Wow...
Black men constantly blaming white men... wow... just like those Jews constantly ruining German businesses in the 40s... hmmm...
There are a million examples of minorities being discriminated against, from colonialism and slavery, to the statistical gulf between minorities and whites today. I don't need to go over them every time, because most people are well aware of them.
I'm a white man. I'm partially middle eastern. And I don't think any particular race is inherently better at anything than anyone. There are a lot of women who say black men are better lovers. I just think that's funny, 'cause white men traditionally had so much self-proclaimed superiority, and here are loads of white women saying that
Personally, I don't think any race is any better or worse at anything because of their race. I don't think race means a damn thing. I don't think "we" white men or "they" black men or anyone else are any better. But there are still a disproportionate number of black men with white women compared to white men with black women.
Now when you start saying "we (white men) are better lovers", then there's a problem. So black men don't take their time, black men don't give women as much romance. That's what you're saying. Read it. You just said it. I'm white and middle eastern, if I want to say I'm ashamed of what our white race has done in the past, or I'm deeply against certain aspects of Middle Eastern culture, I'm talking about my own culture. If I start saying "they (Africans, Asians) are terrible lovers" then I'm being racist and stereotyping other ethnic groups than my own. I don't want to see you get kicked off here, so just keep your criticisms of other races to yourself, and your boasts about your own race to yourself.
I don't hate my own "kind", not Middle Eastern or white. I have huge issues with some of the things our groups have collectively done in the past, though, and still do today, particularly related to discrimination against other races and against women. Please leave out the "slithering" flames if you want to discuss things with me. I don't turf anyone unless they're being obviously racist or homophobic or sexist, or insulting people for no reason.
What's wrong with that? I love it. Is there something wrong with white chicks having sex with black men?
You're referring to me and Julie's open relationship. Well, thanks for your opinion. We're both very happy together.
I do try and change things. I devote a lot of my life and time to changing things. I do it on this board, in school, in my writing and in my music. It's one of my goals in life. I won't just sit there and watch people get discriminated against. I never have, nor will. I stand up for anyone that needs it. The racial issues are already there (we can all see that from your posts), I am trying to get rid of them, make things equal. If we shut up about it and let them be, they don't go away. They stay. They fester. It's NOT alright. It's not alright to say "we are better lovers than them"... it's not alright to say "they need to stop blaming all their problems on us"...
Because (1) THEY don't. Some people do, some don't. In some ways (slavery, colonialism, segregation), those individuals, white and black (such as myself, a white man that blames past white actions for today's racial problems), are partly right. (2) There is no WE, there is no THEY, we are all the same. And the only reason I like hearing girls say blacks are better lovers than whites is because it's the OPPOSITE of the form of racism we're so used to, which I'm so sick of. That DOESN'T make it any better, it's STILL wrong, but at least it's a criticism of the racial group which has - in the western world - perpetuated, discriminated, segregated, and has most of the money and power - rather than against the minority, the other.
It's not right, no, but it's refreshing to hear white women making comments - as they do a lot - that put white men down as lovers. I know they're not true, they're just stupid generalizations - but I've grown up with nothing but "they come to our area and they take our jobs and they're lazy and they're criminals and..." ALL THIS BULLSHIT!
So maybe you understand where I'm coming from a bit better? I don't think whites or blacks are any better or worse than each other, I just want the day when no-one thinks in terms of "oh there's a black guy with a white girl" and instead, "there's a guy with a girl". When colours are JUST colours and don't mean ANYTHING else in themselves other than telling you what theCLIMATE was like where your ANCESTORS were from. Cause that is ALL it really means.
Hope you understand. Sorry if I offended any whites with anything I said, I'm as white as you are, and while I'm not proud of my colour, I'm also not ashamed of it. Just of what SOME whites have done in the past and today, to discriminate against other races. I still support Holland, England, Italy, Spain in the world cup, countries that have horrendous colonial histories. So I'm not against the white man. I'm just obsessively FOR equality.
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