Favorite non-physical trait in a woman?
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No one hit it (although someone hit it partially/generically) ...
Well, no one hit my favorite trait. But more on that in a moment ...
A woman must want to fuck because she is a woman, and want a lover (a man in my selfish case) to do it with. If she has built pyramids of what she believes is "required" for her company, then she will either sit alone at her altar or, as most eventually come around to, make concessions so someone will join her. But in the case of the latter, she will never be fully satisfied, and she will often -- especially after years -- drop that on her lover.
Sex is so broadly popular not merely because of instinct, but it is an universal emotion we all experience. Whether we have a one-time lover, friend with benefits, etc... or we are engaged in a long-time relationship, sex is a staple of a relationship. Can a relationship exist without sex? Sure. But should it? Really?
As I turned to my wife early in our relationship when she pulled that rare moment of question, "Honey, there's going to be a day when you and I can't physical do what we do and you're going to hate yourself for not doing it to me when you could." My wife has been a fuck bunny ever since, as I, savoring the fact that we can have sex, and telling everyone else, everyone else's judgement, that they can go fuck themselves if they don't agree with our mutual consent.
Sex is happiness. Not on its own, I won't lie, but sex is part of it -- and can and should be a natural, real, key part of it, with only the added requirement of responsibility. It's why I started tit-fucking as much as I could mid-high school and stopped with the other bullshit. I wasn't going to deny my instincts, as long as I had consent. It wasn't about "the score," but "the experience."
Romance takes many forms. I try to think of my wife and do little things when I can to show my love and appreciation. But when we're together, we fuck, and we fuck like bunnies. When I had a woman who was more frigid, I respected that, but I also moved on. If she wanted to be judgemental about that, then it was her loss -- I still offered to be her friend and even a lover at any time in the future.
If you find someone who is already selfless, it's a good chance that they will be selfless with you too. Unfortunately some men do get upset if the woman is selfless with others as much as him, especially other men. But that's more of a discussion of envy-jealousy, and not really a problem with her.
Yeah, yeah, some talk about the "fuck factor" getting ruined by humour when you want someone serious. But in reality, there's going to be a time when you make the wrong move, fall flat on your ass, pass gas and countless other things. Hell, I will fully admit that my wife recognizes that I don't stay as hard as long as I did 15 years ago, and even that takes a bit of humour to get past at times.
Don't get me wrong, I love the "fuck me eyes" and "banging the shit out of her," but sometimes we sit back and have to use a little humour as well. "Oh yeah baby, bang the shit out of me like you were half your age again" -- where some might take offense, we both laughed our asses off at that one.
My favorite trait is ...
Frugalness!
I saw her cutting coupons and knew it was true love! Seriously, having a woman who is responsible with the checkbook and would rather have gifts bought for her than buy them herself is golden. Even better is the fact that she gets off on how little something costs when she really likes it, and does not use price as a gage of love.
Hell, if I had to date again (at least when looking for love), I'd definitely take her to a restaurant where I had a coupon or discount. Although I wouldn't tell her beforehand or let it limit her selection, I would definitely use it and let her see me use it afterwards. If it bothered her I would know she isn't the one.
With that said ...
... of course, there had to be at least one ... :rofl:
Well, no one hit my favorite trait. But more on that in a moment ...
Actually, I think someone already hit on that ... see the following ...
I agree!I like when woman is immodest, unromantic and lascivious. These are very rare qualities, most of the girls I know a spoiled with stupid romantic ideals, sex for them is just an appendix for love. Love is their idée fixe, and its success to find girl who is not mentally deranged with that delerium.
In general, attitude towards sex is the most important criteria. It is very hard to find a girl who is not twisted on "serious relationship" bullshit, and who will not say that sex is banal, and that the most important shit is in the heart and soul, inner world, blah blah blah and all that nonsense.
Animal nature is required
A woman must want to fuck because she is a woman, and want a lover (a man in my selfish case) to do it with. If she has built pyramids of what she believes is "required" for her company, then she will either sit alone at her altar or, as most eventually come around to, make concessions so someone will join her. But in the case of the latter, she will never be fully satisfied, and she will often -- especially after years -- drop that on her lover.
Sex is so broadly popular not merely because of instinct, but it is an universal emotion we all experience. Whether we have a one-time lover, friend with benefits, etc... or we are engaged in a long-time relationship, sex is a staple of a relationship. Can a relationship exist without sex? Sure. But should it? Really?
As I turned to my wife early in our relationship when she pulled that rare moment of question, "Honey, there's going to be a day when you and I can't physical do what we do and you're going to hate yourself for not doing it to me when you could." My wife has been a fuck bunny ever since, as I, savoring the fact that we can have sex, and telling everyone else, everyone else's judgement, that they can go fuck themselves if they don't agree with our mutual consent.
Sex is happiness. Not on its own, I won't lie, but sex is part of it -- and can and should be a natural, real, key part of it, with only the added requirement of responsibility. It's why I started tit-fucking as much as I could mid-high school and stopped with the other bullshit. I wasn't going to deny my instincts, as long as I had consent. It wasn't about "the score," but "the experience."
