Girls mainly but guys can answer: Rejection

[atxraised]

1. Have you ever not had sex with a guy because he's not to your size standards (too big or too small)?
2. If you did have sex with that person why did you do it?

Assume that you're single and mingling for this question

 

[Gordar]

A woman doesn't think the same way a guy does. Sex for a woman can be pleasurable even if she has no orgasm.
Sex for a woman usually is about love, except in the adult industry, of course, in which case it's about $. Still, even in their private lives, it's usually about love. (Also the main reason why I usually say I wouldn't have a problem dating a pornstar. Sure, they'd fuck someone else, but it'd be totally emotionless & when they get home they'd still love the guy waiting for them...)

In the case of a guy, sex is a means to an end, cumming. If a guy doesn't orgasms, he's a failure.
For a guy, sex is lust. Sure, a guy can have sex with a girl which he loves, but if he's not physically excited, he has a problem.

To a woman, the size of the penis (I assume that's what you're talking about & not the size of the fist when the guy is fisting a girl) isn't that important, as long as the guy is romantic & caring, so my guess is that most girls will answer no to the 1st question, if they truly want a relationship with the guy in question & I think that also answers the 2nd question.

(btw, I've had a few beers & I'm not entirely sober right now... so I might quote myself & post some improvements tomorrow).

 

[mrtrebus]

The trick is to get the girl really aroused before having penetrative sex. That way by the time she gets to see your cock she's frothing at the gash & just wants it in her regardless of size.

 

[Alyssa Rose]

Well honestly size isn't the deciding factor in a relationship for me. I mean if your talking about a one night stand and a guy pulls his pants down and there's 2 inches of hard cock in front of me, I'm not gonna be like "oh hell yeah lets get it on!" because when its strictly for sex of course you want to be sexually satisfied and have a story to tell (yes we girls talk about sex, probably more then you guys do ) but when it comes to a relationship, you don't fall in love with a penis, you fall in love with a man. I think Gordar has it correct for the most part. I happen to be very lucky because my husband is very well endowed but had he been small it wouldn't have changed how in love with him I am. I mean if a guy is really worried about their small 'member' they should just learn how to use their tongue.

 

[mrtrebus]

Well honestly size isn't the deciding factor in a relationship for me. I mean if your talking about a one night stand and a guy pulls his pants down and there's 2 inches of hard cock in front of me, I'm not gonna be like "oh hell yeah lets get it on!" because when its strictly for sex of course you want to be sexually satisfied and have a story to tell (yes we girls talk about sex, probably more then you guys do ) but when it comes to a relationship, you don't fall in love with a penis, you fall in love with a man. I think Gordar has it correct for the most part. I happen to be very lucky because my husband is very well endowed but had he been small it wouldn't have changed how in love with him I am. I mean if a guy is really worried about their small 'member' they should just learn how to use their tongue.

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