Re: The Official Harley Spencer Thread!
I would totally take a blurry photo of you over a clear photo of anyone else.
I would totally take a blurry photo of you over a clear photo of anyone else.
Lilah Vale / Harley Spencer / October Daring
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Re: The Official Harley Spencer Thread!
That is an awesome t-shirt. Instantly goes into my top 3 favourite t-shirts I've seen on a lovely lady.
And I thought it more appropriate to reply here than the relevant thread itself as it's a shade O/T :
Thank you, that means a lot a) a someone with eyes as lovely as yours and b) it looks like I haven't ***** for days.
One of my female friends once described them as "beyond blue" and I won't lie, I like the colour in normal light. (sigh) She was one that got away from my youth - at 22 I though "ex-girlfriend of a close friend" was a distinct no-go area, even though there was obviously something there.
:suicide:
Anyhoo Miss Harley I have put my money where my mouth is and visited your Personals store this fine evening. Absolute least I could do for you being such a cool OCSM.
That is an awesome t-shirt. Instantly goes into my top 3 favourite t-shirts I've seen on a lovely lady.
And I thought it more appropriate to reply here than the relevant thread itself as it's a shade O/T :
Thank you, that means a lot a) a someone with eyes as lovely as yours and b) it looks like I haven't ***** for days.
One of my female friends once described them as "beyond blue" and I won't lie, I like the colour in normal light. (sigh) She was one that got away from my youth - at 22 I though "ex-girlfriend of a close friend" was a distinct no-go area, even though there was obviously something there.
:suicide:
Anyhoo Miss Harley I have put my money where my mouth is and visited your Personals store this fine evening. Absolute least I could do for you being such a cool OCSM.
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
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Eh. I've dated and ***** with some of my friends exes. It never caused any problems. Suppose it depends on the person in question, but generally if the relationship your friend had with said girl wasn't very serious and didn't end badly, you're good to go. If it ended badly like her cheating on him or they ****** each other or something, and if they were engaged or dating for a very long time, it's best to stay away.
You visited my store? What'd you get?
Eh. I've dated and ***** with some of my friends exes. It never caused any problems. Suppose it depends on the person in question, but generally if the relationship your friend had with said girl wasn't very serious and didn't end badly, you're good to go. If it ended badly like her cheating on him or they ****** each other or something, and if they were engaged or dating for a very long time, it's best to stay away.
You visited my store? What'd you get?
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Well, you've nailed how I viewed/would view it.
They went out for 2 years and were as serious and "real couple" as I'd seen anyone our age be at the time. They knew where they were going to move to when she finished her masters, they'd talked about their **** and everything. Then he cheated on her with one of his gal friends, that his mrs had always suspected had had her eyes on him. I was crushed as he was near enough my best friend and I couldn't believe he had it in him to do it to his girlfriend who was as sweet, kind and lovely girl I ever knew. It was actually me that told him the day after his initial infidelity (it had happened on a weekend away with me, him, this other girl and one other friend) "you need to break up with her. Not next week, not tomorrow, today. Or I'll lose any respect for you that I still have." He knew it was the right thing to do, so he did. These days I might have left well enough alone, people make their own mistakes and their own decisions, but at the time I was so convinced I needed to make him do the right thing.
I spent a lot of the next 12 months picking up the pieces for his ex (we still lived ten minutes apart in our uni town) and being there for the tears, the calls in the middle of the night, and generally being there for her when she felt like she didn't have anybody. She'd drifted apart from her housemates spending all her time round our house with my mate for the previous two years, so for a while I was all she had. Like you say, I knew it was best to stay away, but I did develop certain feelings for her. I still have a cushion she used to bring with her to my room for our 8 hour Friends marathons, that at the end of the uni year when we went our separate ways, she let me keep. With the gift of hindsight, I think there was one night where she gave me a bit of a come-on, and being the naive innocent virgin that I was, I missed it completely.
Me : "Wow. Friday night. The entire single population of this town are right now either getting ***** or having sex."
Her : "And here we are, doing neither."
