Ever Have Your Heart Broken????

Is it possible to ever really be over them? It has been over two years since me and my ex have broken up, and I still can't stand seeing her with anyone else. Not that I want to pound the guys face in, or that I still want to be with her, but knowing that she is happier now than she was with me is what hurts, and I don't think I will ever be over that.
 
Sorry to hear about your situation Rabid, I've been cheated on before, but not on the level you are experiencing it I'm sure. Hang in there yourself and hopefully there's no family to worry about.

Thanks for that hill. Yeah I'm thanking my lucky stars that we have no children, I just don't know what it would be like if kids were involved. Atleast this way it's only our own crap we have to sort out. Thankfully for the most part I have reasonably good coping skills and good friends so am getting through it.
 
My girlfriend left me for a whole year. It ripped me apart. for a week after she cut the chord, I didn't leave the house. And it still hurt for weeks after, but the pain does lessen as time goes by. (little things can always set you off when you're in that state, but for the most part, I began to heal.)

I took alot from the experience. And we stayed very very good friends. For months, I was interested only in being single and getting my life organized. Then last year, she told me she was going to see another person. I thought I was over her, but this caught me off guard. It hurt worse than the initial break-up.

So I figured, screw it. The only way I'm going to move on is if I find someone else too. And to be frank, I hadn't had sex in a while, and I was mostly just interested in putting my dick in someone. So I began talking to this other girl.

Bare in mind that my ex was my best friend, and I didn't want to lose that. I just wanted her in my life SOMEhow. So the whole time I'm trying to start something up with new girl, I'm still talking to my ex. I had no idea, but right away, she became extremely jealous. Her other guy didn't work out, and after one date she stopped seeing him. Eventually she called me and told me she wanted me back. We hooked up that night.

We have been together for six months now (again) and are still going strong.
 

LukeEl

I am a failure to the Korean side of my family
It sucks, I know the feeling, taking anti-depresseents really helps, and wishing her the best of luck in life. And abide by the saying "If it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be."
 
my girlfriend left me for a whole year. It ripped me apart. For a week after she cut the chord, i didn't leave the house. And it still hurt for weeks after, but the pain does lessen as time goes by. (little things can always set you off when you're in that state, but for the most part, i began to heal.)

i took alot from the experience. And we stayed very very good friends. For months, i was interested only in being single and getting my life organized. Then last year, she told me she was going to see another person. I thought i was over her, but this caught me off guard. It hurt worse than the initial break-up.

So i figured, screw it. The only way i'm going to move on is if i find someone else too. And to be frank, i hadn't had sex in a while, and i was mostly just interested in putting my dick in someone. So i began talking to this other girl.

Bare in mind that my ex was my best friend, and i didn't want to lose that. I just wanted her in my life somehow. So the whole time i'm trying to start something up with new girl, i'm still talking to my ex. I had no idea, but right away, she became extremely jealous. Her other guy didn't work out, and after one date she stopped seeing him. Eventually she called me and told me she wanted me back. We hooked up that night.

We have been together for six months now (again) and are still going strong.
mistake!!!!!!!!!!
 
I'm sorry OK?
Jesus how many times have I got to say it.
Get over it & move on dude!
There's a whole world out there, just a world without me in your life I'm afraid.

Oh, did I say I'm sorry?

But I love you!!! :bawling:
Just remember our nights together, such passion was shared between us. How could you leave it all behind like that!?! :(

Come on baby, take me back. I promise I'll never fuck your father again.
 
But I love you!!! :bawling:
Just remember our nights together, such passion was shared between us. How could you leave it all behind like that!?! :(

Come on baby, take me back. I Promise I'll never fuck your father again.
Blueballs "Come on baby, take me back. I Promise I'll never fuck your grandmother again."
Blueballs "Come on baby, take me back. I Promise I'll never fuck your grandmother's budgie again."

I forgave you twice. . .
:crying:
 
Blueballs "Come on baby, take me back. I promise I'll never fuck your grandmother again."
Blueballs "Come on baby, take me back. I promise I'll never fuck your grandmother's budgie again."

I forgave you twice. . .
:crying:

Okay I'll be honest; you need to forgive me about 17 ... no 23 more times. What can I say? Your family and their pets just seem irresistible to me for some reason. It must be that Trebus musk that you're all famous for.

Oh and the postman, Pat I think his name was and his black and white cat.

And his van.
And a train named Thomas.
And a builder named Bob.


..... oh, right. I apologise :hatsoff:
 
Okay I'll be honest; you need to forgive me about 17 ... no 23 more times. What can I say? Your family and their pets just seem irresistible to me for some reason. It must be that Trebus musk that you're all famous for.

Oh and the postman, Pat I think his name was and his black and white cat.

And his van.
And a train named Thomas.
And a builder named Bob.


..... oh, right. I apologise :hatsoff:
I know about Pat.
I, er, I paid him to seduce you.
I jerked off watching from within a post box. :shy:
 
Yes. Had a puppy love relationship with a childhood g/f and she died of cancer very young.

Shaped most of my perspective on living and dying.

Jodi Foster?

Nevermind, I was thinking of a movie :o
 
I have. It's a very difficult thing to overcome, but I'm glad it happened to me. It's almost as if I've risen from the ashes stronger than ever. For those who are currently struggling with this; stick in there. No one said it would be easy.

I really hated it when a few of my friends said that I would be over it in a few weeks. They obviously had never experience anything like that in their lives. So I just went it alone.
 

ChefChiTown

The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
There's a saying that tells you "broken hearts will mend", but...they won't. Once something is broken, it can't be fixed. It can only be given the appearance or the illusion of being fixed (via glue, tape, whatever), but it doesn't change the fact that it's still broken.

FYI - My heart is held together with spit and wads of chewed up Fruit Stripe gum.
 
Got my heart broken so bad it turned me into an emotional fortress...then I discovered beer and fell in love all over again. Seriously though, time lots of time and beer.
 
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