Girlfriend on business trip and I watch (too much) porn

[home_alone]

Hi everybody,

I'd like to get your take on something. I'm new to the board. That's because I just found it two days ago when my girlfriend left for a 14-day business trip to asia.

Well, in a way I was looking forward to that. I live with her and don't have much time for myself. I guess I wanted to watch some porn again for a longer span of time. Our sex life is quite okay, I can't say she doesn't satisfy me. But still I was looking forward to watch porn and jerk off to that.

First question: Is that a normal feeling? Or has to be something wrong with my relationship anyway?

While looking for good porn and paying an entrance fee for two great sites I kept looking for specific actresses. During the last two days I spend every minute I could afford looking for and watching porn. Maybe that's what I miss from being a single man. After orgasm I feel kind of bad because I feel like I betrayed my girlfriend. And I feel even worse when I say that my sexual appetite is actually at its highest point in the last two years now. I feel absolutely terrible when I think that the next few days will be absolutely fantastic because she is not here and I can watch as much porn as I like.

Second question: Do I have to do something about that? I really love her. I don't want to leave her at all. But I also can't talk with her about it. I know she finds it disgusting.

I hope this is the right board for a question like this.

Thanks for answering.

 

[Legzman]

dude there's nothing wrong with watching porn, so get that thought out of your head right now! Look at it this way, would she rather you be out fucking other girls? Yea, didn't think so! Enjoy your time to yourself!

 

[Ace Bandage]

Asia is an awfully vague destination for a business trip.

She's probably just down the street raw doggin' randoms at a Motel 6. Perhaps you should look for her...

 

[feller469]

What does your g/ do for a living and will she be visiting Florida anytime soon?

 

[biomech]

Asia is an awfully vague destination for a business trip.

She's probably just down the street raw doggin' randoms at a Motel 6. Perhaps you should look for her...

:1orglaugh

 

[SpexyAshleigh]

The only thing you should ever feel bad about is if you're lying to her about your porn usage, being deceitful in any way, or spending $$ that isn't yours to spend on it. But if you're upfront, then you've done nothing wrong.

 

[Tittyman5000]

Its natural to gratify yourself every once in a while, hell I do it even though I have a GF, she knows I have porn & the Internet, I know she dislikes it but Its better than me going & doing other bitches in real life. So I don't have to hide it but at least I can fuck her & say I learned this by watching porn.

 

[grower_boy]

We all have things we feel guilty or uncomfortable about. Like some other posters have said, maybe talking with her about it would make you feel less guilty.

 

[tartanterrier]

The only thing I can say is make the most of it before she comes back

 

[CherylFan]

Enjoy it while she`s away and then bang her brains out as much as possible the night she gets back

 

[Hot Mega]

This is pretty simple IMO.

2 things.

1. The first test to know if you're doing something wrong behind your g/f or b/f's back is to ask yourself how would you feel if you found out they were doing the same thing.

It's okay to have a innocent guilt over wanting her to be gone in order to enjoy it. Take it as a person on a diet who can't wait for the chance to get away with eating cake again. But at some point for you to have a healthy perspective on it and you'll have to manage your "cake" desire to some moderate appetite for it or else there could be trouble.

2. We all need our own time and space for the shit we want to do. Whether that be golf, swimming, cigar smoking or whacking your peter to porn, we all need our own space and time. That said, you should manage your 'me' time accordingly... Even if you want your fappin to be private and just your business...you shouldn't get into being deceitful or going out of your way to do it. It should be 'me' time that shouldn't come at the expense of anything else.

Example, you and your girl go on a cruise. Instead of enjoying the cruise you're too busy trying to find a crevice of time to fap. If that or anything near becomes the case, time to look in the mirror and self assess.:2 cents:

 

[vodkazvictim]

The reprobate incorrigible scum on this board can barely comprehend normal. Get out while you still can.