Broadening your sex life

[MarquisdeSade]

How did you begin to introduce fetishes etc into your sex life, and how long after you first slept with your o/h? I`d been with my o/h for a couple of months before i told her I wanted to tie her to the bed to fuck her, but she drew the line at getting her nipples pierced so I could tie them together. Which is still something I fantasize about but respect her cal.

 

[Maggie Green]

I think it's something you need to be open and honest with as soon as it feels like the right time. Obviously she may not be into the same things but willing to experiment a little bit and see where it goes. Just don't hound her about it and make her feel pressured. Maybe you could have her try some light nipple clamps or something like that, see what she thinks.

 

[Jeep!]

I eventually managed to convince her to keep the lights on after a few months. Still working on the rest. :/

 

[MarquisdeSade]

LOL! Yes, we began to use nipple clamps although it took a few goes to find ones which were sufficiently firm so as not to fall off during sex and I don`t think we`ve quite found the perfect ones for that yet. What she would really like is to have both nipples sucked at once, but her tits are of a size and shape where I simply can`t manage this, however much I have tried!

 

[288gto]

i like 2 things: leggings and tight short skirts which i succeed to make her wear for me before fuck her, and second anal sex with body oil massage which she doesn't let me..... but she will

 

[Maggie Green]

LOL! Yes, we began to use nipple clamps although it took a few goes to find ones which were sufficiently firm so as not to fall off during sex and I don`t think we`ve quite found the perfect ones for that yet. What she would really like is to have both nipples sucked at once, but her tits are of a size and shape where I simply can`t manage this, however much I have tried!

Just keeping having fun with it!

 

[MarquisdeSade]

Thank you, will do. Actually one thing I haven`t yet mentioned to my o/h is that I would really like her to tie me to the bed so I absolutely can`t move and certainly can`t grasp her nipples as s he rides me.

 

[SabrinaDeep]

How did you begin to introduce fetishes etc into your sex life, and how long after you first slept with your o/h? I`d been with my o/h for a couple of months before i told her I wanted to tie her to the bed to fuck her, but she drew the line at getting her nipples pierced so I could tie them together. Which is still something I fantasize about but respect her cal.

Dinner table:
"Tonight i'm going to stroke your dick from behind while i fuck your ass with a strapon and i'll let you have the best orgasm you ever had".
"Yeah right".
"I'm serious. I'm horny as hell and i want you to feel it. Of course we can always watch a movie, if you don't want. I respect your limits towards happiness".
"I guess we could try".

 

[MarquisdeSade]

oo, don`t like te sound of that!

 

[Harley Spencer]

I've always just spontaneously done it. If I felt like I wanted tied up or blindfolded or something, I'd just do it. I think it's more fun if it's not planned. But of course I've never done anything that was painful or harmful so there wasn't much to talk about it and no one has ever said no when I wanted to blind fold them or something.

 

[passenger57]

How did you begin to introduce fetishes etc into your sex life, and how long after you first slept with your o/h? I`d been with my o/h for a couple of months before i told her I wanted to tie her to the bed to fuck her, but she drew the line at getting her nipples pierced so I could tie them together. Which is still something I fantasize about but respect her cal.

It would have to be at a fetish ball/event or something of that nature ha !

 

[MarquisdeSade]

It would have to be at a fetish ball/event or something of that nature ha !

I wouldn`t have the confidence to do anything like that.