sorority girls dating non frat guys?

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jpap013

ok well heres the story i'm a freshman at syracuse univerisity and i like this sorority girl and im not in a frat. im thinking of asking her out but do know how to go about doing it, we havent reallyy talked that much, but we have talked. are sorority girls more inclined to go out with frat guys or does it not matter? should i keep pursuing her or move on?

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i really fucking hope its not like that. she should date whoever she wants. but if for some reason she's like that. forget her. thats some shallow ****.
 
jpap - my perspective on this is dated, but when I was in college the majority of sorority girls refused to date non-fraternity guys. But there were some who did, and it never hurts to ask, so I'd say go for it. If she rejects you based on you being an independent you should be glad you won't be dating someone that shallow.
 
Point out to her that you are an individual, you're different, you don't just follow the crowd like frat boys do. Also, be sure to indicate that if she dates frat boys, they will lie about her, to her, and most likely infect her with herpes. Humor and confidence is the key. Pursue, but don't ever let on that she is your only option until you get her.

That being said, this probably is not the best place to get advice on how to approach women...........I'm just sayin'
 
squallumz said:
i really fucking hope its not like that. she should date whoever she wants. but if for some reason she's like that. forget her. thats some shallow ****.
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Everyone is shallow in college, though, especially clueless freshmen. Notice how much you've change since then, squall? I know I have.

She's in a sorority, jpap, skip all the bullshit and just ask her out/if she wants to fuck/if you can borrow her notes/to fuck you in the ass with a strap on/her opinion on she-males/if she has the right to eat meat....

whatever approach you feel appropriate.

One thing for dude: Looking back at college I regret SO MANY unrealized opportunities from girls who were throwing me signs that I failed to recognize. Do not be shy, always ask (politely) in any way you can, if she wants to do...something. This is most applicable late at a party. If she's still talking to you, chances are very good she wants to do more.

Like I've learned later in life, the key to sales: Always ask for the order. The worst that can happen is nothing.
 
The Paulinator said:
Point out to her that you are an individual, you're different, you don't just follow the crowd like frat boys do. Also, be sure to indicate that if she dates frat boys, they will lie about her, to her, and most likely infect her with herpes. Humor and confidence is the key. Pursue, but don't ever let on that she is your only option until you get her.

That being said, this probably is not the best place to get advice on how to approach women...........I'm just sayin'
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Also, tell her you'll do the walk of shame with her. She won't have to walk home with her panties in her pocket alone.
 
The Paulinator said:
That being said, this probably is not the best place to get advice on how to approach women...........I'm just sayin'
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Stick around. You might actually find there are many intelligent and worldly people populating this board, despite your predisposition to think otherwise.
 
Peter Gazinya said:
Everyone is shallow in college, though, especially clueless freshmen. Notice how much you've change since then, squall? I know I have.
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i never went. i hated school and i hated the idea of college. surprised everyone too. i always had a's and b's with an occasional c in chemistry.
 
squallumz said:
i never went. i hated school and i hated the idea of college. surprised everyone too. i always had a's and b's with an occasional c in chemistry.
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Well, what I mean is regardless of whether you went to college, later in life most everybody gets alot more mature, open minded, and way less concerned with what other people think.
 
I say go ahead and ask her out. As others said, what's the worst that can happen? For what it is worth, the school I went to, there was no exclusivity between sorority girls and fraternity guys. As was also already mentioned, if this girl is only going to date a frat guy, that is kind of shallow.
 
I've been out of college for about 3 years. When I was a senior, I asked out a girl who was in a sorority (and I wasn't). She said yes. And yeah, it was the typical school where sorority girls went out with frat guys. We ended up only going out like 3 times.

Actually, that reminds me of a funny story about her. It turned out that she lived in the very same apartment my parents had lived in when they went to that school (I went to the same college my parents met at). It gets even stranger. I was conceived in that apartment...yeah freaking weird.
 
Both groups are for elitists and conformists. They should be done away with.
Especially skull and bones another type of "frat" altogether.

With these groups you get people that run the world into the ground. Look where Bush and all the other Bushes before JR came from.
 
The only non-fraternity guys that get dates are athletes. Some athletes are in fraternities, but most aren't.

It all depends on the school. I think most "public" schools have a larger student base and people that grew up with each other. The "social" wall between Greek/Non-Greek wasn't that high or hard to scale.

At most private schools, I'd say you'd be wasting your time. Sororities are VERY competitive and there are times where some Monday Night Chapter meetings every girl in the house has to tell WHO they're dating and why they're dating that person. Unless you're an athlete or a *****, it ain't gonna happen for you so I'd say just be her friend and wait....

I say wait...because when a Sorority girl becomes a Senior...she usually voluntarily "winds down" involvement in the house and if she doesn't have a steady boyfriend/fiance, she realizes she doesn't need to "impress" anyone anymore...and she'll date whoever the fuck she wants to...USUALLY this means someone from some other school...but not always...

Basically...be her friend/study partner....definitely find other girls to date so she knows your "catchable" and wait until she's a Senior...

That's your only chance...in reality.
 
titsrock said:
At most private schools, I'd say you'd be wasting your time. Sororities are VERY competitive and there are times where some Monday Night Chapter meetings every girl in the house has to tell WHO they're dating and why they're dating that person. Unless you're an athlete or a *****, it ain't gonna happen for you so I'd say just be her friend and wait....
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Why should he be her friend and wait?

That's just like women who ***** around then expect the nice guys to wait for them when they want to get married.

Unless she will go out with you now find someone else and forget about her. Stuck up snobs need to live life alone.
 
jpap013 said:
ok well heres the story i'm a freshman at syracuse univerisity and i like this sorority girl and im not in a frat. im thinking of asking her out but do know how to go about doing it, we havent reallyy talked that much, but we have talked. are sorority girls more inclined to go out with frat guys or does it not matter? should i keep pursuing her or move on?

:helpme:
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From what I've seen, the ones that do date people not in frats cheat on their boyfriends with frat bros. Although in all cases that I'm aware of, the boyfriend didn't like to party. So I guess if you like partying, then there shouldn't be a problem.
 
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