A Realistic Adult Movie
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Harley Spencer
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No, men aren't robots, but most of them last longer than just a few minutes. The ones that don't, they suck in bed. If you only last a couple minutes, then you're only focusing on your own satisfaction and pleasure, and not paying enough attention to the woman.
Not as intense? I beg to differ. Have you been in porn films? No? Then you can't say how intense they are. I have been in them. It's not that great. I don't know how many times I've said this on the board here and elsewhere, but I'll say it again: The sex in porn isn't for pleasure, aside from the pleasure of the audience. The angles and positions you see are only done because it's a good view for the camera. Personal sex is more intense because you're personally involved, you're with someone you care about (unless it's a one night stand type of deal), etc.
If your personal sex life isn't intense, then I'm sorry, but you sound like you don't have a very good sex life and might not know what good sex even is.
As regards sexuality sometimes I feel myself like a trivial tool into inscrutable feminine psychology ... very forward with the head but very backwards with ass.
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Why save the world, when you can rule it?
How about a couple arguing "I want us to come together" "I want to come on your face why do you think I've been working so hard to keep you happy with no sex for the last 2 weeks?" And then the sex stops and they lie together in bed.
Harley Spencer
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Story of my life. Although my argument would be, "I want to come..." Period.
A little difficult to discuss sexual issues in a foreing language but let's try.
If you were a man then you would know that almost certainly you come in minutes if the position is correct.
If you want it to last longer then you have to do it more slowly or chance the position.
The purpose of sex: fertilization.
I have not perfomerd in adult films.
I mean that the sex in movies may seem intense.
My sex life is routine, because my female partner does not care much about sex.
She just wanted to be close to me, but I want little more.
I think the OP has raised an interesting question and has got me thinking....
The "realistic" movie that I'd want to see is your normal, average, everyday movie mixed in with hardcore sex. For example, like someone brought up.... a regular James Bond movie with a story and everything except without all the censoring. No blankets or other cover ups of that sort. The movie has a plot and you see James Bond in action and then when Bond gets laid, you see real hardcore sex instead of that censoring crap we see in everyday movies.
Or maybe have a realistic adult show. For example, a show like "Friends" without the censoring. You see real hardcore sex during the scenes where the characters ***** with someone. When Ross and Rachel have sex, you really see the sex!!
I would like to watch stuff like that. I think that would be awesome!
The "realistic" movie that I'd want to see is your normal, average, everyday movie mixed in with hardcore sex. For example, like someone brought up.... a regular James Bond movie with a story and everything except without all the censoring. No blankets or other cover ups of that sort. The movie has a plot and you see James Bond in action and then when Bond gets laid, you see real hardcore sex instead of that censoring crap we see in everyday movies.
Or maybe have a realistic adult show. For example, a show like "Friends" without the censoring. You see real hardcore sex during the scenes where the characters ***** with someone. When Ross and Rachel have sex, you really see the sex!!
I would like to watch stuff like that. I think that would be awesome!
Deepcover
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Hide a ********** in the bedroom without the wifey know
Hubby and wifey get their sexual intercourse on
Afterwords hubby reveals the ********** to the wifey
Wifey is shocked and a little upset makes hubby ***** out on the uncomfortable sofa
Hubby grumbles and says "Oh yeah this is great... ****!"
The End
A Deepcover Production
Hubby and wifey get their sexual intercourse on
Afterwords hubby reveals the ********** to the wifey
Wifey is shocked and a little upset makes hubby ***** out on the uncomfortable sofa
Hubby grumbles and says "Oh yeah this is great... ****!"
The End
A Deepcover Production
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
I know a lot about what goes on for men with sex. The same can be said for women in regards to having an orgasm in minutes if it's done right. Like me, when I masturbate, I can get myself off within 5 minutes. Sometimes less. Sometimes more. Depends.
Yes, you do have to move slower and change the position to last longer. Having an orgasm shouldn't be the goal of sex. You should just enjoy it. Don't rush to the finish.
Yes, the purpose of sex is to reproduce. But is that really what we're all doing?
No, it's not. Why do you think so many women are on birth control? Why do men wear condoms? Because we don't want to get pregnant (or get STDs). We want to have sex, we want to have fun. Perhaps your partner doesn't care much about sex because she isn't satisfied. That's the case with me. I don't have sex very often. Every couple weeks I get laid. A large part of that is because I'm not satisfied in bed. My guy doesn't get me off. He knows what I like in bed, he knows what I want, but it's not what he likes, so he doesn't do it. So, I don't want sex with him very often. When I am horny, I'd rather play with my vibrator than play with him, because my vibrator satisfies me. Perhaps you could think about that. If you want more sex, better sex, try.... focusing on your girl a little more.
This is a really bizarre but interesting thread. The OP apparently has at some point had sex, for a couple minutes, for the purpose of "fertilization", and he wants to see more of that captured on video?
