Ric0chet said:
Hot I think you've pretty much got it sorted!
Just to add another question to the mix: Do you talk with the other couple about what is and isn't allowed or do you leave it to the throws of passion?
Thanks, Ricochet,
In the clubs we go to, there's a rule that if some raises there hand in a sort of "Stop" gesture, then that MUST be respected instantly.
Also, our prefered method of contacting couples at first is that we like to float around the club eyeing up people, then, if we like a couple we gesture to them to join us ina the "Dark dancefloor" or we follow there gestures to go there, or to the "normal" dancefloor. We don't really talk to them there, we just get down to kissing, dancing, caressing, sexual action and take it from there.
For us, it's after the first bout of sexual action that we'll talk to a couple about ground rules of going further in future sessions.
However, there is another, and probably more common system of first contcat in these clubs: a couple see you and invite you, via the hostesses to join them for a drink and a chat. Then you talk about what turns everyone on sexually, what you want from each other sexually, and what you're all willing to do.
My wife and I aren't too keen on this latter method.
Hope this helps,
Hot.
