It's funny isn't it. I'm the same way, I can usually spot a lesbian girl from a mile away. My first experience was when I was 14, I've always known that I'm a lesbian and luckily my parent's have been cool with it from the beginning. As for the dominating thing, well my recent ex-girlfriend was dominant sometimes but not all the time. I liked it when she was dominant but I'm not lookig for a girl who's dominant all the time.