Ok then. . . that sounds totally awesome, and I'm sure it will sell very well, because who wouldn't want to watch something like that?
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On a serious subject: Harley you were robbed. You should have won in the contest. I'm just saying.
Ok then. . . that sounds totally awesome, and I'm sure it will sell very well, because who wouldn't want to watch something like that?
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On a serious subject: Harley you were robbed. You should have won in the contest. I'm just saying.
She has not really ever cared about the matter and threfore it seems somehow wrong to want what the other person does not want.
But good to see that others also have problems. :sunny:
Well, you're so young that you will find surely someone else if you want to.
I used to have a girlfriend who got off by me sucking on her tits while she masturbated with her hand REALLY HARD AND FAST...she would have multiple orgasms from that and we would do it as often as possible because I enjoyed seeing her get off...it made me feel like our sex was more complete, because, like alot of guys, its easy for us to have orgasms, so I was glad to reciprocate.. thank goodness it was something relatively easy that I was comfortable with...and over time I got better at it, and so we had ALOT of fun enjoyinng each other because she loved sex in pretty much every way and her enthusiasm made it even easier for me to get off too...Good Times !!
I guess the relevant point to this thread is that what "realistic" porn means to me, is 'that which actually makes the actor/actress get off in real life'...not just a bunch of loud noise and faked enthusiam.....I think what actually get's each person off the best is unique to that person, and can sometimes be somewhat weird to others, but I can usually tell when somebody is getting off, and really enjoying themselves, and that's always really a hot thing to watch and/or be a part of !
I think the main thing is to be honest and truthful with your partner...then each person must not judge the other...but be accepting ...and alot of times the trust and honesty factor allows your partner (esp. woman) to relax more and release inhibitions, thus paving the way for better orgasms...I think this same thing could theoretically be applied to porn whereby, if a person is allowed to be themselves, without excessive judgement and criticism by directors or their partner in a scene, then the sex will be better and more realistic. This would apply to the plot/story-line/lead-in, as well as the actual sex itself.
Obviously, all this would have to be within certain parameters...I mean if a woman I was with got off by having a live hamster stuffed up her ass, I would listen and not be judgemental...but as for me actually doing that, she would be SOL !:1orglaugh
I guess the relevant point to this thread is that what "realistic" porn means to me, is 'that which actually makes the actor/actress get off in real life'...not just a bunch of loud noise and faked enthusiam.....I think what actually get's each person off the best is unique to that person, and can sometimes be somewhat weird to others, but I can usually tell when somebody is getting off, and really enjoying themselves, and that's always really a hot thing to watch and/or be a part of !
I think the main thing is to be honest and truthful with your partner...then each person must not judge the other...but be accepting ...and alot of times the trust and honesty factor allows your partner (esp. woman) to relax more and release inhibitions, thus paving the way for better orgasms...I think this same thing could theoretically be applied to porn whereby, if a person is allowed to be themselves, without excessive judgement and criticism by directors or their partner in a scene, then the sex will be better and more realistic. This would apply to the plot/story-line/lead-in, as well as the actual sex itself.
Obviously, all this would have to be within certain parameters...I mean if a woman I was with got off by having a live hamster stuffed up her ass, I would listen and not be judgemental...but as for me actually doing that, she would be SOL !:1orglaugh
Harley doesn't have to be a man to understand that. Hell everyone is different. That is nothing like myself (I'm not trying to brag, but you just make it sound really bad). You should say "If you were me." Don't group us all in together.
Omg! A few years ago I had a girlfriend who absolutely loved that too! Usually at the end she would get me to stick my fingers in while she was rubbing her clit right before she would orgasm. She loved it
Probably you'd see a very boring video clip .... since "the missionary" its the more used position and normal people came in few minutes.
Omg! A few years ago I had a girlfriend who absolutely loved that too! Usually at the end she would get me to stick my fingers in while she was rubbing her clit right before she would orgasm. She loved it
Very interesting ! I think we were both very fortunate, because I know from experience, as I'm sure you do also, that all woman do not achieve orgasms so relatively easily.
I've got some girlfriend with very closed mentality about sex, and I've got some girlfriend very open minded, but I never had a girlfriend with the same nasty attitude as you can see into a Miko Lee, Tia Ling, Sai Tai Tiger or Nadi Pukhet movie's.
We must realize that in our ordinary life sex is much more boring than that you can see in the show business, where everything is deliberately exaggerated and spectacular, and at last that which distinguishes a best porn star from a bad actress its to be able to make everything most realistic.
Depens on the situation.
If the position is favorable it may take few minutes.
On the other hand if women is very wet it can last much longer and she might not like it.
But like you said people are different and feel things differently.
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
Ahaha! I'm sorry to laugh, but oh my goodness, I think you've got it backwards. Wouldn't the girl being more wet make it better for both of you? I would hope so! Or maybe it's just your poor English. If it's not your poor English, then oh man, I don't even know...
