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Cheating Boyfriend - second chance?
- Thread starter Sierra
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lol - yeh here I am back again, I couldn't log in cause I was with the cheater most of the weekend and at work on Saturday - work would probably block this site.
Thanks for all your comments. I have alot to think about and read over. And no we never had the exclusivity talk - nothing was every discussed about not dating others - *but* I assumed we must have been exclusive if he was referring to me as his 'girlfriend' and was spending the entire of every weekend with me. :s
Anyway, the latest, basically he met up with me and my friends on Friday night, i was surrounded by hot guys when he arrived. One of them even asked me out to dinner and asked for my number right in front of the 'cheater'. Nice ego boost for me
So Saturday while I was at work the cheater cleaned my room, folded all my clothes, took my sheets home, washed and dried them, made me lunch when I got back from work. Took me out to a nice dinner Saturday night. Made my housemate and I brunch on Sunday, totally madeover my garden all of Sunday - weeding, mowing, sweeping, cleaning, planted my hibiscus, cleared all the crap - looks totally awesome. Then made me dinner and dessert back at his place on Sunday night.
I felt very suffocated and very 'meh' the entire weekend, so tonight I told him I was going home and that I don't want anymore contact with him until Friday.
I need some space and time to think.
Then he texted me basically saying that when I walked away just now it landed on him like a tonne of bricks and although it hurts, he know its good beacuse it has to be him that bears the pain. etc etc.
So yeh whatever, I just need time to think and feel and figure out whether I even like this guy anyway.
Thanks alot for all your comments, given me something to think about.I appreciate it.
Ah yes... he's feeling guilty so he's doing everything he can now. Problem is that people like that only reciprocate when they feel they HAVE to... and we all deserve someone who does nice things for us because they WANT to.
Good luck, be strong, and realize that you deserve better :thumbsup:
If you decide to leave him, there's plenty of us here who would be more than willing to have rebound sex with you.
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
**** helps with that.
If you have to think about if you even like (NOT love) this guy or not, you should probably just get rid of him.
If you decide to leave him, there's plenty of us here who would be more than willing to have rebound sex with you.
Not me.
I generally don't enjoy having sex with weak women.
And no offense to SierraBlue; but if everything she has said is true, she is weak (at least with men).
Great! That's less competition for the rest of us.
Always look on the brightside, lol.