Me : "I know." (puts next Friends tape on)
It was years later that it dawned on me that was a line. I think. She might have been suggesting we get ***** instead, I don't know. Eight years later, she's in a happy long time relationship and just had a little girl (which she named Phoebe after Friends, God love her) and last summer I went to the wedding of my friend and "the other girl." So it worked out alright in the end for both of them. But, still.
Hmm, TMI and way more sharing than I usually do behind the wonderful cloak of internet anonymity. Sorry.
You may chalk me up as "satisfied customer." :heart:
Well, you've nailed how I viewed/would view it.
They went out for 2 years and were as serious and "real couple" as I'd seen anyone our age be at the time. They knew where they were going to move to when she finished her masters, they'd talked about their **** and everything. Then he cheated on her with one of his gal friends, that his mrs had always suspected had had her eyes on him. I was crushed as he was near enough my best friend and I couldn't believe he had it in him to do it to his girlfriend who was as sweet, kind and lovely girl I ever knew. It was actually me that told him the day after his initial infidelity (it had happened on a weekend away with me, him, this other girl and one other friend) "you need to break up with her. Not next week, not tomorrow, today. Or I'll lose any respect for you that I still have." He knew it was the right thing to do, so he did. These days I might have left well enough alone, people make their own mistakes and their own decisions, but at the time I was so convinced I needed to make him do the right thing.
I spent a lot of the next 12 months picking up the pieces for his ex (we still lived ten minutes apart in our uni town) and being there for the tears, the calls in the middle of the night, and generally being there for her when she felt like she didn't have anybody. She'd drifted apart from her housemates spending all her time round our house with my mate for the previous two years, so for a while I was all she had. Like you say, I knew it was best to stay away, but I did develop certain feelings for her. I still have a cushion she used to bring with her to my room for our 8 hour Friends marathons, that at the end of the uni year when we went our separate ways, she let me keep. With the gift of hindsight, I think there was one night where she gave me a bit of a come-on, and being the naive innocent virgin that I was, I missed it completely.
Me : "Wow. Friday night. The entire single population of this town are right now either getting ***** or having sex."
Her : "And here we are, doing neither."
Me : "I know." (puts next Friends tape on)
It was years later that it dawned on me that was a line. I think. She might have been suggesting we get ***** instead, I don't know. Eight years later, she's in a happy long time relationship and just had a little girl (which she named Phoebe after Friends, God love her) and last summer I went to the wedding of my friend and "the other girl." So it worked out alright in the end for both of them. But, still.
Hmm, TMI and way more sharing than I usually do behind the wonderful cloak of internet anonymity. Sorry.
You visited my store? What'd you get?
You may chalk me up as "satisfied customer." :heart:
jitna
Eternally hoping to lick Briana
Re: The Official Harley Spencer Thread!
good to see youre taking the challenge seriously. the big downside is all the reading i have to do.
good to see youre taking the challenge seriously. the big downside is all the reading i have to do.
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Psst... "Beads". Just sayin'.
It's quality reading though!
Psst... "Beads". Just sayin'.
It's quality reading though!
jitna
Eternally hoping to lick Briana
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some of its better than others
It's quality reading though!
some of its better than others
jitna
Eternally hoping to lick Briana
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this one was pretty good
You love my posts. I know you do.
this one was pretty good
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It's the smiley that really makes it pop, huh?
This smiley is good too... :spanking: ... oh and this one!...
It's the smiley that really makes it pop, huh?
This smiley is good too... :spanking: ... oh and this one!...
jitna
Eternally hoping to lick Briana
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ive spent too much time on Miss Hybrid's forum to react positively to a smiley
It's the smiley that really makes it pop, huh?
This smiley is good too... :spanking: ... oh and this one!...
ive spent too much time on Miss Hybrid's forum to react positively to a smiley
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
Re: The Official Harley Spencer Thread!
I think you did the best a friend can do in that situation. As for how it ended up with him marrying the other girl and her now having a *** and being in a good relationship, maybe that's how things are supposed to be. You might've missed your chance, but I'm sure there's a great girl for you out there somewhere.
