Nothing to do with it. Wrong again. My ****** pays for her own healthcare and her own health insurance, she is self reliant and independant even though not young anymore, she owns her own appartment. I will be the sole heir of her real estate property, also I have a very good and stable job just 45 min from where I am living. Am I going to drop off everything just because of a sudden impulse? No, everything has to calculated and planned far in advance. If I had to move in the USA, I would have first to find a job with a permanent contract and place where to live before applying for immigration.