*Depressing Thread*

[DiscreteSecret]

I apologize for wastinbg everyone's time with this post and I know I'm opening myself up for roasting but I need to reach out and get some stuff off my chest.

My wife has decided to divorce me because I couldn't stop watching porn while we were together. And now I'm sitting here in a hotel room watching porn again......

It been a weird 48 hours and I'm not sure what to do.

 

[Jack Davenport]

I apologize for wastinbg everyone's time with this post and I know I'm opening myself up for roasting but I need to reach out and get some stuff off my chest.

My wife has decided to divorce me because I couldn't stop watching porn while we were together. And now I'm sitting here in a hotel room watching porn again......

It been a weird 48 hours and I'm not sure what to do.

Yellow Pages. Escorts. You’re welcome.

 

[~~whimsy~~]

Become an alcoholic.

 

[sean miguel]

Stop watching porn. You shouldn't be looking at that stuff anyways.

 

[Pornfan99]

Wow, dude - sorry..

Do you have ****? Is your wife still attractive to you? *Why* can't you stop watching porn?

**** = no time to be intimate with your wife? Did she put on weight / you're not physically attracted to her?

Porn was an issue with ex-GF of mine. I liked her - but she was overweight. I mentioned it to her twice, and she got so upset - I didn't mention it again. *I* used to view porn, because the women's bodies were so much nicer than my GF's.

 

[Jack Davenport]

Wow, dude - sorry..

Do you have ****? Is your wife still attractive to you? *Why* can't you stop watching porn?

**** = no time to be intimate with your wife? Did she put on weight / you're not physically attracted to her?

Porn was an issue with ex-GF of mine. I liked her - but she was overweight. I mentioned it to her twice, and she got so upset - I didn't mention it again. *I* used to view porn, because the women's bodies were so much nicer than my GF's.

Kinda explains your non specific username.

 

[sean miguel]

Porn was an issue with ex-GF of mine. I liked her - but she was overweight. I mentioned it to her twice, and she got so upset - I didn't mention it again. *I* used to view porn, because the women's bodies were so much nicer than my GF's.

did you mention it to her by saying: "I view porn because the women's bodies are so much nicer than yours."

It's always helpful to just be honest and up front with how you feel and I'm sure she could respect such honesty.

My wife wasn't thrilled over it at first, but she kinda knew it was baked in with me. I told her at one point that it was something I will always enjoy. And it's not like I'm into anal gapes or anything.

 

[FreeOnes_Adam]

See you in my counseling office one day. Psych 101, dude. Some women are insecure about this sort of thing because sometimes they may have self esteem issues about their own looks, weight, and even sexual performance. Jealousy is a thing too. If you enjoy porn, you're going to have to find a way to express that you love her (if you actually do, that is) and that she shouldn't feel threatened by porn for reasons x, y, and b. If you use your head, be honest, and share what's going on, you might even begin to enjoy it together, or, more likely, until she may or may not evolve, she just wont be up your ass about it. Or respect her wishes and save it for the bathroom or whatever. Just make sure it's not interrupting your own intimacy at home and that can be actually be a healthy compromise.

Believe it or not, she's got her own fantasies as well deep down in there. Relationships, its a game of give and take, you know. That and understanding.

 

[Little Red Wagon Repairman]

Now you don't have to close the door while Punishing Percy.