Another installment of I will never understand women.

jod0565

Member, you member...
Good luck with that, Blue; oh and by the way, I'm no lawyer, but I want to represent Sparky if she's payin' like that! LOLimus!
 

Philbert

Banned
Hey...guess what?
Hellraisin came into the thread just to give me some neg rep for my post here...I am guessing he's a virgin.:D

Why every member of FreeOnes doesn't neg rep that insane troll is beyond me...:dunno:
 
Hey...Hey...I am a women that IS NOT fucked in the head...but I would agree with you 100% that even I don't understand 99.9% of them :rofl2: :confused: :rofl2:

stop trying to understand women. Its one of those things no one will ever understand. They are so fucked in the head I don't even think women understand women...
 

Elwood70

Torn & Frayed.
She's probably upset that you said something to her friend. You should have just said you we're just glad to help her and not mentioned anything about sex.:)
 
She's probably upset that you said something to her friend. You should have just said you we're just glad to help her and not mentioned anything about sex.:)

well her friend said that she was worried that I would want something in return... I figured she wasn't saying I was trying to get her to make me her homemade fudge.
 
well her friend said that she was worried that I would want something in return... I figured she wasn't saying I was trying to get her to make me her homemade fudge.

Maybe you inadvertently showed some interest. Don't sweat it though. Women always think we're trying fuck them...................even when we aren't. Maintain your professionalism and it should be cool.:yinyang:
 

Legzman

what the fuck you lookin at?
Hey...Hey...I am a women that IS NOT fucked in the head...but I would agree with you 100% that even I don't understand 99.9% of them :rofl2: :confused: :rofl2:

see. You just proved my point! Thank you.
 
Geez...I personally HATE being categorized with other women..."most" men don't fuck with women's heads unless they are fucked up themselves...then it becomes a double fuck :thefinger

Maybe you inadvertently showed some interest. Don't sweat it though. Women always think we're trying fuck them...................even when we aren't. Maintain your professionalism and it should be cool.:yinyang:
 
I said to her friend " make sure you tell her that all I am doing is trying to help her through a tough period in her life. I am not wanting a relationship out of this nor am I looking to sleep with her . Just trying to do her a favor and help her.

If you actually said, out loud, to her friend, the bold part, than you're not much of a gentleman. That's all. :dunno:

Perhaps you should learn to say, "I'm happy to try and help out a friend" and leave it at that. If you don't want sex from this woman, than you shouldn't act like sex is on your client's mind or her friend's.
 
I totally disagree...Blue was a gentleman...this gal needs to get a life and so does her friend...he was honest and sincere...something you don't get from people these days very often :dunno:

If you actually said, out loud, to her friend, the bold part, than you're not much of a gentleman. That's all. :dunno:

Perhaps you should learn to say, "I'm happy to try and help out a friend" and leave it at that. If you don't want sex from this woman, than you shouldn't act like sex is on your client's mind or her friend's.
 
If you actually said, out loud, to her friend, the bold part, than you're not much of a gentleman. That's all. :dunno:

Perhaps you should learn to say, "I'm happy to try and help out a friend" and leave it at that. If you don't want sex from this woman, than you shouldn't act like sex is on your client's mind or her friend's.


Um. I already told the woman that she was not being charged for my services. Her friend brought up the topic of ulterior motives. There is no other conclusion to draw from her inference than that I wanted sex out of the deal. I know this woman as well. And you seem to forget that I dated this woman ( the client) before. I am respectful to women and I have to be tactful in my profession. But I am not going to do someone a favor and let someone imply that my intentions are less than honorable without dealing with the situation directly and if need be bluntly.
 
I came to a different conclusion based on what you typed. If you only dated your client 3 times and never slept with her, in my opinion, you're making a huge leap to assume that she wants sex from you OR thinks you want it from her. I understand what Pro Bono means, but maybe you created this situation by making a joke to your client, offhand?

I don't know how or why it ended after 3 dates. You seem okay with that, so, again, why would you think sex is on the table (er, under the table)?

When her friend said to you, "She was worried you would want something in return" you went to sex when you could've said, "I didn't want to send a bill for my regular fees to a friend in this situation." Basically played the money card....:dunno:
 
I came to a different conclusion based on what you typed. If you only dated your client 3 times and never slept with her, in my opinion, you're making a huge leap to assume that she wants sex from you OR thinks you want it from her. I understand what Pro Bono means, but maybe you created this situation by making a joke to your client, offhand?

I don't know how or why it ended after 3 dates. You seem okay with that, so, again, why would you think sex is on the table (er, under the table)?

When her friend said to you, "She was worried you would want something in return" you went to sex when you could've said, "I didn't want to send a bill for my regular fees to a friend in this situation." Basically played the money card....:dunno:

I handle myself with a certain degree of aplomb most of the time. I'll play along since you want to paint me as some insensitive bastard. She understood perfectly that would never be charged for my services, now what on earth could a man want from a woman if money has been eliminated from the discussion?

She came to me. Then she has the gall to tell her friend that she is afraid that I have ulterior motives? I'll tell you why she said that to her friend. Because she wants her friend to overlook the fact that she needs help and couldn't pay for the service so it is a way of diverting the attention from her to me. But you seem like a very sensitive guy and very in tune with what women think. How many cats do you own?
 
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I'm not going to trade insults with you. I have no stake in this matter. You created the thread. I responded to your "fact pattern" in good faith and not as a Radical Democrat.
"Good bye and good luck."
 
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