As far as dating, what are your "nopes?"

In other words, what aspects of the other person can you just not abide?

I know a guy who will not date women who own more than one stuffed animal, or if they sleep with a stuffed animal.

How about you? Any dealbreakers for you?

I won't seriously date any woman that smokes.
 
I'm pretty sure I'm on most women's nope lists. :(
 

JaanaRuutu

Official Checked Star Member
I will not date you if you:
Use drugs
Smoke weed or cigarettes more frequently than just occasionally at parties
Doesn't give a shit about their health(eats fast food all the time, doesn't try to get some form of exercise, doesn't shower, etc)
Believes in creationism
is homophobic
enjoys any of the following bands/"musicians": Nickleback, Insane Clown Posse, POD, Papa Roach, Hinder, Trapt, Breaking Benjamin, Lil Wayne, Nicki Minaj, etc
doesn't enjoy MST3K
doesn't enjoy Cobra Skulls
likes American beer
can't handle the fact that I'm a cam girl.
 
I will not date you if you:
Use drugs
Smoke weed or cigarettes more frequently than just occasionally at parties
Doesn't give a shit about their health(eats fast food all the time, doesn't try to get some form of exercise, doesn't shower, etc)
Believes in creationism
is homophobic
enjoys any of the following bands/"musicians": Nickleback, Insane Clown Posse, POD, Papa Roach, Hinder, Trapt, Breaking Benjamin, Lil Wayne, Nicki Minaj, etc
doesn't enjoy MST3K
doesn't enjoy Cobra Skulls
likes American beer
can't handle the fact that I'm a cam girl.

papa roach?! come on, hollywood whore and getting away with murder are cool and straight to topic, cool songs.
 
How about you? Any dealbreakers for you?

Not really, no.

I used to think there were a whole bunch of things that mattered, and a bunch of stuff that I'd found unacceptable. Most of it was all theorycraft however. It all sounds nice, makes sense on paper, probably even makes technical sense. In practice, however, none of it has ever mattered. You really like A and think you need that A until you meet a girl you like who has B. You absolutely hate X until you meet a girl you like who has X, then suddenly it's not so bad anymore, just an adorable little quirk. Y does nothing for you until you meet that one girl does that one thing that makes Y just about the sexiest thing you can imagine and you wonder how you never noticed how awesome it was before.

It may be cliché, but "the heart wants what it wants" and when that happens, the brain more or less gets told to fuck off. :dunno:
 
enjoys any of the following bands/"musicians": Nickleback, Insane Clown Posse, POD, Papa Roach, Hinder, Trapt, Breaking Benjamin, Lil Wayne, Nicki Minaj, etc

What if you've worked for most of those acts before? :shy:

likes American beer

Lost Coast Brewing Company, Stone Brewery, Anchor Brewery, Leinenkugel's, Green Flash Brewery, Pyramid Brewery, Buffalo Bill's, Dogfish Brewing Company, 21st Amendment Brewery, Russian River Brewery, Samuel Adams, Kona Brewery, and Sierra Nevada Brewery are some excellent American breweries, just off the top of my head. I'm sure there are a myriad more breweries whose products I've liked, plus scores more that I don't even know about.
 

bobjustbob

Proud member of FreeOnes Hall Of Fame. Retired to
No kids at home #1 on probably all of our lists. Needs to be financially secure. No porn girls. No activists. No lwyers.
 

JaanaRuutu

Official Checked Star Member
What if you've worked for most of those acts before? :shy:



Lost Coast Brewing Company, Stone Brewery, Anchor Brewery, Leinenkugel's, Green Flash Brewery, Pyramid Brewery, Buffalo Bill's, Dogfish Brewing Company, 21st Amendment Brewery, Russian River Brewery, Samuel Adams, Kona Brewery, and Sierra Nevada Brewery are some excellent American breweries, just off the top of my head. I'm sure there are a myriad more breweries whose products I've liked, plus scores more that I don't even know about.
I've worked for plenty of bands I hate. A job is a job.
 
What if you've worked for most of those acts before? :shy:



Lost Coast Brewing Company, Stone Brewery, Anchor Brewery, Leinenkugel's, Green Flash Brewery, Pyramid Brewery, Buffalo Bill's, Dogfish Brewing Company, 21st Amendment Brewery, Russian River Brewery, Samuel Adams, Kona Brewery, and Sierra Nevada Brewery are some excellent American breweries, just off the top of my head. I'm sure there are a myriad more breweries whose products I've liked, plus scores more that I don't even know about.

Do Europeans think that all American beer = Miller Lite or something? There's lots of good American beers.
 

bahodeme

Closed Account
If you are a Vegan.
If you are a devout ....
If you treat waiter/waitress disrespectfuly while on the date.
If you are anti-gun and/or hate motorcycles. These things were here before you, they are here while we are dating, they will be here when you are gone.
And lastly if you are a Vegan.
 
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