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BrandiLove

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Another weekend full of activity:) All good, just going to be a busy one. I am moving one of our studios. Trucks are lined up and ready to go I just have to be at both locations to ensure nothing is left and that all the furniture and such gets put where I want it in the new place. I am crossing my fingers that the rain holds off.

Moving all afternoon and again tomorrow and tonight Michael and I are heading out with some friends to celebrate hubby's Birthday. A nice meal out with friends will be a very welcome pace changer to the past week. Through networking I have meet some really cool people that I feel confident are going to make for some good times ahead.


I had such a fun and interesting conversation the other day. This was with a stranger but turned out by the time we were done talking we exchanged numbers:) Somehow we started talking about ADHD and OCD and other "medical" acronyms describing what seems like 80% of adults now a days. I have been watching this trend for a few years now and it fascinates me. You rarely heard of these types of issues a decade ago. If adults had ADD/ ADHD/OCD they didn't talk about it, they dealt with it. Now a days you hear people talking about it almost like it's cool, like everyone is doing it philosophy. Medications for these issues run rampant and actually show up in some club scenes and gyms where they are being used as uppers and diet aides, WTF? So this new friend and I began a discussion as to why this trend has been on the rise. Interestingly we totally agreed on why we believe this is happening. Of course this is just IMO's and doesn't have medical backing just two adults chatting.


We now live in a world based on "instant" we can have almost anything and anyone with the click or tap of an icon, app or button. This speed in how we do things has allowed for people to fill their days with 5 times as much activity as we used to. I feel that over stimulation has caused this brain melt down. We try to keep up with how fast we can do things but our brains have never had to do this before. We are playing catch up with technology all the time and I think it has finally culminated into a need for meeds! Our heads are on the verge of exploding because it is "go go go go" and click click done all day everyday. When it comes time to lay down at night people are taking sleeping aides at alarming rates because they can not shut down their brains. I don't know about you all but when I am working on my computer I often have several tabs open at a time and work back and forth on them all simultaneously. Anyhoo not sure this al made any sense but it is my belief that modern forms of working and communicating have caused info over load on our brains and people are experiencing melt downs. What is the answer? SLOW THE FUCK DOWN! in a nutshell. Is it possible? Some of us will get it and find a healthy balance, others I fear will be medicated the rest of their lives to be able to keep up with their computers.

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Brandi
 
As far as what you said about adults wearing their "disorders" as a badge of honor, I've noticed that frequently as well. Someone I work with is lazy, a total wuss, and claims to suffer from numerous medical problems. I am sickened by how much he seems to enjoy being a wuss and not ever exercising. The thing is, him being so proud of his supposed disabilities are an easy way for him to not take responsibility or show any initiative in bettering himself. Even those who may legitimately have a medical or psychological problem, there is something reassuring about proudly admitting their problem and the drugs they take to deal with it. As if not being in control of how they feel or act can be taken care of so easily is a thrill to them. I'm not putting those down who genuinely need help, but it seems that a lot just need to toughen up and show themselves a little respect. It's hard to respect someone who relishes how much of a wuss they are.
 

BrandiLove

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Hi guys. Hope this post finds you happy and well. I have been a busy little beaver ( pun intended ). I have had some really hot and fun photo/video shots lately and all are for www.brandilove.com . I was in Arizona last week shooting with Michael Anthony who shot some stunning videos of Casey James and I. As soon as the editing is done I will be sharing them with you. He also shot some very sultry and beautiful solo pics for me. I can not wait to see the finished product. About a month ago I had the chance to work with a new Photog locally. He is really good and we got some super shots. Some are being used for a magazine spread. I will keep you posted as to when the magazine will be out and what it is called *wink* Last night I had yet another fun hot shoot with Ryan Ashley. She is an up and coming show girl feature and a serious athlete when it comes to her pole work. You guys can check her out at Capital Cabaret. We had some pretty sexy pics done and as soon as I get them you will get to see them!

I have some naughty items up for auction and you can see them HERE and HERE. I don't post items that often but I have had some time to go through my closets and with the requests I have had recently for "little pieces of me" I have posted! Happy bidding sexes!
Last nights camshow was so raw. I am having a hard time walking today:) In fact thinking about last night has me excited again…. my legs will recover, I am going to jump on CAM:) Hope to see you there!

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Brandi
 

BrandiLove

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As far as what you said about adults wearing their "disorders" as a badge of honor, I've noticed that frequently as well. Someone I work with is lazy, a total wuss, and claims to suffer from numerous medical problems. I am sickened by how much he seems to enjoy being a wuss and not ever exercising. The thing is, him being so proud of his supposed disabilities are an easy way for him to not take responsibility or show any initiative in bettering himself. Even those who may legitimately have a medical or psychological problem, there is something reassuring about proudly admitting their problem and the drugs they take to deal with it. As if not being in control of how they feel or act can be taken care of so easily is a thrill to them. I'm not putting those down who genuinely need help, but it seems that a lot just need to toughen up and show themselves a little respect. It's hard to respect someone who relishes how much of a wuss they are.


Ditto, I could not say it better myself. SO few people take responsibility for their actions any more:( I hope the pendulum swings the "other "way soon.

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Brandi
 
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