Blowjobs: Whose in control? the girl, the guy?

[ohmygawd676]

I personally think the girl has most of the power during a blowjob, they create the pleasure, and they can take it away very easily.

 

[Marlo Manson]

I definately think the girl has ALL the control. hypothetically speaking what if this girl had a vendetta or personal issue with said guy she is orally pleasing?

I think the guy is in a very vulnerable position, his manhood is in a girls mouth, what if she suddenly felt like BITING HIS MANHOOD? or his NUTS.

I don't care if anybody calls me paranoid or pestimistic but when your manhood is in that situation, I am gonna make sure that I give the girl ABSOLUTELY no reason to even think of the hypothetical horror story above..

Control is definately in the girls MOUTH.. :bowdown: :hatsoff:

 

[shayd]

I personally think the girl has most of the power during a blowjob, they create the pleasure, and they can take it away very easily.

Depends on the situation. I've seen more than one seen where a guy is bent over a girls face, pumping full force into her mouth, which leads me to believe that he was in control there, but there are certainly situations when the girl is in control.

 

[dave_rhino]

The girl might have the control over it, but it's definitely the man with the power.

 

[BlueBalls]

If there are a bunch of quite sharp teeth milimeters away from your cock I think you would have to say the girl is in charge.

 

[Legzman]

If there are a bunch of quite sharp teeth milimeters away from your cock I think you would have to say the girl is in charge.

True, true. :thumbsup:

 

[Eric Lindros]

My girl is in control I can tell you that:
sharp teeth against my dick and my balls in her hand.

 

[Troy25]

Yes, teeth = girl in charge

 

[dick van cock]

Yes, teeth = girl in charge

Take a MILF! They have disposable teeth. :thumbsup:

{Or you could do like the guy in Bloodsucking Freaks who pulled the girl's teeth pre-fellatio}

 

[Spunner]

Depends on the situation. I've seen more than one seen where a guy is bent over a girls face, pumping full force into her mouth, which leads me to believe that he was in control there, but there are certainly situations when the girl is in control.

This is not a blowjob. It is a face fuck. Big difference.

The girl might have the control over it, but it's definitely the man with the power.

Really? Your balls are in her hands and your dick is in her mouth. Still think the male has the power?

 

[Friday on my mind]

There is a great scene in the 70s cult film "Last house on the left" about some degenerates who invade a house and terrorize a family who find out without them knowing that these degenerates killed their daughter and plot their revenge.The wife takes one of the men out and tell him she wants to give him a BJ but always has had a fantasy about doing it to someone with his hands tied behind his back.He says sure and they use his tie to tie his hands.She starts the BJ and she then gets him good,bites it off and spits it in the pool.:eek:

 

[dave_rhino]

Really? Your balls are in her hands and your dick is in her mouth. Still think the male has the power?

Yes, males have the power because she is the one in submission. I know that is a very primative way of looking at it, and that isn't how I see my girlfriend when she does it, but it is true.

She's on her knees with your reproductive organ in her mouth. Sure, she might have control because she could "bite it off", but how often does that happen? Really?

At the end of the day, she is the one with the penis in her mouth, not you.

 

[titsrock]

There is a great scene in the 70s cult film "Last house on the left" about some degenerates who invade a house and terrorize a family who find out without them knowing that these degenerates killed their daughter and plot their revenge.The wife takes one of the men out and tell him she wants to give him a BJ but always has had a fantasy about doing it to someone with his hands tied behind his back.He says sure and they use his tie to tie his hands.She starts the BJ and she then gets him good,bites it off and spits it in the pool.:eek:

This, strangely reminds me of "The World According to Garp" which was an early 80s film I think starring William Hurt and Robin Williams. I think William Hurt's wife cheats on him in the film with some neighborhood lawn mower kid and there's one scene where she goes out to her driveway to meet this kid to break off the tryst, gets in his car, gives him a "goodbye" blowjob, and William Hurt comes home in his car, rear-ends the car and there goes the youngster's manhood...chomped off by the wife.

I may have some of the details wrong but that was actually the first time I ever found out about oral sex...

 

[dave_rhino]

I may have some of the details wrong but that was actually the first time I ever found out about oral sex...

That's a horrific lesson in blowjobbing! Egad...

 

[Spunner]

Yes, males have the power because she is the one in submission. I know that is a very primative way of looking at it, and that isn't how I see my girlfriend when she does it, but it is true.

She's on her knees with your reproductive organ in her mouth. Sure, she might have control because she could "bite it off", but how often does that happen? Really?

At the end of the day, she is the one with the penis in her mouth, not you.

You think the male still has the power, yet you don't see that when it comes to your girlfriend? How can it be true then?

 

[titsrock]

At the end of the day, she is the one with the penis in her mouth, not you.

It's still pretty much up to her skill and desire to get you off though.

 

[gunslingingbird]

Teeth = hard. Dick = soft. Let's say I wouldn't want to find out what would happen if the 2 clashed when I called the girl someone else's name while my Johnson was in her mouth.

 

[dick van cock]

Teeth = hard. Dick = soft. Let's say I wouldn't want to find out what would happen if the 2 clashed when I called the girl someone else's name while my Johnson was in her mouth.

To sum up the discussion so far:

Problem: You can't trust a woman with your crown jewels.

Solution: You shore got a purdy mouth, gunslingingbird!

{Banjo sounds audible in the distance}

 

[Violator79]

Take a MILF! They have disposable teeth. :thumbsup:

False teeth baby!!! Nothing like a good gumjob!!

To sum up the discussion so far:

Problem: You can't trust a woman with your crown jewels.

Solution: You shore got a purdy mouth, gunslingingbird!

{Banjo sounds audible in the distance}

Oh you had me rolling with that!

 

[gunslingingbird]

To sum up the discussion so far:

Problem: You can't trust a woman with your crown jewels.

Solution: You shore got a purdy mouth, gunslingingbird!

{Banjo sounds audible in the distance}

:rofl2:

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