I rarely go to bars anymore, but I'm sadly too shy to talk to women anyway. I don't think it's a confidence thing, more of a how do I thing lol. I used to bounce at the main dance bar in town (thank God I don't do that anymore) and I had a crush on this girl. Took me four months to say hi after seeing her with her friends all the time.
Don't be "that guy" at bars/parties
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'Ice hockey is utter crap' never got me anywhere either, but at least my conscience is clear. 
'Ice hockey is utter crap' never got me anywhere either, but at least my conscience is clear.
Maybe 'cause the girls thought you wore knee high socks under your pants lol :squish:
Harley Spencer
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I completely sympathize with you Jaana. It can be flattering when you get hit on, but guys need to learn to at least be gentlemanly about it. If they go along muttering crap under their breath like, "Hey beautiful. God damn, you're beautiful. Can I get your number?" It's kind of repulsive, especially when they keep harping about it even when the girl is clearly not interested. What I can appreciate while even being in a relationship is when a guy comes up to me, says something nice like, "Hi. You're beautiful. What's your name?" I answer and they'll say something like, "Got any plans this evening? Yeah?" And whenI tell them my plans are with my boyfriend, they politely sat something like, "Oh, ok. Well, have a nice day!" That's a refreshing experience, to see that there are some men who aren't total dogs, or even if they are total dogs they at least have some manners about it.
The same with me, I'm open minded but if there is a scouse accent then its the big "fuck off".
It's nice when you realize something hasn't gone over everybody's heads.
You'd be surprised the reactions you get these days to "Tell me my dear... do you use Timotei?"
I never have any trouble. At bars, if I see a lady I want, I merely pull my penis out and stir her ***** with it. We're in a taxi to her place within 10 minutes every time.
Sounds like life has been good to you so far.
Made me laugh, out loud!
You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to lurkingdirk again.
bobjustbob
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I'm not that guy either. I have always let women pick me up. It's really not that hard. The models here have already broken the conventional theory that GQ looks are prime. A guy can only do so much with his looks. Just dress decently and clean yourself up. You don't need a rap or opening line. Just know how to have a conversation. If she has any interest then the conversation will continue. Bars, parties, ****** BBQs where some bring their friends, it works more often then you may think.
JaanaRuutu
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That's because that's the worst line ever and if you said it to me I'd pull the spare puck I keep in my purse out and beat you with it.'Ice hockey is utter crap' never got me anywhere either, but at least my conscience is clear.
So does this mean you're one of those Big Dick Bastards whatshisfuck talks about?
JaanaRuutu
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He kept trying to touch my hand.
To get you to dance of course.....
JaanaRuutu
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I have the right to not dance with him. I don't owe anyone a dance just because I'm pretty and at a bar.
Of course but I'm just saying he it not be interested in you in a sexual way and just want to dance and have a good time. Not every man approaching you is trying to get you in bed you know.
/ annoy Jaana for today mode off
Maggie Green
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Then definitely Assari since he doesn't know how to take a hint and go the fuck away!
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