If your significant other was carrying on conversations (ranging from flirty to explicit) via IM, PM's, email and the like without actual physical contact (that you know of) would you be upset or just blow it off as harmless? What would your course of action be?
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Will E Worm
Conspiracy...
I wouldn't like it. Especially if she wanted to spend more time talking to her online "friend" than with me.
It happened to me, and I didnt like it. It felt like cheating to me
member2013
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Her interest and overall loyalty to me is waning.
If this was prolonged, I would calmy confront her: her reaction would tell the entire story if the relationship was over.
I am not her owner, but her supposed partner - it happens.
If this was prolonged, I would calmy confront her: her reaction would tell the entire story if the relationship was over.
I am not her owner, but her supposed partner - it happens.
I would be upset.
I am upset because she's done it a few times. She always pleads her case and professes her love for me, but I am really losing faith in her and trust is near zero.
tartanterrier
Is somewhere outhere.
If you don't trust her anymore.
slowhand
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You better believe that I would be upset and yes it is another way of cheating If I could not keep my women happy enough were she has to go online and sex chat with some other guy when she needs to come to me and talk about before she goes out and does this.
If she says she loves you like she says she does then there has to be something not right in the relationship or she would not need to do this. just my :2 cents:
If she says she loves you like she says she does then there has to be something not right in the relationship or she would not need to do this. just my :2 cents:
I would be very upset about the explicit conversation. Becks and I have a very open relationship when it comes to things like online chatting or flirting in general. We can flirt a little with people we know as long as we tell each other that we did it. I know all of her online friends and most of her co-workers too. I have a female friend who I sometimes hang out with, but I always tell Becks all about any flirting that happened afterwards. We trust each other very much, but it does help to be open.
I am worried in your case because it is explicit talk. Also if she is doing this behind your back, that is a bad sign.
I am worried in your case because it is explicit talk. Also if she is doing this behind your back, that is a bad sign.
dick van cock
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It depends. I would give my consent if she'd communicate with Chat Baker or Lady Chatterley.
On the other hand, I'd have reservations about Barbara Chat (*) or a dimpled Chad from N' Djamena (Chad) -
(... who is apparently a dyslexic idiot)
{* Barbara Schett - very poor pun, I admit! :ban:}
On the other hand, I'd have reservations about Barbara Chat (*) or a dimpled Chad from N' Djamena (Chad) -
(... who is apparently a dyslexic idiot)
{* Barbara Schett - very poor pun, I admit! :ban:}
Well at least you didn't commit a faux pas and say "Barbara Schitt"! Great, now I've gone and said it. Disregard that last comment!! :crash:
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member2013
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:1orglaugh unrealistically funny.
if she has the needs to sex chat with people online that would mean I'm not filling all her needs. Thanksfully, that has never ever happened to me.
Marlo Manson
Hello Sexy girl how your Toes doing?
HOMEY DON'T PLAY DAT!! 
seriously I would insist her attention and if she had a problem with that, I'd tell her not to let the door hit her on the way out!
I Ain't havin it!! I wouldn't invest my time, my energy or emotions on a girl that fucks with my trust in anyway! :hatsoff:
seriously I would insist her attention and if she had a problem with that, I'd tell her not to let the door hit her on the way out!
I Ain't havin it!! I wouldn't invest my time, my energy or emotions on a girl that fucks with my trust in anyway! :hatsoff:
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Marlo Manson
Hello Sexy girl how your Toes doing?
Your defintiely right, I would tolerate it to a certain point, I was originally gonna post that she could chat & I wouldn't mind, but @ what point does it become problematic? (I didn't want to have to decide or make her chatting, officially bothersome, for the sake of a short post vs. a long post, I chose to post the after effect, instead of the whole situation and how it effects our relationship)
:dunno:I was answering to the effect that she has already crossed that line, of course I took into consideration, my spending and chatting wherever that maybe? she has the same right to do whatever I do in our relationship, so I would be cool with it up until it started to affect our relationship, and of course she would have the right to check me if I took advantage of her, being guilty of the same crime! :yinyang: :hatsoff:
Yes, we arent flirting with other women chatting about sex.
We are simply looking at porn, we arent cybersexing with the pornstars themselves.
