How do u flirt?
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Just remember that there will always be others if this one doesn't work out.
If you really think about what you're doing, and what the other person must think of it, then it's not too difficult. If a girl smiles at you, smile back. Open your mouth and talk to her if you're getting a good vibe.
What you actually say to her is entirely up to you, but introducing yourself would be a good start. You're trying to get to know her, and she's probably trying to get to know you. If you're in college/uni, a good place to start would be each other's field of study.
My problem is that after the first conversation item I hit this awkward silence. I am great at carrying a conversation, but I struggle to initiate anything meaningful. Talking about movies, music, and what you did this weekend usually only works for about 2 minutes or so.
ChefChiTown
The secret ingredient? MY BALLS
That's usually my back-up plan. Then, after we steal the car and she sees the camera crew, I say "See...hanging with me will make you famous. Now let's go fuck."
Works everytime.
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dave_rhino
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My style of flirtting is usually picking on the girl slightly. Not being mean, just innocent winding up. You need to know her before for it to work though, like if she's at your college or you work together. Then it never fails for me.
I think you're trying to get laid so I'll give you some advice. Hooking up with girls is a numbers game first of all. So the more girls you talk to the better your odds of hooking up are. I'm not saying run around talking to every girl you see like some desperate freak but do not be afraid to talk to girls at other places besides clubs and bars. Women expect us to approach them so go ahead and do it. Google Tariq Nasheed or fast seduction and you will find some very helpful information. :thumbsup:
SimonMK
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How do I hook up with girls if none of my friends are girls? Everytime I talked with girls is when they came to me. I never went to one unless it was for some help or a employee.
While in this subject, while I was walking outside, I saw that magnificent girl in front of me, a little small in height (a little lower then my shoulders), a cute and pretty face with redish cheeks and busty breasts and a nice ass. And her pink shirt just made her look even more cute with that tight black jeans.
But I just don't know what to do!!! Heck even the guys around were looking at her. I walked toward her and walked next to her but I did nothing... I didn't even dare to look at her...
Then I saw a bus line and guessed she would go in the line, so I continued. A little farther I looked behind only to see her talk with someone in the middle of line. Couldn't see if it was a guy or a girl...
You need to talk, that is what you need to do. Do not use silly pick up lines, just be real. The biggest problem you have is hesitating. When you see a girl you like just say hello and smile if don't know what to say. Many guys miss an opportunity because they don't say anything. Remember women are just people like us. Treat her her like a person and not a sex object. Do not put her a pedestal.That is what your doing when you walk next to a girl and not saying anything. You're giving her power over you and you don't even know her. You're so afraid of hearing no you are not saying anything.Get the scenarios you see on T.V. about something magical happening out of your head. Talk,Talk,Talk!!! You may not hit a home run every time but your in the game. Learn from each interaction with a woman and eventually you know exactly what you need to do and what you are willing to do.:thumbsup:
Thanx for all the tips! keep them cumming! lol
ChefChiTown
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SURE, why not?
Bottom line, you can do whatever you want to do with wines (and food). It's your choice because it's your *****.
Your temperatures are actually pretty close to being accurate, according to "tradition" and "professionals". Not to say that they're wrong, because they're not, but here is what I was always taught...
Wines that are stored at temperatures about 65 degrees tend to prematurely age, causing it to lose flavor and aromatics. So, it makes perfect sense to avoid serving the wines at temperatures that are higher than 65 degrees.
The rule of thumb is to serve red wines a few degrees cooler than room temperature. Now, honestly...what does that mean? It means absolutely nothing. The only thing you truly want to avoid is serving wines that are above 65-68 degrees. Most people try and get red wines to maintain a temperature around 60 degrees.
The ideal serving temperature for white wines is between 45-50 degrees (although I have heard 50-55 degrees as well). Just put your bottle of **** on ice at least one hour before serving and you should be fine.
You also hit on another aspect of **** storage/serving...the varietals. Jesus Christ, the amount of varietals would make your head spin if you knew how many were actually out there. Hundreds and hundreds and hundreds and...well, you get the point.
It's funny, but in my years working in restaurants and my time spent in school, I noticed that every single person you talk to in life will have a different idea of "how" to serve/store wines. Everyone thinks they're right and everyone thinks you're wrong. My opinion, well...you already said it actually.
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No offense taken. Just trying to give pointers, you know.
SimonMK
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But wouldn't I look stupid saying hello and stand there with nothing else to say? And if we are both walking, wouldn't she think I am a freak if I say hello and move forward...
If you say hello and smile you will be able to read her reaction. She may say "hey do I know you?" It is a simple ice breaker. I'm trying to get you to talk. Like I said before women expect us to approach them so do it. You are inexperienced at dealing with women so you need practice. Saying hello is just giving you practice. No technique is going to work in every situation that is why I want you to say something so you develop your own style in dealing with women. Take this for example: when I walk into a nightclub and I see a woman/women I like I walk past and say "how are you doing tonight?" or "you having fun so far?" This gives me a chance to read their reaction to see if they are interested. It also cuts down on the chance of rejection because I am just asking them a polite question. It may seem like nothing but their verbal and physical response to that question tells me everything I need to know.:thumbsup:
I always hated flirting. I stunk at it. Eventually, I found I was at my best when I accepted exactly who and what I was - for the better and for the worse.
Since then, I NEVER try to pretend to be the slightest bit better then I am. I would rather they were pleasantly surprised with me later on then moderately disappointed.
I am completely honest about myself and my thoughts and feelings. And I expect them to be relatively similar - or I will not retain a significant emotional interest in them.
They can ask me any question they like - and I will answer it honestly. Or I will tell her that I do not feel comfortable enough to tell her. But I try never to lie or exaggerate in the slightest. But if they ask a personal question; they better be prepared to answer one themselves - to the same extent of openness as I did. Otherwise, an emotional bonding between the two of us will be more difficult. And this is the same if I have just met her or have known her for 5 years, though I realize most people are uncomfortable doing it this way.
Basically, I treat her like an equal. A more feminine equal. And I try to never forget to treat her as I would wish to be treated.
It ain't rocket science. We are all in this thing called life together.
Don't try and use them. And don't be naive in case they are trying to use you because many WILL try and use you (both intentionally and unintentionally).
The bottom line is: everyone wants to be loved - even jerks (IMO).
Since then, I NEVER try to pretend to be the slightest bit better then I am. I would rather they were pleasantly surprised with me later on then moderately disappointed.
I am completely honest about myself and my thoughts and feelings. And I expect them to be relatively similar - or I will not retain a significant emotional interest in them.
They can ask me any question they like - and I will answer it honestly. Or I will tell her that I do not feel comfortable enough to tell her. But I try never to lie or exaggerate in the slightest. But if they ask a personal question; they better be prepared to answer one themselves - to the same extent of openness as I did. Otherwise, an emotional bonding between the two of us will be more difficult. And this is the same if I have just met her or have known her for 5 years, though I realize most people are uncomfortable doing it this way.
Basically, I treat her like an equal. A more feminine equal. And I try to never forget to treat her as I would wish to be treated.
It ain't rocket science. We are all in this thing called life together.
Don't try and use them. And don't be naive in case they are trying to use you because many WILL try and use you (both intentionally and unintentionally).
The bottom line is: everyone wants to be loved - even jerks (IMO).
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