I try my best but can never last like more than 2 minutes on my girl. I finish her off with my finger or tongue but can notice the look of dissapointment in her eyes. I masturbate beforehand, use the "extended pleasure" condoms, try not to look at her (since that would speed things up) and try to think of other things but all to no avail. I'm a one-pump chump and a premature ejaculator--Now that I got those insults out of the way, does anyone know how in the world can I last longer?
Climax too quickly
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Sounds like your problem is that you're thinking about it too much. You're inadvertently causing yourself to think about it more, which probably adds to the problem. While you're doing all of these things to not "cum too quickly" you're, ironically, causing yourself to do it even more.
I would just relax, clear your head, enjoy what you have and do your best to just forget about it. Any guy who claims that he has never had this "problem" is a fucking liar. We've all been there and most of us get past it fairly quickly.
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Maybe she's just too hott for you. :o:dunno:
Try downgrading ie - lower your standards and / or stay away from all of that cokaine ! . . .meth . . coffee and other stimulants and ***** up some courage ! Jack & ****, for example.
The idea is to dominate your "victim".
You're the spider . . She's your prey . . . Get it ?
Try downgrading ie - lower your standards and / or stay away from all of that cokaine ! . . .meth . . coffee and other stimulants and ***** up some courage ! Jack & ****, for example.
The idea is to dominate your "victim".
You're the spider . . She's your prey . . . Get it ?
Not so.
I've never once had this problem, not even as a youngster - and if I haven't I'm sure there are plenty of others who haven't either.
Have more sex. Have a couple drinks before meeting up w/her. Whack it once before meeting up with her.
It's all in your mind. If all that's on your mind is "I don't wanna cum, I don't wanna cum, I don't wanna cum," you're gonna end up jizzing faster than if you think "Hey, this is great! I should just enjoy this for what it is!" I can usually hold it for about 10 or 15 minutes on average, but I can last longer or shorter, depending on the situation. If we're in a rush and are just having a quickie I'll last 5 minutes or so. If we don't have anything planned for the rest of the day I can hold for half an hour or longer.
I never have. In fact I last too long and have to ***** myself to climax. I usually masterbate for at least an hour though - so I'm just not used to cumming quickly.
Ok then, tubuler.
Maybe you're thinking about beginners while I'm thinking about the orginal poster?
Because while many beginners do come too fast, guys with jasonperez's chronic problem are in the great minority.
I don't think it's luck at all.
It's training.
Read Chex's post.
He's trained himself not to climax quickly.
You also found a way to do the same.
And that training can begin before one ever has intercourse.
For some people it's the anxiety of having sex. It helps if you get to know the person better both as a person and on a physical level. If you end up ******** with someone you meet that night or after 1-2 dates, your anxiety level will be much higher.
However if you get to know the person, hung out with them, kissed/groped on a few occasions and maybe fell ****** together on a couch that could help significantly to reduce the anxiety.
Basically you're not a one night stand kind of a guy. Women who will have one night stands are generally more sexually demanding/needy. If you get to know a woman before, she will have a lot more patience with your problem.
However if you get to know the person, hung out with them, kissed/groped on a few occasions and maybe fell ****** together on a couch that could help significantly to reduce the anxiety.
Basically you're not a one night stand kind of a guy. Women who will have one night stands are generally more sexually demanding/needy. If you get to know a woman before, she will have a lot more patience with your problem.
***** a couple of beers first... always triples my time in the game 
Yeah I was definately thinking of beginners/guys who rarely get laid.
I'm sure your right about guys with chronic problems being in the minority.
I read from somewhere that if you breath deeply throught your nose and tighten your abs while fucking, you should be able to last longer without cumming.
I have no idea does it really work.
I have no idea does it really work.
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