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Hey everyone I have a problem.. am afraid to fight! i haven't fight in all my life! The problem is.. that am hitting this girl who is single.. and she likes me! And she has many guy friends who are jealous of me cause i like her. Thats not the first time that this has happened to me. Every time i like a girl and the girls likes me theres a guy jealous! Am gonna stay with the girl that i like. But when the times comes i don't wanna make a fool about myself! Can you guys give me some advice? I anything! I will thank you all!
P.S. I want to change that! i don't want to be a chicken all my life! :helpme:
 
A good fight should be like a small play but, played seriously. When my opponent expands, I contract. When he contracts, I expand. And when the opportunity presents itself, I do not hit...*kisses his fist*...it hits all by itself.
 
Not fighting doesn't make you a chicken. It makes you an adult.

In regards to other guys being jealous of you liking some girl...fuck them, who cares?

Guys always get jealous, especially over stupid, meaningless **** like someone else liking the same girl that they do. If they are going to let it make them so jealous that it comes to physically trying to fight you, then they're just making themselves look like complete morons and you'll be the one ending up with the girl. It's actually a win-win situation for you.
 
My best advice is lay low and put in all off till you graduate. :D

I'm sorry but this type thing is so high school. What is she planning on doing staying with the winner? A better man walks away, fighting over a girl is no proof of anything in my book. Except maybe immaturity. Why in the world would you have to fight to be with a girl?

Just my :2 cents:

LL
 
whether or not you'll ever get into a fight, it feels better not to feel like a chicken. Maybe take some martial arts classes like Tae Kwon Do or Hopkido. These teach you not only how to defend yourself and make any attacker look like a fool, they will also teach you self esteem and the discipline to use your skills in only the most necessary of situations. Learning martial arts will make you an ass kicker but more importantly it will also give you the confidence so that you will most likely not HAVE to use those skills. Knowing that you can take care of yourself will give you an even greater ability to talk yourself out of a fight with some moron who thinks he can scrap you just because he likes the same girl. And if talking doesn't work, the guy will look like the biggest idiot when he comes at you and you continually deflect his attacks and use his movements against him. Knowing how to fight usually means you don't have to and chicks LOVE that.
 
ChefChiTown said:
Not fighting doesn't make you a chicken. It makes you an adult.

In regards to other guys being jealous of you liking some girl...fuck them, who cares?

Guys always get jealous, especially over stupid, meaningless **** like someone else liking the same girl that they do. If they are going to let it make them so jealous that it comes to physically trying to fight you, then they're just making themselves look like complete morons and you'll be the one ending up with the girl. It's actually a win-win situation for you.
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I completely agree.

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Thanx everyone.. its just that.. I think that is my biggest fear! and they say that to be confident about yourself is to confront your fears! And no i don't want to fight.. but if the person attacks i have to do something! I
 
Just tell the girl to lie about how tough you are,something like this.

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ChefChiTown said:
Not fighting doesn't make you a chicken. It makes you an adult.

In regards to other guys being jealous of you liking some girl...fuck them, who cares?

Guys always get jealous, especially over stupid, meaningless **** like someone else liking the same girl that they do. If they are going to let it make them so jealous that it comes to physically trying to fight you, then they're just making themselves look like complete morons and you'll be the one ending up with the girl. It's actually a win-win situation for you.
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i 2nd the previous agreement on this :)

girls tend to be a bit more mature & savvy at high school age and i doubt the girl you like would be likely to respond positively to ********

fighting is kinda scary anyway, your not missing much & like CA said things can escalate if someone pulls a ***** or ***

& situations can develop badly eg people falling & cracking their heads on the kerb & dying


so give peace a chance :angels:

(but maybe if you feel really nervous & lacking in confidence then some boxing or martial arts training might improve these in the long term)
 
just go nuts and flail wildly. If you knock them out pretend you meant to do it, if you get battered play the sympathy card with her.

timing is key though, wait until they're all standing atop a half built car singing Go Grease lightening and then take them unawares. you'll get the girl, I just know you will! but stay sharp until the credits roll
 
Bubble wrap!

Just wrap yourself up with the stuff and you won't feel the blows... indeed you probably won't be able to feel anything and trying to go to the loo with be a messy affair.:rolleyes:
 
Kick or punch the nuts.

Always works for me.

Of course, the guys are on to me now and protect themselves when I'm PMSing.
 
Unless you are attacked you really don't need to fight.
But if a situation arises and you really do need to fight, just go ape **** on the guy. Use all your energy to destroy him. But try to avoid it, not much good can come of it.
And tell the girl, I am a grown man, an adult, I don't need to fight these punks.
If she wants you to fight then just use her up and don't get emotionally involved.:2 cents:
 
Go to the hardware store and buy a 1 1/8th inch combination wrench.

Good reach, legal to carry, aim for the knees.
 
Fight dirty, and WIN. If it comes to physical ********, might as well not try to be a gentleman (after all, sounds like these guys aren't).

Really, you should try to avoid fighting over something like this altogether. I mean, what the hell is wrong with these guys? Do they honestly believe fighting between you and them will somehow determine who she wants to be with? If she actually wants to be with the winner of this totally high school drama fest, do you actually want to stay with her?

It's a relationship. If it's going to be too much trouble, get the hell out of there. No one should have to put up with this crap.

H
 
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