Are you ugly?

I am a hideous overweight hairy stinking *****. You might know me by another name...Sasquatch. I cant own a mirror as they will break as soon as it gets a gander at my face. I scare babies and rabid dogs, women avoid me with obvious disgust. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the beholder better be Helen Keller.
 
I am a hideous overweight hairy stinking *****. You might know me by another name...Sasquatch. I cant own a mirror as they will break as soon as it gets a gander at my face. I scare babies and rabid dogs, women avoid me with obvious disgust. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the beholder better be Helen Keller.

you must have some seriously low self esteem:1orglaugh
 
i think jessica simpson and ashlee simpson are both hot

Thats nice opinions are like A$$holes everybodies got one! :yinyang: I think jessica is ugly! :eek: but I also think Ashlee is smokin hot!:flame::D:yesyes:
 
I won't say I've never cared about my looks, because I'd be lieing through my keyboard. But I will say that I'm not as concerned about my looks as others.

I remember during my high school days some of my friends had pretty bad acne. I had the occasional breakout every month, as well as a few scars left to this date. They were pretty sensitive about it, I remember one of my friends even wore makeup once to cover a huge zit he had on his cheek! I never really went to measures such as getting proactiv or any other acne treating solution, I was just really secure with myself and how I looked. Plus, I noticed that if I just went about my way and left my acne alone, it cleared up rather quickly by itself ;)

I have been called both ugly and handsome, so I guess it's really just how other people view you.
 
For example, not so many guys will deny Jessica Simpson is pretty. She can be dorky and clumsy, but she is not ugly.
Actually, I find her quite plain, as well as Brittney Spears. But that's just me.

Frankly, I think I am unattractive in many ways. And, frankly, if a woman finds me unattractive, who am I to convince her otherwise? I hold no judgement of her, regardless of whatever judgement she shows myself, in any regard. I'm pretty much open to criticism and, frankly, I'm more worried about what I can change than what I cannot.

Like my weight. I'm struggling as I age. I may still look like I'm in college, even as I approach 40, but the weight is definitely not helping my looks, much less my health long-term. In that regard, if someone finds me ugly because of my weight, I'm guilty as charged but I also know I am at fault for that.

I can some personality quirks that I don't like. I know them. I want to change them. I've changed some, but I also tend to be a bit more prideful on some items than I recognize. My wife regularly works on helping me change what I want to change, although she says she loves me regardless.

So am I ugly? Am I avoiding the question? I honestly have never known. I thought I was, and I even thought I wasn't popular in high school. Some people told me otherwise when I went to my 10 year reunion, while others said that I was too much of a business and computer geek to make up for my being an athlete of the mainstream, American sports I lettered in.

Yet others valued me on what I did. My wife met several women who said they will never forget the night I didn't take advantage of them while they were pissed *****, and made sure they got home okay. I even had an argument with one of their parents when I dropped one off one-time, and I just took the blame so her parents were far more mad at me than her (even though I arrived well after she was already **********). One told me, obviously when my wife wasn't around, that she wanted to ***** with me when she was sober. Another one we met was one I did when she was.

So how do I measure that? Do I go around and add up all the women that wanted to ***** with me, and each a magical number that says I wasn't ugly? I honestly don't know. And I'll never know if it's because of my personality why they did or did not want to ***** with me in high school, in college, in my career for that matter.

So, by default, I assume I'm ugly. If a woman converses with me and we reach a point whereby she conveys otherwise, then I'm flattered. But in reality, my conversations in my professional career never reach that. They never do because I'm the married consultant with the ring sticking out and everyone knows I won't even got to lunch with a female co-worker because of how it looks. All the years I spent around Wall Street, I got a rep with the other consultants that ProfV doesn't even do adult bars, etc...

Doesn't mean I'm conservative. Doesn't mean I don't desire. Doesn't mean I don't go, "damn I'd love to fuck her" in my mind. Hell, when the guys pressured me enough, I usually shocked them who I went for, let alone who didn't impress me. A few times that got me into trouble because the "lesser appreciated" beauty is someone who may like myself as well (and some guys cannot be mature enough when they find out). Julia Roberts, Cameron Diaz, many other actresses, not attractive to me at all (I actually find Julia a tad repulsive). I'm sure they'd probably say the same (or worse) about me, and most would think I'm stupid for even thinking that way (let alone don't have the room to say such).

So be it. I have my lover. After 15 years she gives me even a harder boner than when I first met her. And she seems to think I'm attractive in her eyes, which is the only thing I really value anymore.
 
I don't think I'm ugly.

I spend my life behaving like a cockerel: you could stamp on me; my body's 70% water; there are billions like me. Yet I'm still a cockerel: women, to a degree, do what I say and give me what I want. I've had a few fights and I know how to stand my ground against people who are bigger than me and who could beat me. You could **** me but you won't because I behave like a cockerel.

I like the way I look.
 
If it makes you feel any better there are attractive guys out there that don't get much from it, especially if they don't have money backing it up. It's not like the advantage women get for being attractive at least. I know somebody that other people say looks good, is funny, intelligent, wise, physically fit, and very nice...and it has gotten him absolutely nowhere in life. In the end I don't know if it's that big of a deal to focus on. It's a nice bonus if you have it but a lot of times that's about it.
 
Yes i am.I am that ugly,when i wa syounger i had to tie a piece of meat round my neck so the local stray dogs would play with me.If beauty is skin deep,i must be inside out.

:(
 
The only ugly people are those who do ugly things. If you're talking about attractiveness, to answer your question, I don't consider myself a hugely-gorgeous guy. But I've had more than enough girls in my life consider me to be good-looking. I've always been pretty modest in that area. If I had to rate myself on a 1-10 scale and be objective, I'd say I'm a 7.
 
But I'm on the outside
And I'm looking in
I can see through you
See your true colors
'Cause inside your ugly
Your ugly like me
I can see through you
See to the real you
 
Yes, I am ugly. I've been even told i was ugly by my ******.
go to photo bucket and type in dogbone27 theres a pic of me holding a camera...now tell me I'm not ugly. :(
 
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