An unusual problem?!

[lovethedawgs]

I had been on my own for several years, and - thanks in large part to Freeones - masturbated very frequently. The problem is that now I am once again in a sexual relationship but have trouble finishing the job, so to speak. It feels good when I am inside of her, but I can't cum just from the sex. I'm hoping somebody out there has a suggestion for me! thanks in advance.

 

[sputnikgirl]

Have you tried pulling out and masturbating yourself onto her face, tits, etc? Some women like it, and it has helped an ex of mine.

 

[mula0207]

try new ****...im like that...i'm getting used to the same **** all the time, means i cum a lot later than usual...

 

[cabey]

It will sort itself out in time, and in the meantime just do what Sputnikgirl suggests.

 

[squallumz]

when i cum sometime within a few hours before having sex, sometimes i have a little trouble to. i figured out a big part of it is mental, but your best bet is to cut down the whacking off. seriously, if you save it for her, itll be so much better.

 

[Kingfisher]

when i cum sometime within a few hours before having sex, sometimes i have a little trouble to. i figured out a big part of it is mental, but your best bet is to cut down the whacking off. seriously, if you save it for her, itll be so much better.

Exactly, if you think you're going to be getting together later and the possibilty is high, don't take care of yourself that day. If you aren't going to see her, take care of your business.
Or use a lot more lube when you do, try to match her pressure and wetness level.

 

[lovethedawgs]

Thanks for the advice. Hopefully this problem straightens itself out because she is concerned about what might happen in the future if we try to have a baby.

 

[Dutchman]

Or...what I do sometimes do, masturbate her on Freeones or whatever porn site but avoid cumming. You will most certainly cum when having sex the next time. Pumping up your balls so to speak. I see 2 advantages; 1- you (still) have the enjoyment of porn and 2- by pumping up your balls more cum is produced and than when you cum, she will be very pleased by the large amount

 

[McRocket]

Simple.

Stop masturbating.

 

[loveforbarbie]

I had been on my own for several years, and - thanks in large part to Freeones - masturbated very frequently. The problem is that now I am once again in a sexual relationship but have trouble finishing the job, so to speak. It feels good when I am inside of her, but I can't cum just from the sex. I'm hoping somebody out there has a suggestion for me! thanks in advance.

Finish off yourself onto her.

 

[HornyEric]

Just quit jerking it. And go a few weeks without sex. After that, you'd be able to cum inside anything at all.

 

[Ruck Fangers]

Well the main reason why you may be having trouble finishing the job is because porn is proven to desensitize people from sex. That is, if you look at porn regularly your body begins to accept the constant arousal as natural. Then when you go to do the real thing your body is not excited as it should potentially be. If you give the porn a rest for a bit it should do the trick.

 

[PlasmaTwa2]

^ It's true. I've masturbated to the computer so much I cannot beat it while standing up.

 

[Fresno]

You need to stop masturbating for a few weeks, your problem should clear up!

 

[Torre82]

::reads the first message::

::thinks of a reply::

::scrolls down a bit.. WAAAAIIIT!::

DAMN IT 'loveforbarbie'! This topic is ancient!

Ehh.. my reply: Buy a fleshlight. Not as harsh as a hand. Gets yer sensitivity back to 'normal'.

Secondly: Think up some nasty scenarios in your head. Like.. like.. Christina Aguilera's Dirrrty video, or agent Scully DP'ed. DOUBLE ***** PROBED! GUA HA HEEEE!

Ahem, or Jenna Jameson fisting herself while screaming your name. Better yet, screaming MY name while you watch me fuck your new .. ehh.. old girlfriend.

::grumbles:: ..damn zombie threads..