I'm sometimes torn about that also. But when I really find a woman to be super hot, I'll post her on this thread:
http://board.freeones.com/showthread.php?497386-What-is-your-definition-of-HOT-Perfect&p=9553611#post9553611
I enjoy the beginning of most Tonight's Girlfriend episodes, where the girl chats and flirts with the guy (sometimes talking dirty) as they slowly build up the anticipation before the actual sex.