"Consent" v. "Dependency"
At the same time, now 15 years older, I can recognize how much it can be an issue for a young person -- especially someone 13!
But that's not my primary concern ...
1. Are you a guardian or other trusted adult of the minor?
2. Or are you just another adult with no trust placed over the minor?
The thread is clearly about some someone who is #1.
Someone who is entrusted to oversee a minor.
That is a violation of that trust -- although people do see that "violation" being different.
What you have done is #2 -- something that I consider far less of an issue.
Ironically that's where it is levied far different when a minor girl "consents" to sex with an adult male than when a minor boy "consents" to sex with an adult woman.
Now that's what I have a problem with -- because it's the social stigma, not the actual consideration for the boy or girl.
This woman is in jail largely because she was #1.
If she wasn't a teacher, they'd probably have the same attitude as #2.
In fact, they are using the common #2 arguments that "the boy consented" that wouldn't be used if it was a girl and an adult male.
Which is why I think its really "screwed up" -- they say the "boy consented" and when the "girl consents" they say, "oh no, you were too young to consent" until she believes it.
As far as a mother giving a blowjob -- yes, a minor boy might like that.
At the same time, I think the same, adult male years later might reconsider the consequences and emotional turmoil it has produced in him.
Especially when it comes to the fact that the boy put trust in his mother, and that changes everything!
Final point: There's really no such thing as "consent" when you have a "guardian" type relationship between minor and adult.
The minor already has a "dependency" on the adult, which means the adult has been entrusted and should know better than to assume the "dependency" is "consent."
That's far more of a violation than a stranger who has no dependency over the minor, although many would argue it's still a matter of "age and reasoning."
Yes, I know, I was one when I was 18 (and had opportunities before I was 18).Miss Brittany said:
At the same time, now 15 years older, I can recognize how much it can be an issue for a young person -- especially someone 13!
But that's not my primary concern ...
Okay, now that's the different issue that applies here.Miss Brittany said:
1. Are you a guardian or other trusted adult of the minor?
2. Or are you just another adult with no trust placed over the minor?
The thread is clearly about some someone who is #1.
Someone who is entrusted to oversee a minor.
That is a violation of that trust -- although people do see that "violation" being different.
What you have done is #2 -- something that I consider far less of an issue.
Ironically that's where it is levied far different when a minor girl "consents" to sex with an adult male than when a minor boy "consents" to sex with an adult woman.
Now that's what I have a problem with -- because it's the social stigma, not the actual consideration for the boy or girl.
This woman is in jail largely because she was #1.
If she wasn't a teacher, they'd probably have the same attitude as #2.
In fact, they are using the common #2 arguments that "the boy consented" that wouldn't be used if it was a girl and an adult male.
Which is why I think its really "screwed up" -- they say the "boy consented" and when the "girl consents" they say, "oh no, you were too young to consent" until she believes it.
As far as a mother giving a blowjob -- yes, a minor boy might like that.
At the same time, I think the same, adult male years later might reconsider the consequences and emotional turmoil it has produced in him.
Especially when it comes to the fact that the boy put trust in his mother, and that changes everything!
Final point: There's really no such thing as "consent" when you have a "guardian" type relationship between minor and adult.
The minor already has a "dependency" on the adult, which means the adult has been entrusted and should know better than to assume the "dependency" is "consent."
That's far more of a violation than a stranger who has no dependency over the minor, although many would argue it's still a matter of "age and reasoning."
