Frustrations...

[me4uvica]

Tell you what, tht adivce sounds good but I can honestly say, I might as well have an affair then because even pretend will not do the trick, she will divorce my ass.....and even more so if she has to find hotel slips......but thanks for the advice, I will use some of it, like leaving glues almost like a treasure hunt and she might just find a dildo and a naked picture of me with words soudning something like "This is all you get untill you give head"....and then I will be out with the mates gettign sloshed :glugglug:
Soem good advice here....

 

[Anonymous2]

but thanks for the advice, I will use some of it, like leaving glues almost like a treasure hunt and she might just find a dildo and a naked picture of me with words soudning something like "This is all you get untill you give head"....

:rofl: Very sensitive approach indeed.

What you posted earlier got me thinking. You said everything was dandy in the beginning and after a while she just didn't enjoy it anymore, right? Isn't it possible that there's a good reason for it? I could imagine she might have some sort of pain when you enter her in other positions but she doesn't want to tell you because she's ashamed or something. I really believe you should have some good old-fashioned talk about it and you should be frank as mcrocket suggested. Tell her you don't like the way your sex life has developed, but do it in a nice way. If she isn't up for talks maybe you write her a letter about it or something. Women generally appreciate it if you share your thoughts with them and as far as this topic is concerned I think this is indeed the best idea.

 

[McRocket]

I am telling you man. You have been given some advice to play games with her - which I thik is nothing but trouble when dealing with most women.
And you have my advice which is to be blunt. Which is the way I like to be - but that is not always the way with women either.
For what it's worth, I would read what Vegas Yankee wrote very carefully. I think he is right on.

You know her WAAAAAYYY better then any of us. But playing more games with her - is that really the best way to go? And maybe being blunt isn't her way either.
But could it kill you to just talk to her. Like Vegas Yankee said - except the way you would do it.

Hope it works out. And if it does - I fully expect some financial renumeration....even if my advice was useless.

 

[Ludovico]

Listen Sonny Croket, me4uvica needs some miami heat, now go and feed your alligator and play with your partner Tubbs :1orglaugh

But yes you are right he should be honest with her and tell her what he wants. But this can be just as bad as well, this can lead her to believe that she is married to an oversexed fetishist who wants to oggle at her in sexy lingerie and watch her sticking plastic objects where they don't belong

No I feel the solution to this little conundrum is to take your wife on a romantic holiday. To a luxurious location, where you have time for each other and no commitments. There will be no excuses for not getting it on like a couple of march hares.

OK, Crocket I wont say anymore about Miami Vice, sorry for any offence :thumbsup:

 

[McRocket]

Listen Sonny Croket, me4uvica needs some miami heat, now go and feed your alligator and play with your partner Tubbs :1orglaugh

But yes you are right he should be honest with her and tell her what he wants. But this can be just as bad as well, this can lead her to believe that she is married to an oversexed fetishist who wants to oggle at her in sexy lingerie and watch her sticking plastic objects where they don't belong

No I feel the solution to this little conundrum is to take your wife on a romantic holiday. To a luxurious location, where you have time for each other and no commitments. There will be no excuses for not getting it on like a couple of march hares.

OK, Crocket I wont say anymore about Miami Vice, sorry for any offence :thumbsup:

Doesn't bother me - I loved that show way back when - well, at least the first two seasons.
Anyway, it is actually intended to be Mc Rocket. But your idea is fine.

I don't see anything wrong with telling her he is sex crazed. Why do so many guys insist on pretending with their women. Always be honest. Blunt - with a heart. That way you have nothing to fear from her. I guarantee you if more guys did - the divorce rate would be lower. IMO.

But your romantic idea is a good one as well - I think.

 

[Ludovico]

No my point was that she already seems like a frigid lady so by telling her you are a horny old goat might upset her and make her feel more uncomfortable.

Now there might be another explanation as too why she is behaving in this way, maybe she is the one getting serviced by the milkman and twice in one day might be too much

Where is FoxyCougar these days I am sure she could give the best advice being a shrink and all :1orglaugh

 

[me4uvica]

Well now, some very good idvice and some suggestions that has crossed my mind as well, if she is gettign some on the side,then she'll better have a very good lawyer, I don't think that is the case, she is actually very old fashion, you just look at her jocks and she goes all red in the face......all she can handle is the old mission possion............
Anyway, the part of hurting her might be very close to the truth but if that is the case then she actually enjoys it, we have spoken about it and she does complain that I am a bit big.....not bragging....but when I suggestion a different position that might not hurt the thrusting she says no..... mission is just fine.........just wish I coudl convince her giving head is good for her and very good for me, after all I LOVE going down on her, even way down.......but now it is Mrs. Palmer and her 5 lovely daughters for me for the next 6 weeks minimum, she is in hospital and about to have our baby girl :angels: .....so ladies any advice on dirty talk or how to use Mrs. Palmer put it this way, I see there is a topic on how to mastrubate some where on he board, have to go and get some tips......cheers folks!! Where can I get some nice vids of women mastrubating, not too fond of looking at guys gettign lucky........without having to pay dollars and dollars, you know the South African Rand against the dollar is heavy and if the wife must see porn on the credit card statement, I am dead!!!!!!!!