assaulted by disease, medication, radiation. Her body ********* in the pursuit of saving her life, breasts or not she will still suffer some disfigurement.

And you have the Gaul to rejoice in her eventual fake breasts?

Selfish enough to question the harm that might come to you because SHE is the one going through a major medical procedure.

Think its hilarious to coin a phrase like "chemo tongue".

You are scum.

Does anyone else buy this ****? How can anyone so casually post this crap, think its hilarious and just off the cuff wonder is they are getting "chemo tongue".

I sincerely hope this is a joke. That somewhere there is not actually a woman lumbered with a sick, selfish jackass who would post this kind of crap on the internet.

Rejoice? No, glass half full, yes. She is the one who has rejoiced in her new "girls," and who am I to disagree with her, but be supportive and embrace the new her. So I guess by being a supportive caregiver and husband makes me scum and a selfish jackass.

Till you walk in my shoes you have no idea. I wouldn't wish this on anybody.