Glad you liked the video I need to put more up there. It takes forever to get them to upload though, it takes hours just to upload one video and there have been a couple times when I uploaded a video then it had an error of some sort, saying "No video selected" or something along those lines, so all those hours I waited for the upload to finish were completely worthless. Ugh.
I think you did the best a friend can do in that situation. As for how it ended up with him marrying the other girl and her now having a *** and being in a good relationship, maybe that's how things are supposed to be. You might've missed your chance, but I'm sure there's a great girl for you out there somewhere.
Glad you liked the video
I need to put more up there. It takes forever to get them to upload though, it takes hours just to upload one video and there have been a couple times when I uploaded a video then it had an error of some sort, saying "No video selected" or something along those lines, so all those hours I waited for the upload to finish were completely worthless. Ugh.Re: The Official Harley Spencer Thread!
I... totally don't even know what you mean by that... ?
I... totally don't even know what you mean by that... ?
jitna
Eternally hoping to lick Briana
Re: The Official Harley Spencer Thread!
there are many smileys over there and at times they have been known to run rampant. feel free to check it out. in theory, Harley's still a member
there are many smileys over there and at times they have been known to run rampant. feel free to check it out. in theory, Harley's still a member
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
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Yeah I'm still a member over there, I just haven't stopped by in a long while.
Yeah I'm still a member over there, I just haven't stopped by in a long while.
jitna
Eternally hoping to lick Briana
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as you may have heard, it has gotten a bit more active since Miss retreated from this place
as you may have heard, it has gotten a bit more active since Miss retreated from this place
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I think I went there once. Though I'm not 100% that it was the right forum.
I try not to overuse smilies. I will often use a few per post, just to convey tone (because my Asperger's tends to make me post in a way that overly formal, and sometimes people take that as condescension or me being prickish, so I like to toss some in to make things seem a bit clearer). I like to keep them to a minimum though. More than two per paragraph, or three or four in an entire post (depending on length obviously) and I start to feel like I'm ******* them...
Hmm. You've figured out how to pique my interest, haven't you? Clever boy! Or I'm just really easily manipulated... which is fine with me.
I think I went there once. Though I'm not 100% that it was the right forum.
I try not to overuse smilies. I will often use a few per post, just to convey tone (because my Asperger's tends to make me post in a way that overly formal, and sometimes people take that as condescension or me being prickish, so I like to toss some in to make things seem a bit clearer). I like to keep them to a minimum though. More than two per paragraph, or three or four in an entire post (depending on length obviously) and I start to feel like I'm ******* them...
Hmm. You've figured out how to pique my interest, haven't you? Clever boy! Or I'm just really easily manipulated... which is fine with me.
jitna
Eternally hoping to lick Briana
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i dont use them if i can help it
this is Harley's thread. ive got to keep it relevant.
i dont use them if i can help it
Hmm. You've figured out how to pique my interest, haven't you? Clever boy! Or I'm just really easily manipulated... which is fine with me.
this is Harley's thread. ive got to keep it relevant.
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Yeah, I didn't used to, but... too many misunderstandings. So I made a conscious effort to get into the habit.
If it weren't for my condition I probably wouldn't use them at all. Never used to.
So... then you're saying that you're not clever?
EDIT:
OH! New video is up on Harley's site! Downloading now!
/EDIT
Yeah, I didn't used to, but... too many misunderstandings. So I made a conscious effort to get into the habit.
If it weren't for my condition I probably wouldn't use them at all. Never used to.
So... then you're saying that you're not clever?
EDIT:
OH! New video is up on Harley's site! Downloading now!
/EDIT
Harley Spencer
Verified Performer
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I had heard that she's retreated from FO, but not that it was more active over there.
It's ok, I'm open to all sorts of discussions even if they don't directly involve me.
I had heard that she's retreated from FO, but not that it was more active over there.
It's ok, I'm open to all sorts of discussions even if they don't directly involve me.
