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Does your wife or girlfriend let you fuck her in the ass???
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It's occasional for us, maybe once a month? I'm not exactly sure -- just whenever the mood strikes us. She definitely enjoys it though, especially when I'm in the back and she's got a vibrator in the front. You get to feel it *all*. 
She initiates it often, but it's a relatively rare activity for us. Not sure any of the options apply to us.
She initiates it often, but it's a relatively rare activity for us. Not sure any of the options apply to us.
she hates it
As I am a girl I cannot vote on this. I have never given anal sex to a man but I hope I will. It would have to be a very close friend who I trusted a lot. I do not mind the idea that it might hurt or be uncomfortable. The fact that something hurts does not make it bad, for example I was out cycling today and climbing a couple of hills was very tough work and my legs were very sore and hurting me, but I still really enjoyed the cycle very much and felt really satisfied when I had done it. Childbirth is the most painful and the most satisfying thing in the world - and in the widest meaning of the word it is a sexual thing. So having a man have sex with you in ways that are uncomfortable or painful can be the same, but you have to really trust the man.
I was looking at this and the thread about wives and girl friends taking cum shots on their face (something I am quite happy to do) but I feel really sad that there are so many guys who would like to be sexual in ways like this and who do not get the chance to do it with their partners.
I remember reading a few months ago on a noticeboard a guy posting that the reason so many men looked at porn was they got to see and enjoy types of sex that they would never be able to get their wives or girl friends to agree to. I found that really sad - in fact I actually cried at the idea!
I think anal sex must be very enjoyable for most men. I hope you all the chance to enjoy it with a girl.
Mel
I was looking at this and the thread about wives and girl friends taking cum shots on their face (something I am quite happy to do) but I feel really sad that there are so many guys who would like to be sexual in ways like this and who do not get the chance to do it with their partners.
I remember reading a few months ago on a noticeboard a guy posting that the reason so many men looked at porn was they got to see and enjoy types of sex that they would never be able to get their wives or girl friends to agree to. I found that really sad - in fact I actually cried at the idea!
I think anal sex must be very enjoyable for most men. I hope you all the chance to enjoy it with a girl.
Mel
Great post, silent_blue! Perhaps there should be a poll - "Ladies, will you allow your man to fuck you in the ass?"
Anyway, you said:
"I remember reading a few months ago on a noticeboard a guy posting that the reason so many men looked at porn was they got to see and enjoy types of sex that they would never be able to get their wives or girl friends to agree to. I found that really sad - in fact I actually cried at the idea!"
C'mon, you CRIED?!!??? Really?
Doesn't it sorta depend on what they're lookin' at and feeling envious about? If it's vaginal sex that they're not getting, then yeah, that would seem to be a problem! And maybe the same could be said for blowjobs, too! But what about cum-swallowing, anal, facials, etc. Is being romantically/sexually involved with someone automatically obligate both people to agree to whatever sex fantasies the other person may have?
And what if the guys are lookin' at porn and simply wishing that their wife or girlfriend had a "perfect" bod, instead of the 35,28,33 one they've got, or whatever?
There are a lotta things worth crying over in this world, for sure. But you - a straight woman, I presume? - so sympathize w/ porn-looking men that you cry over their sexual dissatisfactions w/ their partners? That's certainly unusual!
I guess, silent_blue, your post just made me think once again about the idea of "minimal expectations" - what should men/women minimally expect from their lovers/spouses?? I've read a bit about this from Dan Savage (the guy who writes the "Savage Love" column), and he has some term for it - "good and game" or something. The idea being that the two people should, without putting excessive attention on techniques and gimmicks, put some effort into giving their partner GOOD sex, and they should be "game" - as in willing - to try new things, to some extent. But it's been a while since I read that stuff...
Anyway, I'm curious for you to elaborate on what you said, s_b, and thanks again for the thoughtful and thought-provoking post!
Anyway, you said:
"I remember reading a few months ago on a noticeboard a guy posting that the reason so many men looked at porn was they got to see and enjoy types of sex that they would never be able to get their wives or girl friends to agree to. I found that really sad - in fact I actually cried at the idea!"
C'mon, you CRIED?!!??? Really?
Doesn't it sorta depend on what they're lookin' at and feeling envious about? If it's vaginal sex that they're not getting, then yeah, that would seem to be a problem! And maybe the same could be said for blowjobs, too! But what about cum-swallowing, anal, facials, etc. Is being romantically/sexually involved with someone automatically obligate both people to agree to whatever sex fantasies the other person may have?
And what if the guys are lookin' at porn and simply wishing that their wife or girlfriend had a "perfect" bod, instead of the 35,28,33 one they've got, or whatever?
There are a lotta things worth crying over in this world, for sure. But you - a straight woman, I presume? - so sympathize w/ porn-looking men that you cry over their sexual dissatisfactions w/ their partners? That's certainly unusual!
I guess, silent_blue, your post just made me think once again about the idea of "minimal expectations" - what should men/women minimally expect from their lovers/spouses?? I've read a bit about this from Dan Savage (the guy who writes the "Savage Love" column), and he has some term for it - "good and game" or something. The idea being that the two people should, without putting excessive attention on techniques and gimmicks, put some effort into giving their partner GOOD sex, and they should be "game" - as in willing - to try new things, to some extent. But it's been a while since I read that stuff...
Anyway, I'm curious for you to elaborate on what you said, s_b, and thanks again for the thoughtful and thought-provoking post!
satyrsam
The Anal Connoisseur
Yes and I never had to ask for it. As a mater of fact I always waited 'till the girls ask for it. They usually start by asking me to play with their ass with my finger, some that's all they want. I always feel that if you have good communication with your partner she will always tell you what she wants, likes and would like to try.
My current girlfriend loves anal penetration, if it's not with my cock then she likes having a toy in her ass.
Eventually she would like to play with my ass. We are slowly experimenting with it.
My current girlfriend loves anal penetration, if it's not with my cock then she likes having a toy in her ass.
Eventually she would like to play with my ass. We are slowly experimenting with it.
Yes, she lets me fuck her ass maybe once a month. She just recently had her first anal orgasm, so maybe she will want it more often now! :nanner:
She prefers anal actually.
angelfire1972
Banned
yes sometimes
My wife is the 1st woman I have been with that is opposed to even trying it and offers no reason as to why...which I guess I am OK with...after all, it is her body.
no, she's scared of doing it. I've tried but it's just too tight.
As my man said above, I don't care for it.
Other people do, and I say good for them.
Good, giving and game, but who's counting?
I read the Savage Love column. I can usually learn something from it.
Other people do, and I say good for them.
Good, giving and game, but who's counting?
I read the Savage Love column. I can usually learn something from it.
Giving and game might be very reasonable expectations but, for many of us who have seen pornstars grinding and slamming with verve, gusto, and unbridalled enthusiasm, our definitions of what "good" is might be a bit skewed, ya know? Some perfectly beautiful ("hot") and wonderful people might not have the rhythmic instincts for what some think of as minimum-standards "good" sex (as seen by say, Belladonna, Nikita Denise, etc.)
Sometimes as she worries whether I like/enjoy it or not.
I can take it or leave it as it hurts a bit. :o
I can take it or leave it as it hurts a bit. :o
My girl, who I've been with for years, loves it, and I mean LOVES it. She says I'm the only one she has ever let treat her in such a way, and she doesn't want anyone else to give it to her.
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