I meant better off without
Its now going to be hisEXslave.. its over
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I meant better off without
BioDefenseGrad
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That's like 10 years for a military marriage. If anyone has seen the divorce rate for junior enlisted people, you'll understand that I'm not joking. I know this sounds ludicrous, but maybe you should try to work it out, at least for a little while. You've got a ******* that needs to be getting a high school diploma or GED not dropping out and living hand to mouth on McDonald's wages. If you can stay together for at least a few more months, you can take advantage of the free rent in order to formulate a plan of action, and maybe just maybe, keep your marriage together until you and your ******* are in a better position.
I've pretty much figured out my plan/career. I plan on staying with my uncle until I save enough (I am entitled to the BAH money that he gets to house his dependents until the divorce is final so thats 700 a month, plus my ******* gets 300 a month social security benefits since my *** ****** away) so I am going to save enough for a cheap but decent car, find a job and enroll in school because until our divorce is final my schooling is still paid for. Our divorce can not take place while he is overseas so we wont be divorced until at least march 2011 but thats okay because that means for the next year my ******* and I will have medical insurance and I can get my schooling paid for. I plan on going to ATA to become an ultra sound technician. Once I have a car I plan on finding a cheap 2 bedroom apartment close by my uncles and well living life.
Thank youI really appreciate it
It did whims, it did
Looks good. Are you sure that his command can't find a way to speed up the process and get you cut off asap? He'll be bitching saying that his wife is sucking benefits from him, and look to legal for help.
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Marlo Manson
Hello Sexy girl how your Toes doing?
I am sincerely sorry darling. You deserve better. We as humans reap what what we sew, your EX will get what he's got coming to him double fold.
Elwood70
Torn & Frayed.
habo9
Banned
Sorry to hear this HexSS , but I didnt think it sounded good from what you said in your other thread , but people say things in the heat of the moment that they dont mean , so I hope things work out for you....
Always remember what I do..........simple two words?
FUCK THEM......& change your number and ignore them , also make sure they hear your having a great time and dont wallow in your own self pity , life only gets you down if you let it.................
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Always remember what I do..........simple two words?
FUCK THEM......& change your number and ignore them , also make sure they hear your having a great time and dont wallow in your own self pity , life only gets you down if you let it.................
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I'm glad you are starting to form a game plan. Taking advantage of dick's benefits while you can is a very smart move. I wish you all the best hissy! Take care of yourself and your little *******, sweetie!:hatsoff::thumbsup:I've pretty much figured out my plan/career. I plan on staying with my uncle until I save enough (I am entitled to the BAH money that he gets to house his dependents until the divorce is final so thats 700 a month, plus my ******* gets 300 a month social security benefits since my *** ****** away) so I am going to save enough for a cheap but decent car, find a job and enroll in school because until our divorce is final my schooling is still paid for. Our divorce can not take place while he is overseas so we wont be divorced until at least march 2011 but thats okay because that means for the next year my ******* and I will have medical insurance and I can get my schooling paid for. I plan on going to ATA to become an ultra sound technician. Once I have a car I plan on finding a cheap 2 bedroom apartment close by my uncles and well living life.
Alyssa Rose
Official Checked Star Member
kay guys just an update.. He begged me to stay with him, said he didn't mean it, blah blah, all over again, quite frankly I am 100% done playing his games so I said no, I didn't fall apart and take him back (though you have no idea how hard it was) I bought my ******* and my plane tickets and we leave thursday We have 6 hour layover in chicago though, lame lol but I am soo excited to finally be moving on with my life.. Im not gonna lie though, it is really hard.. especially at night.. Nights are the worst.. you go two years having someone in your bed almost every night and then its just you and your vibrator and well.. its not the same
We have 6 hour layover in chicago though, lame lol but I am soo excited to finally be moving on with my life.. Im not gonna lie though, it is really hard.. especially at night.. Nights are the worst.. you go two years having someone in your bed almost every night and then its just you and your vibrator and well.. its not the same 
Hi HS.
Most sorry to hear the demise of your relationship, and most sorry it has come to this. You seem to be in quite a difficult and awkward situation which has taken a turn for the worse. Nobody has the right to treat anybody the way that you have been, well that jerk that was your husband can go make his own sandwiches from now on I guess.