Romance takes many forms. I try to think of my wife and do little things when I can to show my love and appreciation. But when we're together, we fuck, and we fuck like bunnies. When I had a woman who was more frigid, I respected that, but I also moved on. If she wanted to be judgemental about that, then it was her loss -- I still offered to be her friend and even a lover at any time in the future.
Definitely a key trait in a long-term relationship. If a person can't value their partner more than themselves, then it's questionable if the relationship will last.
If you find someone who is already selfless, it's a good chance that they will be selfless with you too. Unfortunately some men do get upset if the woman is selfless with others as much as him, especially other men. But that's more of a discussion of envy-jealousy, and not really a problem with her.
Other than my absolute favorite, those two are probably the best two requirements when it comes to a long-term partner. Someone who not only stimulates your mind, but can make you laugh -- even in bed.
Yeah, yeah, some talk about the "fuck factor" getting ruined by humour when you want someone serious. But in reality, there's going to be a time when you make the wrong move, fall flat on your ass, pass gas and countless other things. Hell, I will fully admit that my wife recognizes that I don't stay as hard as long as I did 15 years ago, and even that takes a bit of humour to get past at times.
Don't get me wrong, I love the "fuck me eyes" and "banging the shit out of her," but sometimes we sit back and have to use a little humour as well. "Oh yeah baby, bang the shit out of me like you were half your age again" -- where some might take offense, we both laughed our asses off at that one.
You came the closest there with "low maintenance." That's an indirect, partial hit, although generic.
My favorite trait is ...
Frugalness!
I saw her cutting coupons and knew it was true love! Seriously, having a woman who is responsible with the checkbook and would rather have gifts bought for her than buy them herself is golden. Even better is the fact that she gets off on how little something costs when she really likes it, and does not use price as a gage of love.
Hell, if I had to date again (at least when looking for love), I'd definitely take her to a restaurant where I had a coupon or discount. Although I wouldn't tell her beforehand or let it limit her selection, I would definitely use it and let her see me use it afterwards. If it bothered her I would know she isn't the one.
With that said ...
... of course, there had to be at least one ... :rofl:
Yeah, I like "big tits" which aren't "boobs" -- WTF? :rofl:
Faithfulness or Honesty?
To me, "honesty" is far, far more of a key trait than "faithfulness," the latter which can vary in definition greatly.
In my case and definition, which may differ from yours, I don't want a woman who is going to lie to me about her emotions. I want her to be honest about what she likes. If she wants another man, I'd rather her tell me. If I love her, I'd accommodate her.
Going the other way, some women would say I'm "faithful." Frankly, I don't value that at all.
I merely married a woman because I love her and wanted to be with her the rest of my life. I seem "faithful" only because of the comfort I have with my wife in the sack, no other woman is going to "satisfy me." In that regard, I've come to find my own monogamy towards her an aphrodisiac. While other men complain about "having the same steak day after day," I can attest to the fact that fucking the same woman for multiple decades has benefits.
Like the fact that she knows my ever, physical response as her own instinct, and how to press it just right, to the edge, but keep me from "just getting off." I also love her as she ages, and can't wait for her to hit her 40s. There's something to be said about fucking a woman when she's 18, 25, 33 and 40+, experiencing all of her physical changes. I'm sure many will disagree, but that's what does it for me.
If my wife came to me and said, "honey, I've gotta fuck this guy," I'd be set back. But I'd be glad she was honest. And I'd do my best to accommodate her, because I love her. If anything, the combination of honesty and selflessness are key combinations.
By "Faithfulness" do you mean never want to cheat, or do you mean "Honesty" meaning she would tell you if she wanted another man?
To me, "honesty" is far, far more of a key trait than "faithfulness," the latter which can vary in definition greatly.
In my case and definition, which may differ from yours, I don't want a woman who is going to lie to me about her emotions. I want her to be honest about what she likes. If she wants another man, I'd rather her tell me. If I love her, I'd accommodate her.
Going the other way, some women would say I'm "faithful." Frankly, I don't value that at all.
I merely married a woman because I love her and wanted to be with her the rest of my life. I seem "faithful" only because of the comfort I have with my wife in the sack, no other woman is going to "satisfy me." In that regard, I've come to find my own monogamy towards her an aphrodisiac. While other men complain about "having the same steak day after day," I can attest to the fact that fucking the same woman for multiple decades has benefits.
Like the fact that she knows my ever, physical response as her own instinct, and how to press it just right, to the edge, but keep me from "just getting off." I also love her as she ages, and can't wait for her to hit her 40s. There's something to be said about fucking a woman when she's 18, 25, 33 and 40+, experiencing all of her physical changes. I'm sure many will disagree, but that's what does it for me.
If my wife came to me and said, "honey, I've gotta fuck this guy," I'd be set back. But I'd be glad she was honest. And I'd do my best to accommodate her, because I love her. If anything, the combination of honesty and selflessness are key combinations.
A women who's a good cook!
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good cooking
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the trait of not speaking when not being spoken to.
non-physical? :dunno: if you take away the physical, they're just like men....that's creepy.
:dunno: if you take away the physical, they're just like men....that's creepy.
I've been watching some of the Euro 2008 games!
Would voice qualify as being non-physical?
If so, that's my choice. :thumbsup:
If so, that's my choice. :thumbsup:
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