Seeing as I had some time on my hands thanks to a long trail run, here are some numbers to consider:
On my erotica site, using only one dedicated search engine, I can quite often get 5,000 hits a day. I should say that this is a *small* number. (In perspective, I understand that Perez Hilton, the celeb hound, gets over a million a day.)
For the sake of argument, let's suppose that Ms Milani's site garners ten times my number.
No... Let's be *really* conservative and say five times that, so 25,000 hits a day. (I'm not talking subscriber traffic here. I'm talking 'Oh, let's see what THIS is all about!' traffic.)
25,000 hits a day.
Now, in any kind of sales, the longstanding guideline has been '1 in 20'. That is, if you can turn 5% of your attempts into successes, you're doing well.
For the sake of argument, let's suppose a much lower success rate. (There are a lot of curious, horny men out there who don't want to pay for porn. I'm one of them.) Let's suppose that only 1% of all hits turn into subscriptions.
No...let's be even more conservative and say one-tenth of 1%.
That's 25 subscriptions a day.
At...I don't know what her rate is, so I'll guess on the low side, $19.99.
That's $499.75 per day.
$182,408.75 per year. (Look at that figure: that's approaching A QUARTER OF A MILLION DOLLARS A YEAR.)
And that's assuming only 25,000 hits a day, which might be only a quarter of what it actually is. At the above success rate, at 100,000 hits a day, we're talking $729,635 worth of yearly revenue.
And that's assuming a success rate of .001%. If it's more like 1% at the lower hit level, we're looking at $1,824,087.50, and in combination with the greater hit level, $7,296,350.
Of course, if she's charging more than what I've guessed, more income.
Then there are the ancillary items for sale.
The personalized items for sale.
The in-person promotion opportunities, with an appearance fee.
Yes, there's overhead. But she's just having photos taken, she's having videos just of her made, webcams of just her being broadcast (I'm assuming here that she does webcams). The outlay is not the same as setting up a porn shoot. Not even close.
Somewhere in the above guesstimates is a figure that approximates what Ms Milani earns for not showing her tits, for not doing hardcore...for having things exactly the way she wants them.
And you'd prefer her to change what she does, in order for you to get yer jollies, and this is supposed to benefit her financially, how...?