Doms/subs/masters/mistresses/slaves and all the rest
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I thought it was just a hobby.
Subjucation, name calling, swearing, silly stories etc.
Not my cup of tea.
CandyAnn
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yes, i love to be a financial dominatrix, i love to control the guys money. makes me feel like im in power.
vodkazvictim
Why save the world, when you can rule it?
Doesn't hurt that you can go shopping afterwards tho, right?
My wife plays the Domme. I'm the Sub. She's taken it way, WAY too far.
JaanaRuutu
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I'm a Goddess.
SpexyAshleigh
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I've been a professional financial domme for over a decade, both online and in real time but have been dominating males since I was a kid. Such a huge part of my life and personality...I'll be domming until I die. Nothing sexier than a weak slave whispering "yes Princess" to My demands.
Harley Spencer
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I think I would love to be a sub. Fifty Shades style. Yum.
Fifty shades is why alot more people have become interested in it, but it is actually kind of far fetched as well. It does give a lot of principles and facts to the lifestyle, but the story itself is just to extremely far fetched, but that sells books and movies.
And by the way you would make one hell of a sub
its kind of ironic because my sub I have now has blue eyes and dark hair kind of built same too.
Harley Spencer
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Fifty shades is why alot more people have become interested in it, but it is actually kind of far fetched as well. It does give a lot of principles and facts to the lifestyle, but the story itself is just to extremely far fetched, but that sells books and movies.
And by the way you would make one hell of a sub
I know it's far fetched. A lot of the things in the books bothered me, like the whole orgasm from hardly nothing ordeal, but otherwise it was definitely a hot read.
I used to fantasize a lot, and one of my fantasies was being in a dungeon type room completely naked in the middle of the room with chains hanging from the ceiling, being suspended by my wrists and ankles, and someone having their way with me. Hot hot hot.
agreed about the books.
I had those fantasies too only I wasnt the one chained up
It is such a great lifestyle and rewarding as well. As long as you really give yourself into it. But now i am going to be thinking about that visual you gave me for awhile haha
Petra
Cult Mother and Simpering Cunt
Sub, but haven't played for years.
I'm still proud that I haven't succumbed to the 50 shade craze. LOL
But, I don't think you'll find many in the lifestyle here since we attract more of the mainstream crowd. There's been quite a few discussions on how BDSM is cruel and unusual and a disgrace to women everywhere.
I'm still proud that I haven't succumbed to the 50 shade craze. LOL
But, I don't think you'll find many in the lifestyle here since we attract more of the mainstream crowd. There's been quite a few discussions on how BDSM is cruel and unusual and a disgrace to women everywhere.
vodkazvictim
Why save the world, when you can rule it?
I find it funny that people think that when there is an abundance of men who are submissive to women. But people who dont know the details and what it is all about make judgements and their minds up before even getting the real truth behind what goes on.
Harley Spencer
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Exactly. But that's how life is in just about every situation. People apply only what they know without actually experiencing it for themselves, looking at it from another perspective, or learning the facts of something.
I have a dominate personality, and have participated in the lifestyle with a few girlfriends over the years.....had a lot of fun with it
I find some of the previous comments interesting about the Doms having the power, and I reckon that is true to some extent. But it has always been my observation that it is the Subs who have the true power......all they have to do is utter the safe word, and everything stops immediately (or IMHO it should).....yes the Doms do get their way, and always seem to be initiating what goes on......but to me that is just two people knowing their roles, and going with it
I find some of the previous comments interesting about the Doms having the power, and I reckon that is true to some extent. But it has always been my observation that it is the Subs who have the true power......all they have to do is utter the safe word, and everything stops immediately (or IMHO it should).....yes the Doms do get their way, and always seem to be initiating what goes on......but to me that is just two people knowing their roles, and going with it
Rey C.
Racing is life... anything else is just waiting.
Since you have experience in the lifestyle, would you agree that many of the people who make those judgements do so because of social conditioning? Particularly in the U.S., it seems that many/most Americans have been conditioned (by society, the media, etc.) to react in a certain way when they see or hear about certain things. If they hear that a man is a dom and even lightly spanks his girlfriend during a B&D session, they react with words like "woman hater", "misogyny", "violence against women", etc. But if a woman describes her role as a dominatrix and has a B&D or cuckhold lifestyle with her husband or partner, they either cheer her on or accept it without comment.
IMO, it's that social and legal hypocrisy that's led to many male dom sites being attacked and taken down, while femdom sites have exploded in number (Clips4Sale is based on them) and are almost never hassled... even when they engage in blood letting, forced sex or mock castrations.
Like I said, that's just an opinion based on observation of post-1990 porn and popular media in general. But I'd be curious to know if you or others here agree with that.
P.S. I've never been in a lifestyle arrangement or taken the time to develop the BDSM "rules" that some do, but yes, mainly because of my personality (I guess), I've almost always included aspects of my dominant side in sexual relationships - even in high school. For me it's just a way to spice things up or think of new & different things to do that are fun or exciting for both parties. There is such a thing as sensual domination that some just don't want to admit exists. So like trained parrots, they see something they've been taught not to like and then they use words like "misogyny" in true Pavlovian style. It's not just about the Marquis de Sade stuff. Some would be amazed at how excited a woman can get when you employ orgasm control on her... telling her when she may or may not cum - and then forcing an orgasm while she's trying not to cum. But different strokes for different folks. And if some don't like it, as I've said many times on here: don't watch it! But to me, the vanilla stuff is just :zombie: now.