I dont really know you perhaps as well as some of the rest of the guys here, but do know that you appear to be a very level headed sincere, funny and genuinely nice person to know and I have certainly enjoyed your company since you came onto the board.
Just one question from your explanation you seem to think that to all intents its over, no way back, maybe I am ever the optimist here but is there any shred of a chance of patching it up and for the sake of your *** perhaps?
Wishing you all the best in any resolution of your circumstances and hope everything works out for the very best very soon. Well you know you have some very good and understanding friends (I hope I might be counted among those!) here willing to take the time and understanding to listen if you want to just get something off your mind!
Most sorry to hear the demise of your relationship, and most sorry it has come to this. You seem to be in quite a difficult and awkward situation which has taken a turn for the worse. Nobody has the right to treat anybody the way that you have been, well that jerk that was your husband can go make his own sandwiches from now on I guess.
I dont really know you perhaps as well as some of the rest of the guys here, but do know that you appear to be a very level headed sincere, funny and genuinely nice person to know and I have certainly enjoyed your company since you came onto the board.
Just one question from your explanation you seem to think that to all intents its over, no way back, maybe I am ever the optimist here but is there any shred of a chance of patching it up and for the sake of your *** perhaps?
Wishing you all the best in any resolution of your circumstances and hope everything works out for the very best very soon. Well you know you have some very good and understanding friends (I hope I might be counted among those!) here willing to take the time and understanding to listen if you want to just get something off your mind!
Alyssa Rose
Official Checked Star Member
Well, we don't have a *** together.. I don't have any ******** but my *** ****** away in September so I have custody of my 15 year old *******..
But no.. there is no chance for reconciliation.. I've already given to many chances. I can't give any more, or it will be a never ending cycle.
Thankfully you weren't 3-4 **** deep when this went down. You're actually in a better situation than most folks. Now it's about the matter of getting past the adjustment period. You definetly got a lot of support here... and you can't go wrong with us, right?!?
kay guys just an update.. He begged me to stay with him, said he didn't mean it, blah blah, all over again, quite frankly I am 100% done playing his games so I said no, I didn't fall apart and take him back (though you have no idea how hard it was) I bought my ******* and my plane tickets and we leave thursday
You're a smart, witty, attractive, young woman with your whole life (literally) ahead of you. This man was a part of your life for years and it will get lonelier and harder in the days ahead....you will find yourself even missing the **** you didn't like about him. You love him and that will take some time to get out of your system. What will help a whole lot is reminding yourself that you love you more and tolerating disrespect, lying, infidelity, verbal insults, etc. was only diminishing you.
There are many men especially the kind that can truly appreciate a smart, witty, attractive girl like you (and do all the things your soon to be ex can do for you too). There is only one you.
Jane Burgess
Official Checked Star Member
I've pretty much figured out my plan/career. I plan on staying with my uncle until I save enough (I am entitled to the BAH money that he gets to house his dependents until the divorce is final so thats 700 a month, plus my ******* gets 300 a month social security benefits since my *** ****** away) so I am going to save enough for a cheap but decent car, find a job and enroll in school because until our divorce is final my schooling is still paid for. Our divorce can not take place while he is overseas so we wont be divorced until at least march 2011 but thats okay because that means for the next year my ******* and I will have medical insurance and I can get my schooling paid for. I plan on going to ATA to become an ultra sound technician. Once I have a car I plan on finding a cheap 2 bedroom apartment close by my uncles and well living life.
Sounds like a great plan. You are a strong lady and will get through this.
Well looks like your mind is made up, and for the right rather than the wrong reasons. A jerk such as you soon to be ex doesnt deserve such great gal as your self (hope that makes you feel better) and lets hope for an amicable and swift resolution for your sake!
Hugs and kisses babe xXx TM
I am so sorry to hear what you went through. I believe that things will get better for you. I will keep you in my prayers. What sparked his actions? Do you have any ******** with him? I am sorry to hear about your ***'s passing. May God be with you in your time of need. Would you like my private email address or my myspace screen name?
I believe that things will get better for you. I will keep you in my prayers. What sparked his actions? Do you have any ******** with him? I am sorry to hear about your ***'s passing. May God be with you in your time of need. Would you like my private email address or my myspace screen name?Similar threads
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